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Posted: 10 years ago
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I dont know why cvs r showing so much bond between shivam and dadisa.
why they r not showing such bond between abhi and dadisa?

Shivam is so much attached to dadisa.

May be the bond is cute but its too much.

CVS never shown such attachment of dadisa with abhi .


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Maybe Abhi never got attached to dadisa
Ganga may have taken him with her when she went to do the med studies as he was too young to be left without a mother

Then as we all know Anandi is Dsa ki ladkuwar so maybe that insecurity was there that my child will be less loved and be made to feel like unwanted so was kept away from Dsa

Shivam runs to and spends time with Dsa but Abhi has never done that

Bond is not made just by blood Love bhi hona chahiye

Mannu made that bond with Dsa on his own just like Shivam

Still we see that bond

Edited by Chahanya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jayshree1942

I dont know why cvs r showing so much bond between shivam and dadisa.

why they r not showing such bond between abhi and dadisa?

Shivam is so much attached to dadisa.

May be the bond is cute but its too much.

CVS never shown such attachment of dadisa with abhi .



Don't understand which part of that bond is too much? I think it's lovely to see such a young boy thinking of others. It shows his good nature.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Which is too much?
The little boy who is bonding naturally with his grand parent?

That shows how he has brought up.

He knows to show and shower his love. That is really nice. He is making DS feel good.

And yesterday's scene was very cute.

They both are looking like kids badly missing each other
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yesterday, the scene between dadisa and shivam was very nice... He was concerned why dadisa did not have her lunch.
It shows the caring nature of an 11-yr old. He is just like his mother, caring and affectionate.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Liked that scene between Shivam and Dsa very much.
This bond is quite deep.
It's not just Dsa showering the boy love and affection but the little boy reciprocating too.
But with Dsa how she is capable spoiling kids with her affection hope Anandi balances this with right amount of firmness.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well scene between dadisa and shivam is cute but pata nahi q mujhe feeling aa rahi hai ke bv cvs koi bhi cheez bina matalab ke nahi dikhate.
dadisa ka khana nahi khana, ye dikhata hai ke she is still upset rather not digested this fact that anandi is not staying in bh. shivam ko kehena ke mein kal se aur jaldi aayungi prasad dene, ye behaviour thoda immature lagata hai.

Pata nahi par mujhe lagata hai ke - it wont be normal loving bond. Ismein bhi kuch jhol honewala hai. I mean dadisa is pretending to be happy, but she is not.

Anandi was also thoughtful when dadisa came to give prasad.

Well as aparnauma said anandi has to balance this love.

Koi bhi baat limit ke bahar ho toh nuksan karati hai.

kahi aisa na ho ke dadisa future mein bimar ho jaye.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jayshree1942

Well scene between dadisa and shivam is cute but pata nahi q mujhe feeling aa rahi hai ke bv cvs koi bhi cheez bina matalab ke nahi dikhate.

dadisa ka khana nahi khana, ye dikhata hai ke she is still upset rather not digested this fact that anandi is not staying in bh. shivam ko kehena ke mein kal se aur jaldi aayungi prasad dene, ye behaviour thoda immature lagata hai.

Pata nahi par mujhe lagata hai ke - it wont be normal loving bond. Ismein bhi kuch jhol honewala hai. I mean dadisa is pretending to be happy, but she is not.

Anandi was also thoughtful when dadisa came to give prasad.

Well as aparnauma said anandi has to balance this love.

Koi bhi baat limit ke bahar ho toh nuksan karati hai.

kahi aisa na ho ke dadisa future mein bimar ho jaye.


@the only english parts that I understood -

Dadisa is pretending to be happy? Guess so..! how can she be truly happy when Anandi is made to leave haveli with such baseless taunts?

More than thoughtful, I think Anandi was surprised to see DS ...she wasn't expecting her at that time.

Anandi balancing love between DS and Shivam doesn't seem to be a problem either. It is true that DS has the tendency to pamper and spoil her grandsons. She used to interfere a lot during Jagya and Nandu's time. But nowadays , I don't see her interfering at that level. Atleast when it comes to Anandi-Shivam...never seen her coming between them. So am glad she's only showering love in a positive way and not interfering or influencing Shivam in a wrong way.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lol when Anandi is made to leave BH with such baseless taunts i am indeed watching some different serial🤔 because Anandi was taunted when ?
O i see Ganga saying to Jagya Anandi had no right to make this decision about Mannu without asking us Promising Ratan she will make him meet with Mannu without asking us just like we don't have any right to make decision about her kid same she did not have

This was baseless taunt to poor Anandi ??Very bad Ganga you should have fallen on Anandi 's feet immediately O thy highness you have all rights to do anything Whatever you do whatever you say what you decide for our lives our kids lives is equal to verses in a holy book for me I will follow your commands You all rights to interfere in our personal lives we don't have but you have

Since Ganga did not do this so Ganga bad woman and Anandi poor victim who wants a right on others lives when not given she runs from the house becoming victim

Dadisaa is pretending to be happy because she did not want Anandi to leave BH but Anandi was adamant to leave Rest if Dadisa thinks Ganga is so wrong why she has no issue with Ganga 😛DS did not support Anandi neither even in her mind blamed Ganga She let Anandi go because she wanted to She was crying in front her but DS never said Ganga has made my poor Anandi leave
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chahanya

Maybe Abhi never got attached to dadisa

Ganga may have taken him with her when she went to do the med studies as he was too young to be left without a mother

Then as we all know Anandi is Dsa ki ladkuwar so maybe that insecurity was there that my child will be less loved and be made to feel like unwanted so was kept away from Dsa

Shivam runs to and spends time with Dsa but Abhi has never done that

Bond is not made just by blood Love bhi hona chahiye

Mannu made that bond with Dsa on his own just like Shivam

Still we see that bond

Mannu did not make bond with DS on his own DS made with him First it was DS who started to be affectionate to Mannu and Mannu responded her love DS Mannu's first bonding started with putting an affectionate hand on his head and gave him Jagya's childhood clothes , cradle and toys to play with Later she was very very loving to Mannu Mannu became fond of her used to call her Dadisaa When Ganga used to study and Jagya was in hospital Dadisaa used to play with Mannu Thats how they bonded
Dadisaa told shivam stories , brought stuff for him thats how he bonded with her and approach her for these things

Adults make bond with children thats why how children bond with them Adults shower love on them thats how children love them

Mannu was 2.5 year old He was quite young when Ganga got medical seat Even it is tough for him to stay without mother He could not sleep one night without mommy when she was kidnapped He was asking Jagya where is maa when she will come

@Bold you mean to say this was Ganga's insecurity She kept Abhi away from Dadisaa he will be less loved from Anandi's child really? as Anandi is Dadisaa's laadli then whose son is Abhi?Dadisaa 's ladesar's

Dadisaa who was desperate to see her ladesar's son IT was her biggest wish and Ganga knows that She was so desperate to see his face She showed her desire in front of sumitra like this This is my only remaining wish i want to see my great grandchild Jagdish's own son ( even when Mannu was there but still she was desperate for Jagya's son ) When they will show me his face Before i take my last breathe i want to see my great grandchild face This is my only wish and Ganga heard that


and Dadisaa was on cloud nine when abhi was born Aaj mein uper aasman neeche aaj mein aage zamana hai peechay 😆 Dadisaa was flying very high

Jagya and Ganga gave her a gift of her framed picture with Abhi and Dadisaa was so so happy she said you both fulfilled my biggest wish now Gave me the biggest happiness of my life

Seeing Jagya playing with his son she was emotionally telling Ganga i only wanted to see that she was so happy

so you think Ganga had insecurity Dadisaa will love shivam more thats why she kept Abhi away from Dadisaa ? 😕It is impossible Why Ganga will do this ?

Abhi who smiled seeing Dadisaa the day he was born now has no bonding with her and Abhi has shown his problems in front of her so so many times she does not even for once think how to remove his misunderstandings ? why not? if she loves , care for him , she is not at fault then why she does not think of some plan how to make him feel better ?she does not bother at all and stays quiet why?why she cannot talk to Jagya Ganga our Abhi thinks like this what can we do to make him feel he is thinking wrong but she does not Why?

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