Desperate Husbends/Wifes???!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: nitasuni

Friends,I became a member of IF for another reason, but now a days inspite of shortness of time, some times I loggin to IF to relieve myself from desperation, i am married.

Hi nitasuni! That feeling of despair and the feeling of relieving pressure online is experienced by majority net users 😊. Net is a place where you speak up and have no fear of confrontation in person.. It takes few honest to accept it and hence your post makes me want to applaud you 👏.

The desperation of the other kind however, (mostly interpreted as desperation) is more serious, scary, unfortunate and luckily, not so common. This one results from lack of intimacy, lack of attention, failure in personal / professional life, lack of love and similar. Both the kinds in my mind are independent of gender, age, socio-economic status and marital-status.
Once again, such a genuine post there nita! - qt

I went for shopping today. Saw alot many desi people around. after observing them remember few lines from "Ab-e-gum" by Mushtaq yusufi (thought he was talking about british women but I think it is equally applicable over here in North America 😆 ...
"Badsurat(ugly) angrez urat(british woman) rarity hay ..badi mushkil say nazar aati hay.. yani hazaar main eik... Pakistani aur Hindustani usi urat say shadi karta hay !"
😆

Well ..what kind of desparation is this ?

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

I went for shopping today. Saw alot many desi people around. after observing them remember few lines from "Ab-e-gum" by Mushtaq yusufi (thought he was talking about british women but I think it is equally applicable over here in North America 😆 ...
"Badsurat(ugly) angrez urat(british woman) rarity hay ..badi mushkil say nazar aati hay.. yani hazaar main eik... Pakistani aur Hindustani usi urat say shadi karta hay !"
😆

Ya i think its true.....B4 marriage all desi's are so beautiful...lol😉😛

Well ..what kind of desparation is this ?

All kind of desperation....😳

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

I went for shopping today. Saw alot many desi people around. after observing them remember few lines from "Ab-e-gum" by Mushtaq yusufi (thought he was talking about british women but I think it is equally applicable over here in North America 😆 ...
"Badsurat(ugly) angrez urat(british woman) rarity hay ..badi mushkil say nazar aati hay.. yani hazaar main eik... Pakistani aur Hindustani usi urat say shadi karta hay !"
😆

Well ..what kind of desparation is this ?

white fever desparation..😆 i know one suffering from it.

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Hi nitasuni! That feeling of despair and the feeling of relieving pressure online is experienced by majority net users 😊. Net is a place where you speak up and have no fear of confrontation in person.. It takes few honest to accept it and hence your post makes me want to applaud you 👏.

The desperation of the other kind however, (mostly interpreted as desperation) is more serious, scary, unfortunate and luckily, not so common. This one results from lack of intimacy, lack of attention, failure in personal / professional life, lack of love and similar. Both the kinds in my mind are independent of gender, age, socio-economic status and marital-status.
Once again, such a genuine post there nita! - qt

Thank you Subhagya ji. To some extent I agree with your observation..

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

LOL Vinu..
Desparate people are desparate.
They come in all shapes, sizes, both genders, ages, levels of education, marital status, region, religion, financial status, working status.

Hence, imho there is no debate here.
Here's an article.. BTW, did you like to point this out?
https://archive.newsmax.com/archives/articles/2006/4/24/10295 3.shtml 😊

I agree with you cutes .. desparate people remain unsatisfied no matter what.

The thinking . not getting what one deserve is sometimes the main cause of frustration /despration etc especially among married people .

may be every person face a period or two in their life with such feeling ... which I guess is perfrectly normal but a person who remain like this on every stage is the one who has some built- in problem .

another thing I feel if a person says he\she is desparate .. most likely he\she is not the one we are discussing about 😆 atleast they know they have somekind of problem ..other kind mostly find problems in others 😉

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

I agree with you cutes .. desparate people remain unsatisfied no matter what.

The thinking . not getting what one deserve is sometimes the main cause of frustration /despration etc especially among married people .

may be every person face a period or two in their life with such feeling ... which I guess is perfrectly normal but a person who remain like this on every stage is the one who has some built- in problem .

another thing I feel if a person says he\she is desparate .. most likely he\she is not the one we are discussing about 😆 atleast they know they have somekind of problem ..other kind mostly find problems in others 😉

😆😆😆.. That is a new point well-said dew drop.. insecurities and lack of contentment with oneself is the prime casue of desperation among some people, no matter how accomplished they are / pretend to be..
The easy way out for them, is to look for signs of under-achievements or inadequacies in others to pamper their own ego. This also is a case of desperation although the outward apprearance could be cocky / self-assured.

Thanks you Nita!

Originally posted by: Believe

Iron, I will consider your Request.......😉

happiness is not everything naa😛

take it this way Vinu, no pleasure without pain 😆

Originally posted by: Iron78Iron

take it this way Vinu, no pleasure without pain 😆

ok with pleasure.......thanx..........😉 So u mean people need that pain always lol😛😉😊