Greeting strangers beneficial in anyway?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Some parts of similar discussion have been discussed. Revisitng as debate: Greeting strangers hi/hello / how are you whenever we meet, part of western culture.

Is not greeting strangers rude?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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It is not rude in bigger and crowded cities even here to not initiate the greeting. I think it is very rude however, when someone greets you and you don't respond.
I am so used to greeting strangers now, that in India, I surprise strangers.. Once a woman even asked me " Do I know you? ๐Ÿ˜ญ "
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

It is not rude in bigger and crowded cities even here to not initiate the greeting. I think it is very rude however, when someone greets you and you don't respond.
I am so used to greeting strangers now, that in India, I surprise strangers.. Once a woman even asked me " Do I know you? ๐Ÿ˜ญ "

Must be a chain marketier, ohh how much i hate them, atleast the point when they say, come to our seminar for home business. One should be happy atleast Indian greeted, am toh given up. Not sure the reason but south asians seldom respond to greeting.

Greetings is way to acknoeledge presence of another individual, nice gesture. It's a cultural aspect, might be considered as rude if one doesn't participate.

Edited by raj5000 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj5000

Must be a chain marketier, ohh how much i hate them, atleast the point when they say, come to our seminar for home business.



Oh LOL.. they start the conversation with strangers.. which is not equivalent of a sweet and sincere greeting.. I was a huge target for AMWAY people.. thanks to the listening ear i have ๐Ÿคข.
Nalin had to almost grab hold of me and rescue me by rudely telling them to cut it out.. ๐Ÿ˜†..
midwest is amazing with strangers greetings strangers no NO HIDDEN AGENDAS ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I hate it if people just pass by and ignore each other,just say hi and smile at them, you might make them happier and you'll make yourself feel more satified and confident ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Hi all Waves ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Believe

I hate it if people just pass by and ignore each other,just say hi and smile at them, you might make them happier and you'll make yourself feel more satified and confident ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Hi all Waves ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜‰



Oh wow.. Molly Malone says the same exact thing!
https://www.43things.com/things/view/32212
That is soo amazing.

I agree with both of you though..
Even a smile from a stranger can sometimes lighten your burden and brighten your day or add more color to it than already is :)
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Believe

I hate it if people just pass by and ignore each other,just say hi and smile at them, you might make them happier and you'll make yourself feel more satified and confident ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Hi all Waves ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜‰

@ bold - Are you talking about desi's, I so gave up on few dear country mates... that untill a see a nudge, think twice to greet, wonder whats up with the atti.

Hi All waves back, how are doing tonite๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

Greeting is good implement in day to day, yes even in desh.๐Ÿ˜ณ ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

I am so used to greeting strangers now, that in India, I surprise strangers.. Once a woman even asked me " Do I know you? ๐Ÿ˜ญ "

Awww.. I can totally imagine that cutes. If you are in an elevator in India with some random dude and if you say hello to show some politeness and courtesy, your politeness will be taken in quite an interesting way. The whole greeting strangers thing doesn't go well with Indians in India.. afterall itna bada desh hai afterall, kitne kitno ko greet karega ek aam aadmi!?!

But overall, I think Be Roman in Rome. Since western countries believe in greeting strangers, so be it! Do that so you don't stand back and also because there is nothing wrong in it. And since we get stares in India, we should just let it go... If the strager we didn't greet turns out to be your future boss, it's not like s/he is going to judge you, since the greeting system is just not prevelant.

Edited by rutumodi915 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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For some reason it's not so prominent in India then the Western culture. I think it's just polite to nod or smile at someone's passing by! In India, people find it weird though. One of my friends smiled at some guys sitting next to her in a bus b/c she was trying to be polite. Yuh that didn't go so well
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: rutumodi915

Awww.. I can totally imagine that cutes. If you are in an elevator in India with some random dude and if you say hello to show some politeness and courtesy, your politeness will be taken in quite an interesting way.

๐Ÿ˜† hehe Rutu, been there, done that, was embarrassed to mention, but what the hell! I admit it now. Something tells me you also have a first hand experience ๐Ÿ˜†.

It bugs me that some desis stare and stare and stare more to glory (men and women with different expression ๐Ÿ˜›), but do not work their levator labii superioris and others.. when you look back in thier eyes.
Helllo!!!! You stared anyway as if someone were a painting, then atleast give them a smile dude / dudette!

Edited by mermaid_QT - 18 years ago

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