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Hello guys, today's rant is not as long as yesterday's.
Today I found the scenes overall quite cute and adorable however many people had problems with a few topics.
Ragini:
Many of us have been wondering whether Ragini visited Aarav. Now being revealed, I find the reason to much of an extent, acceptable. A mother can't see her son in pain, imprisoned, and helpless, especially when that child means so much to her. It isn't that Ragini doesn't love Aarav but rather she loves him too much that she can't see him broken. Guys remember what happened with ranbir when she realized he was going to be internally broken, she saved him. There she knew she could save him and that is exactly what she did. I think what Ragini fears the most is seeing her son and not being able to help him when he asks for help. That is perhaps the worst feeling for a mother, knowing that they cannot help their children. Which is why I find the reason completely acceptable. Anyways guys, this is even better for the audience if you look at it. Yesterday I mentioned in another post that both of them have to mature and advance together, well Ragini can visit Aarav with Neil. It would make sense, Ragini couldn't go with Aman because he can't emotionally become her support, only Neil can do that. Only Neil is capable of driving Ragini against her will. Guys, imagine the scene when Neil and Ragini visit Aarav, both being each other's support, confessing, expressing their emotions. It would turn the show around and head it towards a more mature direction.
Okay now for people who blamed Ragini for calling Jignesh, I hope today's episode changed your perspective. As you can see, Ragini meant no harm and even though her kids have difficulty understanding her, she understands her kids well, more than they understand themselves. She knew Nishi still loved Jignesh which is why she called him over, it wasn't to hurt Nishi but to take away her pain of separation because Ragini herself knew the pain of it. As for those who got furious when Ragini said I'm always right, don't getting he wrong idea. She wasn't being egotistic rather she was actually teasing Neil. Come on guys, she was holding back a smile because she didn't know what else to say, here she was trying to be mad at him and he comes and says something so adorable. She was teasing him because before he was irked at her and now he is agreeing with her, so she is provoking him. Even Neil knew that she didn't mean it and that could be identified from the light atmosphere. If they actually did mean it and Neil got upset, there would be loud yelling and one of them if not both would storm off in the opposite direction. But neither of them did that, Ragini continued to look downwards and even blush a little and Neil continued to stare at her. And that stare wasn't of anger but just of being in comfort with one another.
Okay now to the portion of the show regarding the reason behind Ragini's engagement. I think aagam summed it up well, ehsaan chukankeliye rishta jorliya. It was bang on. Okay so this is one of the situations that life presents you with where you can't be right or wrong. In the beginning if the show, many of you were complaining that Ragini was using dr. Aman and now that she decided to marry him, many of you are still complaining. I don't mean to call anyone out but I would like to say that the situation was so messed up that whatever she would do, she would still be at a loss. At least once in our lives we have faced a situation where whatever our decision may be, it can work to our disadvantage. Same applies here. As well guys, today ashaban even said it, Ragini has changed a lot, basically she is dead inside and that woman has no idea what's going on with her, I don't even think she truly realizes what she has done. She has established a relationship in order to return the favor. Guys unrelated to the show, if you ever come across a situation where in return of a favor you have to give up your self respect or go against your inner self, don't do it. While it may be noble to do so, it is not correct. Even morally it would be still be incorrect. Morals suggest that self respect comes first, hence you should find another way to return the favor which doesn't abuse your self respect. Ragini has to relearn this lesson, for she is so broken that what she has learned and dutifully followed for 15 years, she forgot in 9 months. But don't worry guys, that's what Neil is here for, there is no way that he will let Ragini be anyone else's other than his own. He won't allow it even if Ragini does and that is where the beauty of love falls into place, it gives you rights over an individual that even the individual themselves cannot refuse or deny.
Anyways down to the last part of the episode, the precap. Okay, I know I shouldn't but personally I loved the whole Aman getting beaten part, and that too by Ragini or Neira. While he may be a great friend and honest, he was becoming a nuisance to the show. An unreasonable addition which made the whole show and audience confused.
Anyways guys, I would like to again say that don't hate or get irritated at characters, I know that due to their actions we have difficulty relating to them but hopefully it will get better, be it Neil or Ragini, they will always be Neira for us and never separate. They both have their faults and they are far from idealistic characters but that is what makes them unique. After all we fall in love with people despite their faults and that is why it's called love.
Lastly if you didn't get my references to my former post, here is the link for it
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4404001
Next here is the link to a Neira vm that I really liked. I apologize if it has been posted already or you have watched it already, I found it online and I couldn't help but share it.
http://youtu.be/J1GszCVHAHQ
It's by SAM ARTZ and I found the video to be wonderful. Please do give it a look.
Sincerely A.
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
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