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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Inconvenient truths.

I will not blame Jagya that he told half truth. He confessed that he did wrong and that is a great thing in itself. It is upto mannu to accept it at face value.

But why did he hush up about gauri? The reason for his breakup was Gauri, not Ganga. Mannu may think that ganga was responsible for the breakup.

About ratan. This was the right time for Jagya to tell about ratan too, not fearing ganga. Jagya could have told what a sub human ratan was and mannu would have turned out another ratan. Ratan might have saved mannu's life but he did not do it voluntarily.

And dadisa should have been there during these revelations and she should have told that she is no devta but did lots of mistakes like bal vivah, not allowing anandi education etc.

Here only 2 persons come out completely clean. Anandi and Ganga.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

I guess Gauri phase in life is also covered under the heading of mistakes 😛

His hooking up with Gauri while he was still married to Anandi was his fault

Keeping Gauri in the dark for five years about his marriage was a wrong thing he did

He knew Gauri's feelings were growing deeper with each passing day yet he didn't distance himself from her that was a his fault too

When he found out his marriage with Gauri had no legal standing he never did anything to correct that

His constant comparisons of Gauri with Anandi that was his mistake too

He never severed his connections with Anandi that was his mistake too

Which wife would like to see her husband sneak out of the bed in the night to call his ex wife?

Why would that wife not feel insecure?

Both Gauri and he were equally at fault in their marriage

Gauri for not walking out on him when she realised that their marriage was not legal and also later on when he still continued to have contact with his estranged legal wife.

Jagya was at fault for the way he used her concealing bade papa's truth as an excuse to dump her and what's more for thinking that he can walk back into Anandi's waiting arms

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Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yes, it is inconvenient truth, but I am happy with the way Jagya handled it.

At least he did not beat around the bush or covered up facts. He stated the facts rights i.e. yes they were married - it did not work out - he was more at fault - but yet respects Anandi.

He did not bring about Gauri, but in my opinion, it was right. Mannu is not in a position to handle to grave truths in a jiffy like this, especially when he got half-baked info from outsiders. As a father, Jagya temporarily satisfied Mannu's curiosity but did not push him into dark facts of life all at once.

However, in my opinion, Jagya needs to share this with Ganga, and then both of them need to reveal everything about their past to Mannu in the way that Mannu can handle without judging them or feeling tormented. And after communicating, they both need to act as his support system till Mannu can fully accept the truth. Currently Mannu is shattered.

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Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

On the same note, I also liked the way Anandi told Shivam about Nandin's existence without beating around the bush but yet telling him only what he can handle.

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

I think for Mannu at this age what he has been told is enough

The whole truth about Jagya Anandi Gauri issue will be too much for him to handle at this age.

Just like that even Ganga can tell Mannu about Ratan . The whole truth can be told when he is older emotionally more mature

Anandi and Dsa told Shivam just what he needs to know at that age

The importance of knowing the truth from right source has been demonstrated in these two scenes.

Being truthful yet not burdening those small kids with the weight of the entire truth.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

I agree it is difficult for children to handle facts and they will not be able to appreciate the circumstances under which certain things had taken place.

And adults also cant handle if they are exposed fully before their kids.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
I agree it is difficult for children to handle facts and they will not be able to appreciate the circumstances under which certain things had taken place.

And adults also cant handle if they are exposed fully before their kids.

I think truth about Nandini may also come out soon in front of Shivam because Pooja knows about it.

Hope Anandi gets to know that Pooja now knows about her child marriage and how she lost Nandini while she was too busy saving another kid and tell Shivam about that before he gets to know from Pooja.

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Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yup, Nandini's truth can blow up on Shivam's face unexpectedly. And then Anandi and JaGan will be left to heal the unexpected wounds on their children's minds respectively.

One can't blame the parents here.

Parents need to wait for the right time, right age and maturity in their children before dark secrets are revealed to them. But at the same time, it is not within the control of the parents to stop any outsider from reaching out their children. Parents can only do what is within their control.

And children too will have to put up with parent's past willingly or unwillingly till they are in a position to accept it. Parents just have to be patient and act as a child's support, regardless of whether the child judges them wrongly or not.

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Muktchand

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Posted: 10 years ago

I doubt Nandini's entire truth revealed in front off Shivam now ...

well today Ganga will blast Sarita Pooja... after this Sarita won't allow Pooja to utter word

when Anandi finds out Nimboli is Nandini then all truth might comes out

seeing segment in TV it seems ...Nimboli Anandi bond going strong now Shivam too join them...

for time being Nimboli bonds with Shivam Anandi without knowing truth ..

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agree regarding Mannu ..whatever Jagya told is enough for him...

Ganga Jagya needs to talk now ...I guess now Jagya will again ask Ganga to reveal Ratan's identity to Mannu...

hopefully Ganga listen Jagya ...if Jagya Ganga sit with Mannu told him Mannu won't be depress or shock ...

it seems due Ganga's stubbornness Mannu eventually hates Jagya ..Poor kid suffer in middle of this...

wonder if Pooja try avoid him now it will add more trauma for Mannu

Edited by blushing - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#10

While Shivam and Anandi relationship is straight mother son relationship with it's usual ups and downs till now their shift to BH will hopefully make Shivam realise how alone his mother is without him and how she is pining for his twin sister.

Now that he is waiting for his sister to make her appearance knowing the truth may make him closer to his sister and probably be the bridge between them

Like the way how Anandi and Nandini are coming closer without knowing about each other.

Anandi knows that the little girl feels unloved and the little girl knows that Anandi is searching for her lost daughter . This bond will help them sail the rough weather.

Similarly Jagya and Mannu have a strong bond which should help them in these troubled times.

After all this is what strong relationships are meant for.