Who is the real Ganga? - Page 2

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I do agree they have butchered gangas charecter to show anandi suffering.

What she is now is the circumstance...firstly no women would accept if her husband talks about another women when every time...with what ever ganga said she did not say that in one month she said it after five years...there are only two people in the house jagiya and DS both of them showing more importance to Anandi so that she don't feel bad or else they are used to anandi, how did anandi and DS or jagiya did not sence that ganga is feeling insecure...jagiya is punishing her for her words why dont he try to make her feel that she is the only women in life and he might have been wrong somewhere in his behaviour which made her feel like that ...if he really loved ganga and know her would like to comfort her not hurt her...jagiya looks foolish he can never be a good husband and don't deserve any wife...he says anandi for everything but if anandi would have comeback in his life he would have left her for losing nimboli or else some other reason...

Anandi used to sense something is wrong with vibrations in their tone over the phone but now for so many years jagiya and ganaga relations is so bad and ganga is insecure or sad how come anandi is not able to see that...

Jagiya is saying anandi face reality and ganga cannot if he wants to compare both ganga is not useless she also did many thing in life...

Anandi, DS, saritha or jagiya not realizing how pooja is in madly love with manu and at last even manu started the feeling...what if something goes wrong at this tender age...it is only ganga who realized it...if she sit and talk to him about pooja and not to get more involved at other side anandi and DS saying she is best girl and likes her so much...she cannot talk to jagiya as father is the main support which the family don't have. When dadisa and anandi talking never try to even consider that there is another women in house who needs to be included in the conversation or does jagiya so what does she talk to anyone...if she talks anything she will be wrong.

Though ganga has everyone but still she and her kids are alone, more insecurities she cannot do anything...ganga and manu could have had a life like saritha and pooja hapily working and enjoying instaed of so many insecurities.

though jagiya is there he never worry about family unless it is about anandi, DS or shivam...because ganga is wicked women he never consider her any words...abhi is insecure jagiya never cares as long as he does not hurt shivam...there is no father love for her kids or she has a husband support.

Originally posted by: jhansijhansi

I do agree they have butchered gangas charecter to show anandi suffering.

What she is now is the circumstance...firstly no women would accept if her husband talks about another women when every time...with what ever ganga said she did not say that in one month she said it after five years...there are only two people in the house jagiya and DS both of them showing more importance to Anandi so that she don't feel bad or else they are used to anandi, how did anandi and DS or jagiya did not sence that ganga is feeling insecure...jagiya is punishing her for her words why dont he try to make her feel that she is the only women in life and he might have been wrong somewhere in his behaviour which made her feel like that ...if he really loved ganga and know her would like to comfort her not hurt her...jagiya looks foolish he can never be a good husband and don't deserve any wife...he says anandi for everything but if anandi would have comeback in his life he would have left her for losing nimboli or else some other reason...

Anandi used to sense something is wrong with vibrations in their tone over the phone but now for so many years jagiya and ganaga relations is so bad and ganga is insecure or sad how come anandi is not able to see that...

Jagiya is saying anandi face reality and ganga cannot if he wants to compare both ganga is not useless she also did many thing in life...

Anandi, DS, saritha or jagiya not realizing how pooja is in madly love with manu and at last even manu started the feeling...what if something goes wrong at this tender age...it is only ganga who realized it...if she sit and talk to him about pooja and not to get more involved at other side anandi and DS saying she is best girl and likes her so much...she cannot talk to jagiya as father is the main support which the family don't have. When dadisa and anandi talking never try to even consider that there is another women in house who needs to be included in the conversation or does jagiya so what does she talk to anyone...if she talks anything she will be wrong.

Though ganga has everyone but still she and her kids are alone, more insecurities she cannot do anything...ganga and manu could have had a life like saritha and pooja hapily working and enjoying instaed of so many insecurities.

though jagiya is there he never worry about family unless it is about anandi, DS or shivam...because ganga is wicked women he never consider her any words...abhi is insecure jagiya never cares as long as he does not hurt shivam...there is no father love for her kids or she has a husband support.

tho many of ur points r gud & true but i don't think J is not gud husband or father 4 her or her kids resp. bcoz if he'd been he wudn't'd cum 2 her instantly wenever she calls. an deven apologises 2 her if he hurts her. but yes hes turned bit cold 2wards her after that incident which was quite hurtful.

Yes you are right using he thinks she is wicked is wrong it just came when i was writing...he will never accept if ganga says something about mannu and pooja because Anandi and DS think she is best girl...ganga do agree she is good but they are getting into wrong track, but DS, Anandi and jagiya are very busy with samaj seva and giving bashans now when ganga tries to do something they will teach her a lesson where she will be made bad again...with so many restrictions if you do something or talk you make mistakes...one side ganga is trying to slowly stop pooja coming more to mannu, otherside anandi is trying to make them stay together, which is not wrong but anandi should also sense that there is something wrong in pooja thinking what will she manage 100 of girls from getting into love and marriage trap at this age balika vadhu...if anything goes wrong do they get them married another bv along with nimboli and her husband...a teenage mother should watch them , stop them and make them realize studying is more important at this age and explain hem in a friendly way and also if needed strict...mother being friend does not mean girls tell everything like taking lunch for him going to study with him she should also be able to tell her what she is feeling about him and mother should also find out what is going on in girls brain and guide her.

now yesterday pooja knows ganga is saying wrong but she did not tell her mother or anandi that gangar because she did not want to make ganga bad because pooja is Anandi student they will make her mahan and ganga and mannu bad slowly...ganga want pooja to understand that there is something wrong and stop disturbing mannu...

yes jagiya is coming to her and caring her, talking to her about surgeries and he is treating her as a incharge of the hospital...when abhi came to the hospital he scolded her just how he would shout a hospital staff and abhi is anyway bad kid for him ...in between wife and husband there is no love than that relation is ended.

I do agree Ganga made a mistake by saying he is trying to take shiv's place and he feels ganga is in between them..., but she feels sorry for that. See Shiv also had a good girl friend whom he did not love but she was a good friend of her he might have liked something in her but never compared anandi with her, or give her more importance in life...I know the situations are different, when you consider anandi also like friend to jagiya, he always tires to compare ganga with anandi what is need for that, for any women like ganga who was in many troubles when compared to Anandi few times would give her confidence, but between wife and husband in private always bring her in between would make her feel bad...why did he let the things go that further ...what did he do to make her feel secure..., didn't Anandi or DS sensed anything...she burst over...if he really cared for her or loved her and respected her he would never behave like this for five years , no person who loves her wife can see her so sad or in pain, what is point in staying together for the society instead he should have divorced her because she is not as good as Anandi, he forgot that Anandi never wanted Jagiya back in her , it was ganga who accepted him, i know jagiya did a lot to her they both loved each other, but just with one misunderstanding would ruin whole love in between them...now ganga is not happy with her husband both are failed like a wife and husband...jagiya do not want to change, he thinks he is right even on holi day he know she is feeling bad did he ever think how would she feel if he plays holi with Anandi first and only plays with her after DS reminded him, just ignore her presence also just because she is his wife..., ganga was almost wanted to play with him...there might have been many such incidents which might have made her go mad...otherwise he knows ganga character is not that bad...he does not listen to her anything she says even about abhi insecurities or about anything..

It really looks like Ganga is a waste character in the house, if she would have never married him than now Anandi and jagiya would have happily been as friend in the haveli with DS and shivam.


He is not a good father...no father he will not let his son suffer and make his childhood so unhappy...shivam dont have dad's love because his dad is no more and Abhi's dad is alive but that boy is crying for dad's love...they wanted to say ganga and abhi are simply insecure and jagiya, DS, and Anandi are right...no that is not true.

Originally posted by: tiny15

tho many of ur points r gud & true but i don't think J is not gud husband or father 4 her or her kids resp. bcoz if he'd been he wudn't'd cum 2 her instantly wenever she calls. an deven apologises 2 her if he hurts her. but yes hes turned bit cold 2wards her after that incident which was quite hurtful.

rest i agree that all this is due 2 DS & A & shivam's attitude.

and in pooja mannu's case i think J doesn't know abt it. but i think he may think that its just ganga's perception not bcoz he thinks ganga as wicked women & A is goody 2 shoes. rest in this case u r rite both DS & A din't seem 2 notice ganga wenever shes wid them. how cum?? as per CVs & ppl both DS & A senses so many things

@jhansijhansi i know Ganga's character is butchered but i don't understand why in defense of Ganga you are putting entire blame on Jagya's head ? what is his fault ?

Yes you are right using he thinks she is wicked is wrong it just came when i was writing...he will never accept if ganga says something about mannu and pooja because Anandi and DS think she is best girl.

Originally posted by: kikyo

@jhansijhansi i know Ganga's character is butchered but i don't understand why in defense of Ganga you are putting entire blame on Jagya's head ? what is his fault ?

He has given countless assurances to Ganga she is not the only woman in his life but also his life and he can even die for her not with his words but his acts he proved If Ganga has memory loss and she forgot about that and blame him is it his fault ? Why he is not human and does not have a heart the woman whom he has given always all love , done everything for her suddenly puts him so much down and insult his love for her then why he won't be hurt at it ?Why he is suppose to forget all this even though he has forgiven her but he cannot forget and why heis suppose to forget all without Ganga doing anything to make him feel she is ashamed of what she spoke and the fact she did nothing so far to make him believe she is ashamed of what she spoke then She does not realize how deeply she hurt him with her those hurtful words , her unfair blames and she needs to make him feel she loves him He needs her love and trust but what she is doing is only wallowing in self pity?

How can you say he is giving more importance to Anandi over Ganga when he is not one who even kept Anandi in house Dadisaa brought Anandi in house now and Jagya asked from Ganga about her feelings if Anandi stayed in Badi Haveli She asked him how much you trust me He said more than myself She said i have same trust on you Jagya said i know you have always trusted me and i also know you have great respect for Anandi but still this is sensitive situation i dont want anyone to be hurt even unknowingly unintentionally especially you Ganga held his hand and assured him trust me i have no such problem , will never have Trust me Dadisaa's decision was absolutely right to bring Anandi here We all will live like a family and when Dadisaa was convincing Anandi to stay in Badi Haveli Jagya kept quiet He did not say a word whether she should stay here or not He said nothing He never asked Anandi to stay here but yes Ganga did assure Anandi from her side she has no problem with her stay in BH then how can she blame Jagya like this ? How Jagya can be blamed he is giving more preference to Anandi ?

How can she think he will back away from his responsibility towards her when even when she was his beneficiary no matter it became risking to his life , no matter he has to bear scoldings of his mother still he helped her and completed her responsibility making her stand on her feet and get rid of Ratan

What she does not know about him He told her everything She even knows the time she met him he was struggling to move on from his past He married her confessing his love to her and that marrying her made him face a lot much anger from his family

They wanted him to leave her Dadisaa clearly asked Ganga to leave from his life He said where Ganga will stay i will stay there too Dadisaa asked him then you have to leave from here Hospital is not yours either He was disowned by his family He was pained deeply pained Tears could not stop flowing down from his eyes but he held her hand and asked her not to leave him Everyone left him if she too did he will break down completely

She was one for sake of his happiness asking him he can go back to his family she will never complain to him He can get everything back the family has problem with her not with him but he was no We will make family accept us both

How can Ganga forget all this and doubt his love for her .and needs more assurances from him ?

How many times he told her what place she holds in his life In their SR he told her my life was like a lonely boat in a fast flowing river No direction , neither knew where I have to go , what I have to do then you came to my life I got a direction to my life I got a purpose to live and later I realized you are the only one with whom I want to live all my life You are God 's answer to my prayers

Jagya has given so many assurances to her she is his world , his life and that he is so happy he could move on from his past which includes Anandi and Gauri both and meet her He not only said but he proved

Jagya's enemies too know if they want to destroy him give him most painful death destroy his Ganga because Ganga is his biggest strength and biggest weakness too and this is why LPS kidnapped Ganga and wanted to kill her and Jagya saved Ganga risking his own life He protected her like a shield in front of LPS trying to target her with bullet she was asking him to get away but he did not move This was all after Shiv's death ? Even after this Ganga needs more assurances from him ?

She has heard him directly saying to Anandi how lucky he is to have Ganga in his life still Ganga needs more assurances from him ?

She has heard Jagya firmly telling Subhadra when she was asking him Anandi ko dekh tumharay dil mein kuch kuch hota hai He said yes kuch kuch hota hai but that kuch kuch is my respect for her for whatever she has done for me in my life I only have respect in my heart for her nothing more still Ganga needs more assurances from him ?

How can Ganga forget this is same man who was alright if he cannot have his own child because it will be risking to her life He only wants her to be with him as his life partner He can live without his own child but she took risk with her life thinking of only happiness of Dadisaa and give her great grand son from her blood line but Jagya was so hurt at it and he did not sleep even one night with patience All he was worried for her if anything to happened to her he will be devastated He cried for her , prayed for her life She is not unaware of that seriously she doubted this man's love for her and needs more assurances from him about what place she holds in his life ?

and where he was already bringing Anandi in conversations It was Ganga herself used to do No?Ganga brought Anandi into their discussions a lot many times How many times after Shiv's death Jagya cried in front of Ganga about poor Anandi? Not for once but yes she brought Anandi in their conversations and her misery Just like when Jagya was praising and encouraging her to be a doctor she brought Anandi in their conversation and compared herself to Anandi telling Jagya i don't know i should be happy or not i find my success so less something to cheer about in front being sorrowful at Anandi ji's misery ? Did Jagya ask Ganga not to celebrate your success and be sad for Anandi ? No she herself said that Ganga herself brought Anandi in conversations even when Jagya did not mention her anywhere yet she is now minding him even talking to Anandi ? and putting blames on him?

Jagya never involved Anandi in their personal life Ganga sometimes herself did She called Anandi Why she was called Anandi nd share her pain with her when she had complications in her pregnancy?

Why she called Anandi to take her suggestion how to bring shyam lal's truth in front of him?

so now why she made issue of if he involved Anandi in family matters ?and she herself said Anandi is a part of our family We will live like a family ?

Where he was always comparing her with Anandi It was Dadisaa doing so not Jagya and Ganga did not make issue of it and ignored it but insulted Jagya so bad when he only said what she herself used to say ?He only cited her Anandi 's example and Ganga herself said in the past Anandi and Jagya are both her role models she is not like them but will consider herself fortunate if he becomes like them Did Jagya ask her to say Anandi as her role model No? so now why she was making issue of it if Jagya said same to her ?

Ganga had no logic no reason to behave with Jagya like and Jagya cannot be blamed for it Why he needs to again and again prove his love for her He has done that so many times Given her so many assurances Even in that scene he was so loving and romantic to her Where he was not showing his love for her she felt insecure and blamed him ?

In Gauri's track when she was herself helping Gauri How many times he asked her let me tell Gauri everything i cannot see you in pain but she gave him her kasam not before Gauri gets well and when Gauri was throwing her out of house He blasted Gauri stop it now Don't you dare to insult my wife

When Sanchi deliberately put her condition critical in her pregnancy so that she can die when he came to know about it He blasted Sanchi in front of her and told her if anything would have happened to my wife then there would be no one more worst for you than me Ganga forgave Sanchi later when she apologized Jagya took time to forgive her for this because she put his wife's life in danger He forgave Sanchi for him but took time to forgive for ill treatment to Ganga

Even after all these examples i have counted There are a lot more still she needs more assurances from him what place she holds in his life Leave any other woman in his life he has directly called her his life

but still after all she hurt him so bad by putting such blames on him and why he should not be hurt Such words , such doubts such blames from a loved one whom you love more than life and always tried to keep happy suddenly put you so much down and make you feel like you have never done anything for her The person don't trust you Have no respect for your love then how hurtful will that be ? Ganga is the woman who taught Jagya forgive himself , made him believe in his goodness and then she is blaming him like that then how much more hurtful will be that be for him

and still where he is punishing her that you are saying he is punishing her ? but why he is not human that those words are hurting him and Ganga has still not done anything to make him feel she is ashamed of what she spoke She was wrong there He has never done any wrong to her but she misunderstood him She loves him a lot Why the one who is hurt needs to do everything even when he is hurt but the one who hurt him is only wallowing in self pity and cannot do anything to heal him up Why she cannot see he still loves her a lot and trusts her respects her where he is punishing her where he has stopped talking to her and distanced herself from her and sleeping in other room He still shows he loves her and makes efforts to make her happy like in holi when she felt he ignored her He went behind her and special efforts to make her feel special and loved

He scolded her for right reasons in hospital for her irresponsibility but then he came to make up with her concerned for her she has not eaten anything He apologized first if she felt bad at it

He made her incharge of hospital and told her how much he is proud of her

All these incidents from which angle tells he is punishing her so blaming him for what ?He even if wants can ignore her for life time stop talking to her because she insulted his love for her insulted him so bad but he is not doing so because he loves her a lot if she cannot see that how it is his fault and what she is doing to make him feel she is sorry over and heal him ? Nothing She has done nothing in all these 5 years neither doing now

Jagya does not need to prove anything to her she has no reason to blame him like that and be insecure from his side She is responsible for her own insecurities and his sadness too and she should rectify her mistake and prove to him she loves him a lot and ashamed of what she spoke She should take him along with her to new beginning

you are right Jia Jagya has given countless assurances to Ganga she means world to him The only woman in his life He loves her beyond everything More than his own life