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tannvi

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hellozz

I Loved today's episode

"The moment you realize that you can have everything you want in life. However, it takes timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn't want it, need it or God prevented it."

IshRa scene Outside Court-room ws Amazinggg.It ws a crux of this story stating it...

how two Individuals who had a past but life had some other plans & came together...to get over there past & move in life completely to find peace in each-other...to heal the pain which there past have gave them...to find happiness in/with each-other...

they r even finding one...

Both having a past while Raman has moved in life from the pain shagun gave him which changed him all...when he started to move from shagun...forget & forgive her... find a peace happiness in life with Ishu made him feel better...for his own peace...

Raman wanting same for Ishu to forgive subbu find a peace & the pain smallest she has inside to let it Go...

what he did got the deeds of it...what she is doing is making her also going through the pain...for this pain to let go..to live in peace for herself. & for there own Life to be in peace...for there future..till the time this pain wont go...there past will stay in there present in b/w them...

they have find future with each-other...they have each-other to wipes away the pain...

i Lovedd...how IshRa talk about the pass they had...Ishu told him to forgive shagun...move-on in Life...its Now Raman telling to for her own peace in life she also needs to forgive him what he did...

What i more Liked the jealousy factor wsnt played here...subbu is Ishu's past...its over & gone...its more mature to see Raman...accepting her past & its gone... she is with him & she is happy with him...see her future with him only...

It ws Lovely see...

while writing this these Vivah movie Lyrics came in my mind...

waqt bhar deta hai zakhmo ko kahin tak sach hai
waqt se tez magar pyaar asar karta hai...
humsafar saath jahaan pyaar ka marham lekar...
zakam aise mein kahaan dekhe guzar karta hai...

Since this particular scene ws Beautifully depicted..what i wanted to see in this show ws how they move in Life find happiness with each-other help...i could see in this

i loved this moment when they talk to move in life from there as they have each-other in there life...

For rest of episode...

It ws Interesting to watch Shruv-ruhi-adi to watch ...the kiddo's superbb...loved protective Big bro adi & Adi bit opening up after Ishu tried make him understand to open up..as its his own home...ruhi is her little sister..i loved after affect of it on both kids it ws cute...

how Ruhi ws sweetly telling truth to big brother on lie...Big brother getting protective over kiddo sister studies..

It ws sweet scenes to watch...

Very Unconvincingly cv's stated about the questions raised from subbu's wife like subbu's mother doesnt know about subbu wife died...

bala cut off relation can understand but why subbu's mother doesnt know...very much unconvinced...

Mrs Iyer's fears r logical as her daughter have a family now...her past doesnt affect her present...

let's c where this forgiving leads to...

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Posted: 10 years ago

You made a post! Yayyy! I agree with all your words, Tanvi!

I do wonder if Raman and Ishita can ever truly forgive Shagun & Subbu. This is more of a general question about life I've had from this idea of forgiveness. The act of forgiving is allowing them to come to terms with their past. To accept it and move on. To allow the wounds of yesterday to heal into mere scars of today.

But some part of me thinks there will always be a sense of apathy or even repulsion to Shagun and Subbu in the deepest corners of their heart. Not for what they did, but for the emotional scars that they created. They have no reason to regret the past because of their beautiful present & future together, and maybe one day they will be grateful for the emotional hurt which lead to personal growth.

But by forgiving them and breaking free from the negativity of the past, they can openly and uninhibitedly welcome a future together.

I think Ishita needed a push to face her past head on. We know she bottles everything up until the very end, and throughout the past 1.5 years of the show, anytime her past came up...she would shut down emotionally. It is her way of coping with things, but it is also what has kept her from totally acknowledging and moving on from the rejections of the past.

I, too, am happy we are seeing a mature Raman right now. As the track progresses, I am sure we will see a more possessive Raman, but I do hope we do not see a totally insecure Raman like the Mani track.

I ❤️ those lyrics!

Great write up, Tanvi! I miss reading your POV on the each episode!

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Posted: 10 years ago

Also - I find it so interesting how both Mrs. Bhalla & Mrs. Iyer interfere in their daughters' marriages out of fear that the marriages won't weather the storm that is in the form of a 3rd party.

It's an interesting juxtapositioning of situations!

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tannvi

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: krishy13
You made a post! Yayyy! I agree with all your words, Tanvi!
I do wonder if Raman and Ishita can ever truly forgive Shagun & Subbu. This is more of a general question about life I've had from this idea of forgiveness. The act of forgiving is allowing them to come to terms with their past. To accept it and move on. To allow the wounds of yesterday to heal into mere scars of today.

i clearly state u truth as Human how much we try to forgive & forget there is always grudge we have inside outself in small amount...it not always there seen in bk of heads sumwhere stays if that person we cum across...
Raman has forgot her past & came in terms of forgiving deal with it...sumwhere it gave him peace to move with life as he has now Ishu in his Life to keep putting soothing balm when its needed...till now subbu never came infront of ishu till now...now he has that pain cropped up which ws deepen inside Ishu till now..she moved in Life but stay with sumthing she lived with rejection long alone...raman is doing same for her which once she did for him...

But some part of me thinks there will always be a sense of apathy or even repulsion to Shagun and Subbu in the deepest corners of their heart. Not for what they did, but for the emotional scars that they created. They have no reason to regret the past because of their beautiful present & future together, and maybe one day they will be grateful for the emotional hurt which lead to personal growth.

so agree...its a very slow process always to forgiving...once its done its always like something good happen...IshRa one day will say what happen in there past ws good...bcoz it happen they have found each-other it ws much best for them...

But by forgiving them and breaking free from the negativity of the past, they can openly and uninhibitedly welcome a future together.

I think Ishita needed a push to face her past head on. We know she bottles everything up until the very end, and throughout the past 1.5 years of the show, anytime her past came up...she would shut down emotionally. It is her way of coping with things, but it is also what has kept her from totally acknowledging and moving on from the rejections of the past.

so so true till now it ws always seen Ishu feeling deepen inside her...which sumwhere not making totally open infront of Raman...her rejection ws biggest..she still has a fear what if ruhi is not if raman goes to shagun...like subbu left her for a child...these fears of her r inside her...but these all needs now let it go...to open them...i hope cv's (though less of hopes from cv's better it would be LOL) still these getting slowly if opening up infront of Raman which till now r hidden...it will be healing for Ishu...

I, too, am happy we are seeing a mature Raman right now. As the track progresses, I am sure we will see a more possessive Raman, but I do hope we do not see a totally insecure Raman like the Mani track.

i Love possessive Raman very much it ws that raman made me hook to show...😆
mature raman is sumthing interesting to watch who accepts who is there seeing she has same pain & wants she doesnt go through same what he went through...

I ❤️ those lyrics!

Great write up, Tanvi! I miss reading your POV on the each episode!

if I get something meaningful i surely try to write sumwhere..im not that good to express my Pov
Thanks Kri for ur Kind words 🤗

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abha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Lovely post tanvi...I so agree what u have said...
I found track so intresting for now atleast...
One thing sure as I said we are getting back to back positivity filled epi...

Out of topic just eant yo say...
It said karma ...thats what happening with 4 of them...
Yes ashok suffering from humiliation which he gave to raman...
Shagun from loneliness which she gave to raman...
Romi and subbu suffering from pain ...bcoz they disown women...

Just felt there is nothing rinki have done...she should not be suffered...

Love adi ru and shravu...
Waiting for story unfolds...
And more positivity.

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tannvi

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: krishy13
Also - I find it so interesting how both Mrs. Bhalla & Mrs. Iyer interfere in their daughters' marriages out of fear that the marriages won't weather the storm that is in the form of a 3rd party.
It's an interesting juxtapositioning of situations!

Kri woahhh..Its interesting how both mother's r riding on same boat for there daughters...

interesting paralle's can be drawn how bother mother's handle the situation of there daughter's in there life whether it will help there children or can create problems how maturely parents handle & make or break things for there children...

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Spero

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hi everyone,

Hope you are all well. Been watching the past 4 eps, excluding tonight's. I have to admit that I felt like I was watching the old YHM. I thoroughly enjoyed the eps, and my KP was in form...of course aided by our own DT 😆

I was looking for Gan's collage thread the past few days. Doesn't she do them anymore?

I don't know what's been happening in YHM world. Did Ishra finally confess? I see that the cursed couch is still there 😡 If it were up to me, I'd throw it out. Never ever shall we have a couch again on YHM sets

Loved these few eps. Never realised how much I missed Ishra/Divan. Give these 2 a good script and dialogues and they work wonders.

I love KP 😊 and I'm soo happy that I got the chance to see some really good YHM eps after ages.

Take care guys. Hope the show stays on this track and doesn't start showing absurd stuff in the name of drama again!

Distance doth make the heart grow fonder!!!

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Autumnn

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Posted: 10 years ago

Lovely write up :)

Me too love the episode especially Ishra scene outside court. Perfect yhm scene. Showing how much Ishra has progress in their relationship. I especially loved the line said by Raman to Ishu.."hum dono toh hai ek dusre ke liye aasoo pochane ke life" with his action of wiping her tears. Perfect! <3

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

Kri woahhh..Its interesting how both mother's r riding on same boat for there daughters...
interesting paralle's can be drawn how bother mother's handle the situation of there daughter's in there life whether it will help there children or can create problems how maturely parents handle & make or break things for there children...

Oh I know. The only sad thing though is that Mrs. Iyer is still working on a couple who have been married for over a year! 😆

But I guess that just shows the strength of a mother. No mother wants to see their daughter's house crumble, and they may try to help despite the fact it could just make things worse.

What's the most interesting though is Mihika & Simmi's positioning in all of this. In trying to save Ishita & Rinki's marriages...both the Iyers & Bhallas don't actively realize they have a daughter at home who is undergoing a divorce.

I think Simmi & Mihika both could develop a beautiful relationship as they face a divorce and broken life. There are differences between the two situations, but both ladies are essentially facing the stigmas of a broken marriage. They are not like Shagun who chose to leave a marriage out of selfishness. They are also not like Shagun who entered the world of high society. They are both middle class girls who will hold the "tag" of divorcee.

Like you said earlier...it's better not to hope from the CVs, but it would be nice for the CVs to focus on Simmi & Mihika as they go through a divorce and adjust to life afterwards.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Lovely post Tanvi 😛

I agree with u completely on this. I truly feel sumtimes that it's necessary to forgive sumone to be able to move on urself. Also sumtimes the hurt or betrayal is such that it's very difficult to forgive. It's easier said than done. I loved that scene between them.

Unlike a lot of people who feel that because Ishita is not forgiving Subbu it means she still loves him or has sum feelings for him. I completely disagree. Just because ur not ready to forgive someone for the hurt they caused u does not mean u haven't moved on.

I loved the bachha party scene 😃 V cute n refreshing. Love d gradual progress in Adi n Adiru bond.

I don't think Ammas fear is totally wrong😕. This thing may cause havoc n we will have to see how far the cvs take this.

Till now the track looks interesting n I do have sum hopes from it but I should know better by now so will be prepared 😆

I want Ishra to come out of this stronger n more in love. I hope the characters r not butchered to extremes. Fingers crossed 😛