Originally posted by: Ekstase
Hello dear đ
Nice post- you described Kabir as a character beautifully and how you felt and still feel about him, I could really connect with it. And this:
Awesome đ I have come across posts stating that Viraj is shown in a negative light to make Kabir look better- which I, honestly, have never seen like this and find rather ridiculous. Kabir is who he is, Viraj doesn't contribute to his character at all - he reacts to him, as you have put it, that's it (and I, myself, would have like Kabir a lot even if Viraj hadn't gone down the path he has now). Neither has Kabir anything to do with his slow changes- that's all him. Besides, many of us have started to grow fond of him long before he had a real interaction with Viraj. Exactly my point also.
Also, as you put it, Nisha and Kabir are maturing together. I think that's a beautiful aspect of their relationship. Many people (girls) apparently think that marriage puts a full stop to a lot of things (especially a career) and that marriage at a young age is foolish - I agree, for marriage there needs to be a certain level of maturity (not age) but even if not, like in NiBir's case, a marriage at a young age can mean to grow together- to go through character growth, to be there for each other through thick and thin, to explore the world together and find your paths (career-wise) with each other's support. It doesn't mean that the girl becomes a housewife (I can't think of one instance where Nisha has acted like a housewife, Kabir and her divide everything and both have jobs, so...) and that her career ends there or that she doesn't have any option for a good career anymore. Women who can handle family/marriage and a career (which they are trying to find or are already pursuing) are, in my eyes, stronger than women who only concentrate on their careers. Personally, I find such relationships where the couple gets the chance to grow together, mature together etc... very beautiful đł Agree with everything and especially like the bolded statements. Nisha stood her ground even when Kabir had to go to interview and asked her to make tea...she didn't let him boss her around... she made the correct point that she too has things to do so everything they do should be divided equally, his interview though important is not going to stand in the way of THEIR responsibilities. But then she herself showed the consideration and let him practice while she went to buy groceries, because he was doing his part by offering his stipend to fix a mistake on his part that was causing her inconvenience. Its such a beautiful orchestration of mutual understanding that these two have...it would put a matured relationship to shame.
Of course, there's a chance of such marriages to break - as there is for any marriage, so. Yes there is. Along with the understanding... there is the chance of misunderstanding also... especially when you muddle things with feelings of the heart. Add to that their nature of immature and hasty decision making, things are bound to get messy but they do have better chances than others in the show to make it work beautifully.
Have nothing more to say- beautiful post đ
