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SaJanLuv14

@SaJanLuv14

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

First I would like to remind all that this is a fictional show and that we are all hopefully more sensible and mature compared to the CVs.

Brief:

Priyom is a playboy, casanova, heartbreaker you name it. However he's clear of his actions and he always remains in the good books whether it's truly his intention, unintentionally or in other ways getting others to do his dirty work (rarely the case but it was a possibility when he asked Poonam to call off the marriage through a letter.)

Laakhan is a murderer, abusive and mentally unstable. Monster or not I'll let the court of this forum decide. He's physically assaulted Bindiya (don't care what she did, but there is no reason to answer everything in violence especially when it didn't start with violence). He has murdered an innocent family because they were considering an alliance with Poonam who he considers his property. Today he attempted to murder the kids to get his way. Murdering or attempting to murder kids has no justification.

Begusarai is has turned into one of the most twisted, confusing and ridiculous love triangle I've seen. What Laakhan has for Poonam is not love, it's possessiveness. He feels degraded in the power he got as a child when PT announced his wedding with Poonam. As for Priyom and Poonam what they both have for one another is comfort. It's a level of love but in the recent episodes I can't assure that they love each other just yet. They definitely care for one another and would give up their lives for each other but love isn't just about giving up your life for someone. Love is much more than comfort, sacrifice and care.

I want to ask all shippers or non-shippers of their opinion (all LaaAm and PriNam, Non-love story shippers)

Who should Poonam be with and why? What is love to you? What is redemption and how will it work for whom you ship?

No bashing, we are all respective of each others opinions.

Most importantly enjoy and raise forum activity 😃

Edited by SaJanLuv14 - 10 years ago

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Krupali

@Krupali

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

For me love is that...

which does not hold u back bt let u spread ur wings and let u be ur true self 😊

being possessive and protecting ur partner is one thing bt one should be careful that it wont chain down him/her.. possessiveness should also know when and how to 'let go'..

being a girl, I would not like if anyone treats me like a thing that can be possessed or owned... I don't want any 'special' treatment as a girl or woman BUT at least treat me as a human being and not as ur 'personal property'!

it may sound too dramatic (😛) bt that's what I also believe.. if u feel thrilled at the touch of a man, move on frm there till u find the one whose touch can make u feel warm and at comfort...

(..and for the last point I may slightly disagree wid u.. Love is not mere physical attraction bt care and respect for each other and that willingness to do sacrifices for each other's sake.. the best type of love in this world is that ur family has for you.. and that is made up of these care, comfort and sacrifices only 😊)

This is jst my take, on how I see love and what it is for me... no offence! 😊

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mai_manmauji

@mai_manmauji

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Well dear aap ne bola hai ye fictional show hai aur hume CV se jyada sensible hona chahiye,iss hisaab se toh kisi character or pair ko like karne k bajaya hume show hi dekhna band kar dena chahiye kyoki show me bahut kuch nonsense hai and I am 100% sure ki aage aur dikhya jaayega 😡 rahi baat meri toh mai kewal entertainment k khatir show dekhti hoon aur kya hone se show aur entertaining hoga,ussi ki fikar karti hoon,mai naa laakham shipper hoon aur naa prinam shipper,jo entertaining ho mai ussi k favour me rahoongi 😊 mughe bass itna kahna hai ki kisi particular character &pair ko like karne ka ye matlab bilkul nahi hai ki aap real life me bhi aisi hi cheezo k supporter hain...saalo pahle SRK ko negative role ne hi popular kar diya,sallu ki nonsense movies superhit hoti hain...so iska ye matlab thodi hai ki wo movie dekhne aur like karne waale onscreen dikhayi gayi baato ko bhi real life me support karte hain...meri najar me laakham or prinam shipper hona koi galat baat nahi hai aur naa uske liye koi justification dena jaroori hai,Jo cheez pasnd hai toh bass hai,usme kya galat hai 😕...galat tab hoga hai jab kuch log fictional characters n pair ko lekar other characters and pair ko like karne waalo k saath ladna-ghagrna aur gaali dena suru kar dete hain ...its my POV..,I hope mai kisi ko hurt nhi kar rahi apne reply se 😊😊

Edited by mai_manmauji - 10 years ago

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Black.Rose07

@Black.Rose07

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: mai_manmauji
Well dear aap ne bola hai ye fictional show hai aur hume CV se jyada sensible hona chahiye,iss hisaab se toh kisi character or pair ko like karne k bajaya hume show hi dekhna band kar dena chahiye kyoki show me bahut kuch nonsense hai and I am 100% sure ki aage aur dikhya jaayega😡rahi baat meri toh mai kewal entertainment k khatir show dekhti hoon aur kya hone se show aur entertaining hoga,ussi ki fikar karti hoon,mai naa laakham shipper hoon aur naa prinam shipper,jo entertaining ho mai ussi k favour me rahoongi😊mughe bass itna kahna hai ki kisi particular character &pair ko like karne ka ye matlab bilkul nahi hai ki aap real life me bhi aisi hi cheezo k supporter hain...saalo pahle SRK ko negative role ne hi popular kar diya,sallu ki nonsense movies superhit hoti hain...so iska ye matlab thodi hai ki wo movie dekhne aur like karne waale onscreen dikhayi gayi baato ko bhi real life me support karte hain...meri najar me laakham or prinam shipper hona koi galat baat nahi hai aur naa uske liye koi justification dena jaroori hai,Jo cheez pasnd hai toh bass hai,usme kya galat hai 😕...<font color="#000099">galat tab hoga hai jab kuch log fictional characters n pair ko lekar other characters and pair ko like karne waalo k saath ladna-ghagrna aur gaali dena suru kar dete hain...its my POV..,I hope mai kisi ko hurt nhi kar rahi apne reply se😊😊</font>

chha gayi guru

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candy02

@candy02

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Though going by the very recent developments, I feel that this series as well has become another enormous potential going down the drains; but a very good topic. As I've got experiences even worse than this, I'm still sticking to this. But seems my days are indeed going to become numbered. Unfortunate, as this is the only series I follow now-a-days.

In my opinion, Poonam should be concentrating on her studies and the prospect of her seemingly bright future career right now; instead of banging her head on the wall about which Thakur boy she should marry. Once she becomes self-sustaining, should choose an equally worthy guy. But it seems impossible right now due to the presence of people like Manchita, Lakhan, Dolte etc. around. In a nut shell, she should marry someone outside this Thakur clan to get a sane & peaceful life of her own.

Logically & morally, either getting killed or going to jail for life (at the end of the series) should be Lakhan Thakur's ideal fate. Priyom Thakur may get the throne at the end, but definitely should not get the girl; which should be his lesson of life. But logic has been thrown beyond the event horizon of a black-hole; so recovery is simply impossible. If we want to continue we should only expect absurdity.

Edited by chandrima02 - 10 years ago

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

The platonic way in which Priyom persistently sees Poonam irks me.

But I do think that with this track, when he saw her loyalty and love towards him and his family, he was extremely touched. Especially when she said that she'd die over living with Lakhan. And the trust she reposes in him.

The writers of "Begusarai" seem to be going on the right path. I've seen my share of shows depicting angry young men and their submissive partners. It gets old fast. Just my opinion.

The writers of these shows do not know how to write grey characters. They show all forms of abuse ranging from physical to the psychological and emotional, to delineate the hero's "love" for the heroine.

I do not agree with this at all. My conception of love encompasses trust, understanding, mutual affection, companionship, the ability to recognize your partner's desires, and to give them support even if you are apprehensive about a particular decision of theirs (of course, if they're making a mistake, you should intervene), a certain degree of compromise (because perfection is impossible, there's nothing called an ideal person), and most importantly a feeling of serenity and the simple joys of leading and sharing a life together.

I would also say that romantic love as opposed to platonic love definitely needs a spark of physical intimacy. There's nothing wrong in being attracted to your partner and desiring them. It's very healthy, that your emotional bond is strengthened by your physical attraction and vice-versa.

All that Priyom and Poonam need is that "spark" to get them going. And for Priyom to leave his promiscuity behind, of course. Otherwise, most of the ingredients are already present.

And yeah, Poonam and Lakhan are a BIG no-no for me. Just my opinion, and no offence intended to fans of this ship, I swear. I have personally seen some of my friends struggle with partners like these who are extremely possessive and suffocating, treating them like dirt and monitoring their every move. At the end, the women end up feeling afraid and threatened...love toh door ki baat hai. I myself have been stalked once for a short while, and I was extremely afraid for my life and my dignity. Thankfully, all ended well as I told my parents. But that overwhelming sense of fear, that I will never forget. You certainly don't feel wooed as they show in the movies, I'll tell you that😊

Edited by -Amri- - 10 years ago

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

Kudos to the topic maker for making a balanced post and providing scope for healthy debates and dissensions. I urge all fandoms to write in so that we can understand each other's points of view better.

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candy02

@candy02

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Abusive relationships invariably lead to psychological problems, even suicides later on and if it's a forced one then nothing more to say. I have seen real life example and that too to the extreme. So I never can tolerate such things, even it's being portrayed in reel life. Unfortunately the recent trend of fictional series' is this concept only !!!

Anyways, although a few ingredients are indeed present in P/P relationship but, as @Amri has pointed out, the intensity & the spark are missing. Since Poonam is going sacrifice herself to land into Lakhan's kitty, I see no whatsoever scope of that. Or may be, on the contrary, this incident would be acting as the spark. But won't that be too late !!!! May be, the creatives are planning to serve the audiences with an abusive hate saga + a tragic love saga !!!

Edited by chandrima02 - 10 years ago

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Krupali

@Krupali

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

@Chandrima02.. It'll be too early to predict that.. Coz it's not cleared yet that whether Poonam will be able to do what she has decided or not... Shaadi krne k liye haan krne me or shaadi krne me bhot fark he 😉

So.. Let's see..😛