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DECLARATION:i am not a rebel...i am just voicing my opinion😆
i have seen many posts on this forum saying that why is Nisha's name still Nisha Gangwal .
i am against the idea of changing a girl's name after her marriagewhy should a girl change her surname after her marriage?
name of an individual is his/her identity,part of her life,the fundamental thing that makes him/her recognize in this society!
parents are the most important ppl in the world-whether a girl is married or not!
so why can't nisha be Nisha Gangwal...is it really important that we should erase that Gangwal from her name...Gangwal family is where she was born and brought up It is where she grew and matured over the years as an individual
see i have nothing against addressing nisha as Mrs Kabir Kumar(going by the rules of the society though i am not completely satisfied) when we speak formally...but changing her name to Mrs Nisha Kabir Kumar ...is that really necessary?i don't think so...
somewhere i find the hands of the patriarchal society behind this ritual(i wud like to call it as a ritual)why should the girls alone change their surnames?why not the boys?ok...why should anyone change their names?
marriage means that the union of two individuals ,their families and their cultures...what makes them think that the girl is donated or gifted to the boy's family(i hate to say this but this is the way society thinks-which is reflected in the rituals of kanyaadan and dowry...)
some may say that the new name reminds the girl abt her responsibilities and that she is no longer a kid but a wife-the term that brings responsibilities to a girl's life!-but what can a name change?i really don't knw...
if the CVs are so much interested in showing that they can change her name to Nisha Gangwal Kumar or something like that(i knw that it sounds really stupid😆)-but i am still against this !
pls tell me ur opinions...
PS:this is a serious post!!!😆
