To hell with daddu and dadisa

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If anandi is still with Shiv

If anandi is still with Shiv, would it have prevented Jagya comparing ganga with anandi?

He would have compared at some time and it would have affected Ganga not anandi as she is away.

If Shivam got accolades at his school in Udaipur, would Jagya not appreciated Shivam and would Abhi feel hurt? Maybe or may not be but Shivam wont get affected by these things.

If Anandi lived in Udaipur, it is as good as living with Shiv.

The misunderstandings in Jagya family would not have affected her or Shivam the way it is affecting them pointing fingers at them.

My case is anandi should have stayed in Udaipur itself with Shivam for her own sake and also for the sake of Shivam.

To hell with daddu and dadisa.

Anandi never gave a thought about Shivam. Thats her fault. Shivam would have enjoyed his success much more if he was in Udaipur.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with you on this but was she in a position to make that decision at that time?
Shive died just a few months before their kids were born and she is living with her husband's family who looked at her just as some one who is their son's wife and mother of his children and then she lost her kid in her zeal to help someone the family was blaming her.
Daddu and Dsa also held her responsible for that though they didn't say it out right.The whole family and Dsa decided that she is not fit to raise her children alone.

In between them they decided that Dsa will help her raise her son and search for her lost kid.Anandi surrendered before them because she herself felt responsible for what happened and felt that her son needed something better than what she can give to him all on her own.

When they decided taht their grandson is not safe with her was she in a position to give assurances?That too when she too convinced abt herself that she is no good?

When she felt uncomfortable staying there her apprehensions were quashed by Dsa.It is better if Dsa opens her eyes on her own and decide what is good for all

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi has not got any extra benefits nor Shivam got any extra benefits just because they are living in BH.

Ganga's heaven or hell will be her own making and it will have no connection whatever with Anandi if anandi lived away from them.

CVs wanted to provide a father figure for Shivam who is not a real father and a family which is not his actual family.

Shivam would have been better off without these faltu relationships.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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They just wanted to prove that Dsa and A relationship is the best 🤢
It would have been easier if they showed Shiv as on orphan then it would have been understandable.

Admittedly at that time Anandi herself needed to be taken care off but now her wings are stronger and her son's wings need space to spread themselves out.

It is better that she move out.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shivam is in a golden cage thinking it is the best one. He should know that cages will be cages and he needs open air.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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But she also needs a good reason to move out.
If they get to know that she is moving out because she and her son needs more space or Ganga and her children needing more space either ways it will back fire and Ganga will be more upset.

That's why I think it is better that it came from Dsa
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The problem is Shivam is quite attached to DS and he will miss her if they move out.

CVs purposefully created this bond between Shivam and DS in order to prevent their moving out.

DS can live without Shivam but it seems Shivam cant without his dadisa.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dsa can move out with Anandi and Shivam what prevents her from doing that?
They can move into Shiv Niketan
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Posted: 10 years ago
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DS can also help in some way. She will also enjoy the company of so many young girls.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What was that in the previous episode?
I will get you a better video game

Momsy you could have told your child play with this one and when you get good marks I will get you one and then the two of you can share that one

Samjhane ki bajay this was aag ko hava dena

Anandi when will you move out of BH?

When your son will be told by the BH chota pota that this is not your house this is our house or when he will be made to feel by the same pota that he does not have a father

I am sure that one fine day this is gonna happen and BH bahu will not say anything to her son but the day he says this to Mannu she will realize ki kya galti thi khud ki

Shivam is a child younger than Abhi; he speaks first then thinks but he does not say anything intentionally to hurt anyone whereas the BH ma beta wanted to put down Shivam

Whatever issues they have in their family is their doing not Anandi or Shivams

Anandi and Shivam could have come to Jaitser and lived separately; I hope Anandi is the one who is financially responsible for SShivam and also gives her share in ghar kharach nahi toh she will be blamed for taking what is BH bahu n betas

BH mein laane ki koi zaroorat nahi thi; Now they will be blamed for everything

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