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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am finding Shivam quite irritating. What he wants to prove chipkaoing DS and trying to poke fun?

I am not going to blindly support him just because he is anandi shiv's son.

I think anandi is realising this and also her level of warning is increasing.

I will not be surprised if he turns out into another sanchi. Only saving grace is anandi may not allow the situation go out of control.

I have seen such boys and girls who chipko teachers and try to get favours from them.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shivam doesn't seem to chipkao just to get favours.
He is a very demonstrative kid and he is just expressing his feelings

When he sees that Abhi is getting irritated he does it even more  which I think is the problem 
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Poor Abhi has no idea that he and only he is DadiSa's real great grandson. I wish someone told him that he is paying the price of being the real khoon. Or that only he has the Singh parivaar's Blue Blood running through his veins. Maybe he will feel better about everything and this will give him an edge over others.

When Shivam and Anandi came to BH while Shivam was a baby, he was spoilt rotten by Ganga, Jagya and Dsa in sympathy that he had lost his father. Ganga had taken Abhi's toys and given to Shivam. Anandi had tried stopping her by telling her not to do it else it will become a habit. Nobody paid heed to it.

I do not think that Shivam is deliberately trying to needle Abhi by rushing to DadiSa. He has been shown to be close to her and it is his normal exuberant self that comes out. He and Abhi returned from school in good humour. Shivam saw Dsa and rushed to hug her.

Wonder what is chipkoo about hugging one's own grandmother after returning from school. Wonder what stopped Abhi from doing the same. Does he not love his grandmom. He could have rushed to her first, instead of feeling bad that Shivam did.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shivam will realise when anandi moves out. He has indirectly caused his mother some problem.

I hope DS will try to win abhi. She is seeing the symptoms and abhi should get his share of love from her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: RTee

Poor Abhi has no idea that he and only he is DadiSa's real great grandson. I wish someone told him that he is paying the price of being the real khoon. Or that only he has the Singh parivaar's Blue Blood running through his veins. Maybe he will feel better about everything and this will give him an edge over others.

When Shivam and Anandi came to BH while Shivam was a baby, he was spoilt rotten by Ganga, Jagya and Dsa in sympathy that he had lost his father. Ganga had taken Abhi's toys and given to Shivam. Anandi had tried stopping her by telling her not to do it else it will become a habit. Nobody paid heed to it.

I do not think that Shivam is deliberately trying to needle Abhi by rushing to DadiSa. He has been shown to be close to her and it is his normal exuberant self that comes out. He and Abhi returned from school in good humour. Shivam saw Dsa and rushed to hug her.

Wonder what is chipkoo about hugging one's own grandmother after returning from school. Wonder what stopped Abhi from doing the same. Does he not love his grandmom. He could have rushed to her first, instead of feeling bad that Shivam did.


True. There was that scene with both mothers Anandi and Ganga with their sons who were just babies.Shivam wanted Abhi's toy and Abhi didn't want to give it and Ganga insisted that he give it Shivam and Anandi saying no.
Looks like that set the tone for the future.
They all pampered him because they thought they were trying to fill the huge gap in his life.
But alas it never filled the gap but it kind of made him think that what belongs to Abhi belongs to him too.

I think that is the root cause of the problem

Anandi seems to be realising that 

But that is only part of Abhi;s problem 

Only after Shivam and Anandi leave will they realise that the problems they have are much bigger and their attitude and behaviour towards Anandi and Shivam was a just a manifestation of that problem.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My assumption is shivam is attached to dadisa because in 11 years he is brought up by dadisa.
May be anandi was too busy in establishing shivniketan. and other social work.

Because till now Anandi was not shown that impressive as mother.
Rather in past episode how dadisa smartly taken video game from shivam. 

I think Anandi dont have full control on shivam because she is not spent quality time with her son due to her work.

and if i m right than it will be prove in coming episode when anandi will leave bh and how she will be tackle shivam , he is small child and he wont be able to live without dadisa. 

Well basically its necessary that anandi should cut off shivam from dadisa . 


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jayshree1942

My assumption is shivam is attached to dadisa because in 11 years he is brought up by dadisa.

May be anandi was too busy in establishing shivniketan. and other social work.

Because till now Anandi was not shown that impressive as mother.
Rather in past episode how dadisa smartly taken video game from shivam. 

I think Anandi dont have full control on shivam because she is not spent quality time with her son due to her work.

and if i m right than it will be prove in coming episode when anandi will leave bh and how she will be tackle shivam , he is small child and he wont be able to live without dadisa. 

Well basically its necessary that anandi should cut off shivam from dadisa . 


agree wid u .shivam is  attached 2 DS bcoz Ds brought up & JaGan also helped oderwise why shivam shud ask ice creams from J?? why not from his mom wen all r living  2gether?? 
or why shud shivam ask 4 snacks  from ganga wen cum back  from school??or why DS was shown helping shivam in HW or he himself does it.

i agree wid u A is not shown  impressive  as mother oderwise  shivam wudn't'd behaved like  an arrogant abt his & abhi's marks nor wud DS had 2 take away vid game using tactic.

and its not just necessary but it shud b done. tho i m not saying he shud b totally cut off from DS. hes  a kid even if arrogant & manipulative.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shivam Abhi and Mannu all were very small then they showed a 11 year leap in this leap Anandi was supposed to have become martial arts instructor as well as building up Shiv Niketan and searching for Nandini
Ganga was supposed to have completed medicine and specialisation in surgery all this must have happened outside of Jaitser simply because Jaitser didn't have Medical College.

Jagya was busy with two professions

So it is very unlikely that the three kids Mannu Abhi and Shivam were exclusively taken care of by their parents.

It all looks like joint responsibility.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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shivam is moohphat but who is stopping abhi not to sit with ds who is stopping abhi not to spend time with .ds .who is stopping ds not to care about abhi .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Aparna, agree that must have happened, as it is a joint family responsibility of the kids must have divided among the peoole who were staying there.

Definitely ganga had to stay out of jaitsar to attend full time medical college and studies

So kids were raised by rest of the people

But i came to know since it is not shown that anandi too helped in raising gangas kids so we have to assume only jagya has taken care of both abhi and mannu, they dont need anyone else,

Now it is assumed since ds is so attached to shivam so anandi have not raised him, ds must have raised him.

I have no prob if gandmother looks after the kid

But prob is shivam and jagya both were very much attached to each other

And shivam has done maha sin of asking ice cream from jagya instead of anandi, so definitely if i go by that logic jagya has raised shivam too

Mla saab has so much time of doing baby sitting for three kids apart from managing his two professions?Edited by hisusmita - 9 years ago