Originally posted by: kclovearshi
Jen, I want to apologize for sounding negative again as I'm failing to understand Khushi; And I do know she is a flawed human being and she made mistakes and to err is human; she is learning along the way through this journey as you have said; and by criticizing her there is no way that I'm being a perfect human being, may be I would have done the same mistakes if I were in her place..
First of all, the emails were a gateway to what she couldn't verbalise in that fateful meeting of theirs and were beautiful but she still sounded defensive; And I still don't get the mode of communication, the phone calls, texts, emails..when barging into his apartment, holding his collar and punishing him with a scorching kiss would have ebbed his anger away!!😉 Oh yes, she lost the card reader but if I were her, I would just wait in front of his apartment just like she did one time before..
And I don't get why Arnav wouldn't accept her apology via the electronic communication methods and hellbent on her coming to his apartment. Okay fine then why didn't he tell her that? And now how is he having a change of heart all of a sudden?
Two things I did not agree - Khushi moving out and accepting an assignment in a war torn country given how fragile her dad's health is.. Yes Sujata was being a pain in the rear but what about her dad? Wouldn't it pain him immensely when she made a decision to move out and if he knew she was going to a war torn country going to which is like a suicide mission? No father will agree to this and if something happened to her that would be a death sentence for Navin.. Did she think of her father & sister if not her mother before making that decision? (Please don't take me wrong, I love what Doctors without borders do and I have immense respect for the people who serve poor people but at least there has to be some respect for human life in those places or some semblance of law & order)..
I think she was dejected from all people around her and made that decision on a whim, so then what did Khushi achieve by distancing Arnav in the first place? Or what was she hoping to achieve in the interim? If she hadn't done that, let Arnav and Astha into her family, chances were her parents would have been more accepting of Arnav as he would have taken care of her father as a son would do, given her moral strength and be an anchor to her & her family..
Anyways, she did what she did and to err is human again..
And Sujata would rather have Khushi live separately by herself but won't have a divorcee as a son in law; if she suspected Khushi moved in with Arnav then where was a mother's worry when the said person came looking for her daughter? Did she not worry about Khushi's safety?
Anita is understandably mad at Arnav for his behavior towards her sister but did she know the full story? And it was reckless of her to send him to Boguila if she did it purposefully that is.. But I think the murders may have happened after she told him and he was already on his way?
I read in another story that true love is painful, so I guess this is what both have been doing to each other, pushing it too far until the other is broken.. They both are equally responsible to where they are right now; I think there needs to be forgiveness on both sides and mends..And they need to start with a soul searing kiss😉Madison can be explained later😆
My humble and honest opinion, no way meant to offend and I only want the best for Khushi & Arnav😳😃
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