I Feel Bad For Minty!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello Shastrians.😊
I didn't imagine even in wildest dreams that one day I'll feel for minty.😭 But after watching last episode of SS I felt so.😕

It is hurting to see your son ignoring you, and supporting his wife even after she tried to murdered you.😲 I know this is what Minty feels..her son refuses to believe her, and is showing his love for the other woman in his life. It is very difficult to accept.

Coming back home, Rajat looked at his mom, but didn't say : hello. He climbed the stairs to his wife's parents' house . At least Rajat could say something.😲

It is not that I don't understand Rajat's dilemma..I love Rajat . but sometimes I wish he could sense the danger before matters get worst. I wish he could guess that it is Kaajal who is poisoning his family against Anu ..before it is too late!😭

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Rajat has been such a trusting and loving son till he realised thatminty had tried to influence him against Anu using veer. That is a very treacherous thing for a mother to do. I was upset that rajat forgave minty for that easily.in fact for all the treacherous things she has done to rajat and Anu, the dev engaement fiasco,the lohri drama , tha veer fiasco she got let off easily by rajat. In fact I was upset with him when he forgave her so easily at that pooja.
I am happy that rajat took astand against minty in this kaajal drama. I am happy that rajat did not talk to her yesterday. The way she has blindly supported kaajal and insulted Anu all the time, it is time she got a taste of her own medicine

Rajat Sareen don't worry you are a wonderful son and husband .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhika_r

Rajat has been such a trusting and loving son till he realised thatminty had tried to influence him against Anu using veer. That is a very treacherous thing for a mother to do. I was upset that rajat forgave minty for that easily.in fact for all the treacherous things she has done to rajat and Anu, the dev engaement fiasco,the lohri drama , tha veer fiasco she got let off easily by rajat. In fact I was upset with him when he forgave her so easily at that pooja.

I am happy that rajat took astand against minty in this kaajal drama. I am happy that rajat did not talk to her yesterday. The way she has blindly supported kaajal and insulted Anu all the time, it is time she got a taste of her own medicine

Rajat Sareen don't worry you are a wonderful son and husband .



Agree 100%. I can understand what AwidaJi is saying, it hurts to see a dear son treat his mother like she is invisible, but every relationship needs respect on both sides for it to survive.

Minty wants to be the only woman in any Sareen's life - she is madly jealous of another woman sharing her son's life. Funnily enough, Kajal is doing every single thing Minty wrongly accused Anu of, and Minty is completely blind to it. Her prejudice is her undoing, and frankly it's just karma coming back to her.

No mother should be so scheming and outright malicious, and she thinks her son should support her?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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first i m nt feel bad for her. she deserves that. but after reading ur post. i feel sad for her. rajat want to gives equal love for both minty and anu also. but he nw support only his wife anu and rude behave with his own mom. it is nt fair yar. i knw rajat love both of them. but nw i think he going wrong. he ignor his mom it is so bad. if he going with anu its k. but atleast he want to speak with his mom. but he nt doing that. minty loves her son rajat lot. thats she got so much hurt.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with u awida dii, I can understand what all minty is going through. She must be in pain seeing her son not trusting her. A mother's relation with her child is nine months longer than any other relation. So a child should give more respect to his mother more than any one else, but rajat is also right on his place. He had seen his mother doing all wrong things with the shastri sisters especially anu , that has harmed him as well. So now it is difficult for him to trust his mother. Both are right at their places. Can't blame anyone.
Thanxx do u changed my thinking towards minty, now I can understand her better.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: appuaks



Agree 100%. I can understand what AwidaJi is saying, it hurts to see a dear son treat his mother like she is invisible, but every relationship needs respect on both sides for it to survive.

Minty wants to be the only woman in any Sareen's life - she is madly jealous of another woman sharing her son's life. Funnily enough, Kajal is doing every single thing Minty wrongly accused Anu of, and Minty is completely blind to it. Her prejudice is her undoing, and frankly it's just karma coming back to her.

No mother should be so scheming and outright malicious, and she thinks her son should support her?




Thanks Awida Sis for this topic!!
You have a soft heart!!Love u for that 😊
You are right, somehow CVs are trying to gain our sympathy for Minty ! But sorry to say ... I can't feel with her

In Minty's case totally agree with Radhika and Aparna !!
I can't forget her evil deeds soo easily 😕
Rajat tried to convince his mom soo many times . .. But what did she do ?? ? Thought about her ego only 😕 tried to separate him from his wife ?? I can't forget the scene of Veer and Anu's engagement, where Minty was dancing while Rajat had tears in his eyes and his heart was breaking!!!
How could a mother be like that Sis????
I don't know how to justify her behaviour!!
It's tough for me to sympathise with her...
Maybe I could be wrong !
Edited by _habiba_ - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Minty loves her son very much. There is no question about it but she failed to realize that in her quest to expel Anu out of Rajat's life she would ultimately end up hurting her son. The insecurity she felt before the Lohri fiasco has also stemmed out of this love. She knows she holds the most important place in her sons heart yet she could not bear to see that place being shared that too by a girl whom she so intensely dislikes.

If Minty feels that Rajat has drifted apart from her , it is because of her own doing. There is no justification for that. Rajat loves his mother alot but his detachment is quite understandable.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just understand the situation of Rajat. In real life also gents become sandwich between mother and wife .who so ever be at fault if they take side of one of them the other will be angry. However Rajat forgive minty but now the situation is quite serious someone is trying to harm his wife whom he loves alot how can he tolerate this and that too within his own family. His arrogance towards his mother is some what justify she always support Kajal whatever happened so he is disappointed with his parents this time with sareenji also.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: appuaks



Agree 100%. I can understand what AwidaJi is saying, it hurts to see a dear son treat his mother like she is invisible, but every relationship needs respect on both sides for it to survive.

Minty wants to be the only woman in any Sareen's life - she is madly jealous of another woman sharing her son's life. Funnily enough, Kajal is doing every single thing Minty wrongly accused Anu of, and Minty is completely blind to it. Her prejudice is her undoing, and frankly it's just karma coming back to her.

No mother should be so scheming and outright malicious, and she thinks her son should support her?


agree wid radhika n aparna Jo minty ne kya hai anu ke saath after that she deserve this
Edited by hanii_0 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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👏 -to our forum members- a very good , sensible, clean debate here.
good points on both sides. Feel bad for minty, yes, but it is also true that
she has done worse than she is getting. This is very realistic- i have known
quite a few people who inflict so much pain on others but seem shocked ,
hurt & bitter when they face even the mildest rejection. their ignorance ,
self-obsession & one-sided thinking are their enemies-not other people!

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