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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know everyone here is discussing about him leading ananya on. And how she is goanna end up getting hurt. But i see a guy who has so many people who love him..who want to be with him..yet here he is standing in the middle of his kitchen cooking for himself..hanging by every text message of hers..she was his solace the one who made him feel he isnt lonely/alone. He realizes that already somewhere deep inside. That she is his savior..the one who can bring back the old kabir..who can make him smile..and joke..with whom he can be himself..
Then why didnt he go for dinner when she called him? Even when he said yes? You can see him pining and longing even before her text message..You can see the immediate transformation from sulky to almost a teen like excitement. It was so endearing to see. The contrast between the both of them was so blaringly obvious that it hurt. Where she is surrounded by friends and family he is all alone. All he has is her. The one who genuinely cares. How i wish he would've gone for that dinner. It would've been so heart warming to see kabir having people around him and not being all alone after such a huge mishap. To smile..and to be happy..

Maybe it would've been awkward..maybe it wasnt the right time..maybe sometime in the near future? The last bit atleast made up for some part of it though..the way he longingly calls his brother...his single dada incites so many emotions..it was really beautiful that phone conversation and him calling his brother over for dinner. This side of kabir sharma was something else. Would love to see more scenes between the both.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I guess Kabir must have thought he will feel out of place in the group. He has just started the friendship with Ananya and he isn't on close terms with the others. He does long for company but somehow I don't see him gelling well with the group even if he went... atleast not yet. He needs to let himself free and open up to people before that. But it was good that he didn't end up alone and invited his brother instead.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: S.Stephy

I guess Kabir must have thought he will feel out of place in the group. He has just started the friendship with Ananya and he isn't on close terms with the others. He does long for company but somehow I don't see him gelling well with the group even if he went... atleast not yet. He needs to let himself free and open up to people before that. But it was good that he didn't end up alone and invited his brother instead.


i know..i felt the same..

but it would've been lovely if ananyas mother had invited kabir over for a dinner to thank him for saving ananya...or something along those lines...i can already see a very good bond developing between him and her family. 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think so too,he might be out of place for one.
He is still the boss for the rest of the people, that might make the other people feel awkward as well.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes. Aaj ke epi me kuch toh hua Kabir ko. He was indeed waiting for Ananya's message. He actually kind of ran towards the phone when it beeped.
Maybe he thought it is not the right time. Maybe he wanted to be alone for just that night. He has forced this loneliness upon himself as pointed out by Rinnie. So many people love him. We don't know why he does what. I mentioned that in my post. Every single thing is by Ananya's pov. I want to see Kabir's pov. He is the lead right? It's his story too. Not only Ananya.
Today we saw a little progress as we saw him working in his kitche. We saw his house, his conversation with his brother, had a little insight into his personal space.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I actually typed up quite the long reply for your post but IF hates me It got erased 😡 So this is my second try 😆

Exactly!

You spoke my mind girl! 😃

Kabir isn't lonely actually but rather he forces himself to be alone, he shuns other people's company. Tarini had once asked him to stay for dinner but he didn't, Today Ananya ne pucha but he still didn't accept because wo hai hi aisa. In a way he likes to be a lone wolf at times, its in his nature. He has many people who love him and want to genuinely be with him but the fact he refuses is what confuses me too. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable I guess? Or he is just used to being by himself?

Either way, Kabir needs to learn to open up to the people around him if he doesn't want to be alone.
In a way, I'm quite like Kabir in this aspect that I like being by myself even during celebrations so I know yeh meri habit hai, I can't blame my loneliness on anyone because I sorta do seek it.

The same way Kabir needs to realize that he can't get out and neither can anyone get in if his walls are always so high.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I miss our discussions so bad!!! U can't imagine!
Thank u for this post behen!!
We TH sisters have a habit of thinking along the same lines!
Even i had this question, why didn't he go?!
For me, there were two reasons!

I don't think that Kabir Sharma is the kind of person who will not go to a get-together because he might feel out of place! He would have gone. But he didn't go because going with Ananya would mean the latter getting into Malvika's bad books! Kabir is established enough to handle his career and personal life. Ananya isn't. And Kabir knows that. He knows someone of Malvika's rank can destroy her dreams!
Did u see how he looked at Malvika before refusing Ananya? That says a lot!

Secondly, today for that one scene I realized the fine line that Kabir had drawn! Refusing her invitation was his subtle way of detaching himself from this false sense of 'getting close to her'. He knew that the more he gave in to Ananya's wishes, the more she gets closer to him and his past! I don't think he is at all ready to confide anything in her yet! Yes, he loves their camaraderie, but that's it! For him, Ananya is that person who reminds him of the person he used to be! He can be his old self to an extent with her! But Ananya has taken his friendship for something else totally! Time will tell us just how much deeply she has fallen!

Beautiful post btw! And once again, I really really miss our fierce discussions!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Anu- I agree . Saali WHatsapp se kaha bhaag gyi tu!! 😆
I want to ask one more thing. Why did Ananya say sorry to him at the end? I din't get that part.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: supriya.ipkknd

@Anu- I agree . Saali WHatsapp se kaha bhaag gyi tu!! 😆

I want to ask one more thing. Why did Ananya say sorry to him at the end? I din't get that part.


Was feeling terribly unwell, ab theek hun 😆
I think she said sorry because her question "Aap akele dinner kar rahe ho?" was kinda a reminder of him being alone! And when her mom said about his ex-wife, Ananya felt bad for asking him that :)

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Kabir is an extremely complicated person and it indeed is very difficult to gauge his thoughts. But one thing that is for sure is he "longed" for her reply and when she said she won't disturb him further, that visibly upset him. Which in fact is an indication he wanted the conversation to continue.
The reason why he dint go is a question I asked myself too and it is here I had wanted a monologue by kabir. Its the need of the hour in my opinion to let us know exactly what are his thoughts at the moment.

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