In Memoriam~ Ivy_11 Indu

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In Memoriam

Ivy_11[Indu]

Inactive.. yet alive in the hearts and minds of all who knew her here!

Friends.. it sounds incredible! but it's been a year since our beloved friend, laagi forum member

Bid farewell to her many shocked, weeping and saddened forum members and friends here..

Who could forget a year ago, Priya's post that Ivy[Indu] had left us for the heavenly realms on the

26th April 2014..

Yes it feels like yesterday... but alas! as Indu would say herself.. life goes on! and it did. But nothing can stop us from celebrating Indu's life yet again on this forum, she loved so much..

She left the forum, a year ago . Yet her spirit can still be sensed by people who were close to her on Laagi.. Priya, Balli, Nimmi, Ani.. and many others. Those who joined after she passed away.. were, and are still curious to know more about her. As her name is seen on many LTL posts.. Such a name she was, "a sweet soul"... as bharti put it, only recently when we talked about Ivy..

Ivy/Indu.. left a trail of gold dust behind her.. fascinating to all who follow her life..

So let us then congregate again to celebrate Indu's brief but full life, here on Laagi.

We offer thanks to our personal deity for gifting the world with such a beautiful person like Indu

A life that made a lasting impact on all who were around her.. her family; friends; work mates..

Just a few words to express my personal sentiments about Ivy.. as I called her..

That which binds us..

After a year.. I see your smile

dappled in the colours of the rainbow..

for a smiley you were, never a loser

Life was never dull and grim

but a kaleidoscope of happenings!

Ivy I see you in the winged flap of the eagle

That soars the heights to gain paradise above

Seems the heavens too wanted you for themselves

To spare you from the sordid worldly woes that plagues life

With a smile you heroically embraced,

better or worse that life offered you

Many a torrent you fought stoically like a sturdy ship

tossed about on the ocean of life.. still, you kept the winds in your sails

rather than be adrift! such a fighter you were Ivy!

For you loved life and preached about living,

enjoying it to the fullest!

Your home may be the paradise above

Yet your laughter, chatter, on Laagi I can still hear in the

Early morning sing song and twitter of the birds

The fragile rose reminds me of the

Beauty of your affable temperament

Fragrance filled, friend to all you were Ivy!

The first golden ray of sunlight reminds me

Of the day after day warmth you felt

For all at the Laagi forum..

Ivy, Indu.. Thank you for still making your presence known to those

Who love and miss you..

Thanks for returning to us in a gamut of memories

Happy, sad, funny.. simply unforgettable you are!

Hamlet53~ 26.4.15

Dear friends, no doubt, many of you have personalised messages for Indu.. please add.. to celebrate her life.. may be some quotes from her; her comments on a range of topics on Laagi.. may be an old pm from her that you received.. about her wise cracks/ takes on life?.. her chit chat on ccc.. she loved reading FF's and enjoyed GOTW.. done by Rose.. I am sure you have many more ideas.. so over to you..

N.B~ Priya , we'll be pleased if you can let Indu's family know we are thinking of them.. please send them the links too.. many thanks hammie..

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rd8VktT8xY[/YOUTUBE]










Post 2 is about some of Indu's work please see.. and like me enjoy!




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IVY/INDU

Samples of ivy's/Indu's work on Laagi forum.. courtesy IF

Couple of Ivy's no nonsense comments on LTL related news items..

Goes without saying she was an ardent. Mishal Raheja/Dutta.. fan..

Ivy_11 22nd april 2011

Mishal was, is and will always be the USP of LTL and colors. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out :=)

The TRP has fallen to 1.95 after MR's exit.

It is the truth and nothing but the truth.

Only a few people are unable to face the reality.

28th april 2011

1.Please bring back MISHAL RAHEJA as that's the only way to to save LTL and the channel.

2. Remember, Mishal=Dutta ..No one else would do

3. Dutta's character portrayed by Mishal is the USP of the show. Please don't dilute it for whatever reason.

4. The 200 of us have been saying this for the last three months..I hate to say"we told you so"..but in this case I have no choice

5. If anyone with a bit of common sense had a goose that laid the golden eggs (Cast, characters and storyline)...he/she would take excellent care of it!!!

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ivy_11 IF-Rockerz

Laagi Tujhse Lagan: Written Update March 19, 2010

Hello LTLians

This is my first major post and that too for a WU, specially after Zuby and Raj have set such high standards. So please bear with my ramblings.

If I have concentrated more on Dutta and skimmed through the other characters and scenes. I apologize. But honestly for me it has been all about Dutta and his saga.

Several questions crossed my mind while viewing this episode and would love to hear your views on them.

A special thanks to Nimmi

Youtube links

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBPMH_YBptI&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qo4GWG7zZ0I&feature=fvwrel

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-VpNAW1lv4&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&feature=fvwp&v=hXuur5Gb6Zw


Written Update

Tasha in Patil Niwas, with Naku bringing in the food for Dutta, in his room. Surprisingly Patil Saab is relaxed and contently eating more than his usual one niwala ( Mishal must have been hungry that day and the food good) with koel naku chatting away. Though there is a smile on her face because she is happy for Dutta, as we delve deeper in her poignant eyes we see the hint of sadness . Naku says Love heals and changes the whole perception of living and everything begins to looks so beautiful. She says that "I can see that you are also in love"'.Dutta stops eating and looking at her enquires " Me also"

Discussion question: What would "me also" mean..Is he surprised that naku could also be in love..or in his subconscious wants her love only for himself?

Mishal's acting was superb..a gamut of emotions and expressions from carefree and hungrily enjoying his dinner to a casual "Mujhe nahin pata" to surprise, confusion and curiosity. Naku quickly covers up the slip of baring her soul and talks about with Sups love for him

Naku then asks if he enjoyed her singing and tries to get an answer from a disinterested Dutta .."Yes she sings"'more prodding and coxing by naku gets a matter of fact "got a good voice". Naku teases Dutta for being as clinical as a judge in a reality show. Love the easy camaraderie between Tasha.

OMG: Mishal was excellent (nothing unusual) as an exasperated yet amused Dutta when he says "Ek baath bata, kya tune bachman mein pyaar ki tution leh rakhi thi?" and in the same breath with wonder "waise tujhe kisi se pyaar huya hai?" hearing her "No Saab" his answer to her on giving gyan on love without being in love was priceless.

Discussion Question: What was the answer Dutta was expecting again?

Dutta is a man most extraordinaire '.I LOVE YOU PATIL SAAB '..Not for a moment he thought that Koel Naku was ugly and who would fall in love her

Koel Naku had an element of untouched innocence that touched the heart. Dutta's thanking her for food and also for realizing he was hungry and had not eaten is enough to make Naku happy. A man of few words but she doesn't need words to understand the man she( and WE) love.

Next Morning: Naku and Babi working in the kitchen and Sulky Sups (will be referred to as Sulky from now) comes into make Karanji with naku's help. AS and Baaji are busy with the wedding preparations.

Dutta sitting on the sofa wearing charcoal grey pathanis busy reading and signing papers. Sulky brings in the Karanji, he doesn't even realize..or just ignores her presence because even papers and files have a better chemistry than this Karanjiwali .

She puts a piece on DSP's plate and a second one with Naku's prodding and is about to put the third as per Baaji's isharas when the Spine Chilling "BUS" comes. Though he tries to reduce the harshness with a polite look. Hey please give the Man a break..stop loading up his plate. One word is enough to send Sulky to run scurrying back like a mouse. His indifference and irritation towards Sups was evident in the whole karanji scene.

The whole Patil Niwasis flock stare at Dutta w trying to take the first bite..Loved DSP's look and MR's acting.

Discussion Question: How come Dutta has 100% attention and all the time in the world to listen to Naku's bhashan, chatter, answer her questions and even ask her questions BUT has no time or patience for Ms. Sulky, his would be wife?

Then Dutta and Baaji talk about some business and go upstairs to his room to work. They discuss some boy and inspector.. watch Dutta WINK at (Part 3 at 3:12). Dutta? MR speaking Marathi..even "aayi saab mee etho" and "ekdhe" to Baaji is . It was business as usual after that.

Naku comes upstairs and gives Dutta a piece of her mind and Bhashan because he didn't complement Sups for the Karanjis and the importance of paying compliments. Dutta surprised and Baaji shocked. Dutta's "Ab meine kya kiya" and " "Achhi thi"..bit was amusing and again hats off to Mishal for the subtly in acting.

Followed by naku's famous lines "Pann aapko na pyaar jatana nahin ata saab"

Usually love Baaji Bhaiyya (before people get ideas) and Duji but they were not that effective in this episode.

Sups acting according to character takes the credit for the karanji and later sneaks some for her MUSSEL Man Tight Shirt.

Kala and Kishore is an ajeeb Jodi ..I could never understand what made Kalavathi marry him..?

Looking forward to your views and comments



Edited by ivy_11 - 22 January 2012 at 1:25am

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Life makes little sense, and the more we grow the less sense it will make. So make the most of it now, before it all changes once again, because in the near future, all of this is only going to be memories

Please note her signature quote... hammie..

Her addition's in maroon, can't be seen as I copied and pasted..cracked me up.. 😆😆 ohhh I missed that fun time on the forum.. no wonder her buddies still remember.. the golden period when naughty,peppy, ivy walked.. the lanes of laagi!

To find more of her comments type Ivy_11 comments in the laagi search bar



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One year gone by ...I remember before it happened , we all were scared ...we had this dreadful feeling , a known fear of what is gonna happen ...But Indu was not scared or sad for herself ...She felt terrible for her aged mom and young daughter ...
It sadden her to think of the pain of her mother to see her go and the anguish of her daughter .

Indu had been through many problems in her life ...none of them took her down not even this one ...she fought all of them and won ...maybe not physically but emotionally ...Yes she won

I remember Indu as a shinning light , always imagined her with shining hair with bit of white pepper ...
a smile on her face and a twinkle in eyes ...
She is still the same for me ...our Indu ...our Meryl Streep ( Remember Indu ) ...
She loved me with my moods , Craziness , mad pranks ...she loved me for myself ...Thank u
I will always thank god for bringing her into our lives ...even if it for short while ...she brought us joy and happiness ...
I will miss her Pms ...But I will never miss her , as we can feel her presence with us ...grinning at my foot in mouth messes ...Please forget them ... (Indu, Spl u know which one )
I can go and go ... no words to describe it , its all in my head ...but cannot put in words ..
Njoy ur day in heaven ...

Today please pray for Indu's Mom and Daughter ..that pain may heal and for their health


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To our Dancing queen ...Indu
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8rBufaGr598&feature=related[/YOUTUBE]

I am not gonna cry and would ask u not to cry too ...as Indu is in a better place. She is happy and that is what matters ...Indu is happy ...

U take my friend , till we meet in person ... that day we will bring heaven down , first by my scream and then our chatting ...nd then we can find a new Bhakra and play some new pranks ...

I love u indu ...will always do

Ok Wait ... Pls pls pls put forth my request for two lil nims ... U have to be on my side , two lil nims


Lots of Love , hugs and Kisses



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Ohh and the fateful 26th April comes. I will never forget the feeling i had exactly one year ago when i read the news. I was traveling and randomly browsing the forum. I still wonder how i got down from the taxi, paid the fare and reached office. I knew she had this dreadful situation but i held this slightest ray of hope in my mind that she would come back.

She didn't die but the forum sure did for me. But as she used to say, "Life goes on" and so did we. Many beautiful words have been said on her by my sweetest fellow forumers and i have nothing more to add. I want to say a few words on the importance of her existence in my life. This is so strange. I never met her, never spoke to her over phone but yet she is one of my best friends ever. She motivated me in so many ways that i can't even describe in words. All my life i have been fighting with many odds and i used to share those with her. and after exchanging few pm's, i used to feel, "Oh no, those are not odds, everybody fights against some...this is life". I can't thank her enough for making me feel strong & independent and getting my shit together to think straight.

and the fun parts?? Oh boy, that was the key attribute of hers. She was so fun to talk. Her wonderful sense of humor used to bring a big big smile on my face. The adda, CCC - what a great time it used to be...

Nobody can replace her but still she left some of her parts in us. A few while ago, i had this terrible time and i wanted to share it with her so bad. But then balli and priya motivated me and i realized we all had become better persons in some ways. I missed her but i felt i could always find her in my sisters here.

She is and will always be the most loved person in this forum. and priya's signature words say, "Good bye till we meet you again", yes, i too hope one day we will meet and will bring down the heaven into earth again. 😃 Till then, wait my friend... we have so much gossiping to share with you. and don't have so much fun in heaven alone 😡 Spare some for us too. 😆
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Thanks hammie priya and Swati for sharing your feelings and memories relating to indu. Hope her soul rests in peace. May God give her family to deal with this irreparable loss.
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may her soul rest in peace
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Indu you r missed ...
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Ivy_11 /Indu.. past comments continued..
this one was on my lappie.. dated 20.6.13.. sharing with you all..

Ivy comment..

Hey my sweet round ladoo.. this is like old times when you caught up with missed updates and churned up comments conveyer belt style..

Dearest Hammie

First, my apologies of being unable to follow this unique FF. One thing or the other was keeping me away and then one chapter progressed six.

So, let me try and catch up reading the beautiful story. The pleasure is all mine...

Chapter 9

It has my favorite Batasha on a car ride with Baji playing psychoanalyst to DSP regarding Naku. The ease with which Dutta shared his past with Naku should make him realize her place in his life. Why does Dutta bring out the protective instinct in everyone..makes me wonder.

The pre-cap is exciting for us viewers but for Dutta a whole life change...the making of Dutta Bhau.

yes, ivy, duji ke jeep drives were always note worthy in the serial.. its where the two bonded too.. humm how much he shares with her is in fits and starts.. thanks ivy..

Chapter 10

Dutta and his family in the process of moving to their new house. DSP's eyes seeking out Naku in the crowd ..he wants her approval even more than he actually accepts .

memories of LTL1

"A fortress, a sanctuary for his restless soul, with the hope that here he would find healing." Is ironic ---Will he find healing in his new avatar or will it further eat into his soul ?

we shall see pal.. money plays a big factor..

The Shower scene and the systematic dressing/making of Dutta Bahu was the cherry on the cake of this awesome episode.

well we all know that Dutta was no dirty Don, bahut immaculate or elegant tha..

Thanks,ivy.

Chapter 11

Another incredible episode, Hammie. Glad that I am catching up...

So it is going to be Housefull in Pagaal Niwaas with Naku & family, Kala, Leela et al. The security camera's should hopefully work better than they did in original LTL ...Nikamme BG's ka kya Bharosa ?

@ tamanna---Loved your caps. The many expressions of DSP (MR) a treat for sore the sore eyes.

Chapter 12

"and thus I clothe my naked villainy"..Shakespeare

A very intriguing opening quote, an omen for the gradual transformation of Dutta Patil to Dutta Bhau and the events to come.

My favorite Batasha in a car ride again in this episode. Hope D and N make up soon after the misunderstanding .

Suggestion: Sups and Bob romantic pair to get them out of Tasha's life

Excellent update, my friend Hammie

Chapter 13

Hammie, this is a beautifully written episode bringing out Dutta's pain and suffering... sensitive and poignant.

I do not like this AS and her misplaced mahanta...someone give her a good shake. Hope Naku is able to be the balm on DSP's wound as always.

Thanks for another awesome update, Hammie .

Your style of writing touches the senses...I could not only visualize the scenes but also smell the earth.

Ivy.. thinking about you.. much love hammie.. 26.4.15







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Thanks Hammie and Priya, for making this thread .
All day i have been coming here and reading friends comments and thinking what can i say Indu has never been away from me at all, most days something comes to my mind about Indu and i think about our pms how kind she had been during my difficult times , not many of you know at the time when Indu was going through the treatment my mum was also very ill , we would talk about treatment mum was having or Indu's next test , when my mum left this world and i spent most of my time praying for indu's daughter to not have to go through the same pain as me and please god let her keep her mother for longer and our unseen friend in our lives , but it was not to be as all must return to the maker whenever their time comes.

I am grateful for the time god gave us to know her I didn't know Indu for long but she will stay with me forever.

last year I deleted all my pms by mistake so I don't have those to read now i might not remember the words of comfort she wrote to me but know she was a very sweet and kind person who touched many hearts on the forum. It was our gain she spent her time with us and our loss when she is not here.

Rest in peace Indu. May god keep your daughter safe and grant her long and healthy life. aameen.


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