Re: Dadisa will ask anandi to wait for jagya s return - Page 5

Even Sanchi's physical assult also not shared by Anandi Shiv...through newspaper & Vivek BH people knew about it

Not only DS Ganga too call Anandi time to tine discuss her personal problem with her & ask her advice or opinion...

Ganga's pregenancy complications or Handling Shyamlal case ... Both time Anandi was tensed too.

Anandi was worried for Shiv regarding his Birth secret ...later on Rasika case ...

So Anandi's interference is not new Anandi always there ... Ganga knew this fact

Saying staying in BH is root cause is unreasonable ...without staying in BH Anandi always involves in BH matter ... So whts difference...

Even Anandi stayed in KB or Shiv Niketan DS would have involve Anandi for sure ...nothing has changed ...

@beautiful-soul my post wasnt directed towards anyone...I just quoted @ExcuseMePlz bcoz i agree with that member's opinion.😊

My answers in @bold.😊

1. Anandi had several places live in with her Son...only if people would have allowed her to do so. Her inlaws thought BH will be the safest for them, and Singhs also assured her the same with full confidence on themselves that they will be happy if she will live with them only, in the same house...not even in an outhouse adjacent to that haveli. Anandi gave in the EBM & assurances and now thats proving out to be a "mistake" of hers.

2. Given the circumstances of separation of her infant daughter...I doubt Anandi would have showed any carelessness w.r.t. her Son...& at that time she didnt had any work for her besides bringing up her son(s). i dont think that, a lady who was too scared to find her son missing from her bedside after losing her daughter due to "her" mistake, would majorly rely on others when it comes to his upbringing or jump in situations in the zeal of helping others, for SN came into existence, she must not have compromised with her duties as a mother as anyways she will be too scared to lose her son in the similar fashion as that of her daughter.

3. Jaitser never had a medical college, Ganga had applied for MBBS before Anandi re-entered BH, and her form was accepted as well by the authorities...So I hope in India still MBBS courses are not turned into correspondence courses or "IIN" kind of thing. & if she was admitted to any college,then It takes a good 5-7 years to do MBBS+specialisation. Jagya was busy with his professions...so I am assuming DS & Makhan kaka brought up Mannu-Abhi while Anandi looked only after Shivam with DS & Makhan kaka helping in between.

4. She used to cook even when she was a visiting member...So now also it would have been the same , or she must be cooking only for DS, shivam & herself.

So...the question is ...if She wasnt sheltered, she had her finances, she raised her kid, she cooked for herself...Then what help she took from them except for obliging to their request/EBM to stay with them???😕 Mental/moral support... long phone call(s) between A-DS would have been suficient... No??