Why cant Ragini let it go?

Originally posted by: King07

Lakshya has told her for 3rd or 4th time that he doesn't love her and plus how can she be with someone who is always going to be nothing but 2nd choice for him?

She really needs to see reality for what it is and move on from Lakshya as she is getting nothing but pain from this.

Originally posted by: jyotic74

Then the same should apply to lakshya...as even swara doesn't love him...and lakshya shouldn't force himself on her...swara too should get the boy of her choice...and character of lakshya is horrible. ..he had no business to lead on ragini...if anyone has to be blamed it is lakshya...and imagine a sisters plight when she comes to know thst her would be jijaji is line maroing on her...it is preposterous. ...it would have been different if swara and lakshya would be attracted and in love with each other before the engagement fiasco. ..but now...i don't want swaras character to be mutilated by cvs...I love swara for what she is...and i want her to show lakshya his correct place...a person like lakshya can never be trusted...why don't anyone sees it from swaras pov...why make swara suffer due to lakshya one sided love...if ragini is leeching on to lakshya then even lakshya is leeching on yo swara...i don't want swaras character to be spoilt. Cvs till now have developed swara nicely. ..

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

From what we can assume, this is the first time Ragini has been attracted to someone seriously. She's dreamed about living with Lakshya and his family. She loves the image of him she's created in her head. It's hard for anyone to part with that.

Secondly, Ragini had let go of her feelings for Laksh. She had accepted that she couldn't be with him. But then Dadi made her feelings go higher. And then she looked at Swara/ her parents and realized that sometimes you gotta fight for your love. And then Laksh comes and declares her as his fiance in front of everyone. Of course she' going to be after him.

I think Ragini's actions make sense tbh. We all want Laksh to fight for his love for Swara, so although I'm annoyed by RagYa, I also don't mind seeing Ragini fight for her love for Laksh.

Speaking of whom, Swara was completely right in slapping him -- he's playing with her sister's feelings. But at the same time, Laksh was also in an extremely difficult situation (I feel like Swara would've done the exact same thing as Laksh had the situations been reversed).

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

Lady @bold agreed! but what do you make of Swara and Ragini's silence whilst dadi was humiliating laksh's family and he was begging her for his brother's life? to take a higher stand and be self righteous is easy. lets put aside the romantic interests and who loves whom for a second and just think. heres this guy without whose assistance swara and ragini would not have been able to unite their families. yes he caused many situations before but had the guts to admit it and repent. he could've helped them quietly sneaking out of his house and not letting his family know. but instead, he left his house and went against his dad to take a stand for them, without his help theres no way swara could've stopped dada dadi from either committing suicide or getting shekhar to make another compromise, without his plan dadi wouldn't have accepted Shomi even pretending, dida would've sold the bari, and without his assistance and trust swara wouldn't have been able to save shomi and expose dadi, who else would've helped her? noone else believed her. laksh came to their aid in a matter of a phone call everytime they needed him. swara went as far as to say he's my best friend. yet neither swara nor ragini protested to help him in his time of need? they both just watched as laksh literally fell to dadi's feet. were they being good friends to him? would love to hear your take!

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

I'm actually a bit conflicted on that tbh. In general, I feel like SwaRag haven't really been as good friends to Laksh as he's been to them. But when it comes to Laksh asking Dadi to let Ragini come, Swara did make an attempt to go and help him. She was going to say something -- perhaps tell Laksh to get up from Dadi's feet and tell Ragini to come with her to Maheshwari house? But Sumi stopped her from going and say anything. Which tbh, I think Sumi also did the right thing. At the end of the day, decisions regarding Ragini can only technically be taken by either Ragini herself, Shekhar, Dada ji, or even Dadi. Swara and Sumi are still technically outsiders and if Swara had said anything, the situation would've been made a lot worser.

Also a point to note, is that as soon as Laksh went on his knees, Sumi and Swara were immediately sympathetic to him and felt really bad. Sujata, Dadi, and Ragini were just shocked. So Swara and Sumi did feel bad and would've probably let Ragini go in a heartbeat to help Sanskaar, had it been up to them, which it wasn't.

I think the ideal scenario would've been for Ragini to shut everyone up and just go herself to Maheshwari house, but that wouldn't have happened LOL. But in regards to SwaRag being good friends to Laksh while he was begging on his knees, the short answer is no. The long answer is that Swara was stopped from being a good friend by her mother whereas Ragini was just quiet with seemingly no intention to help him ( at least initially).