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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually d fault is aksharas only.. Ek minute I'm not saying abt dadajis death mein yeh bol rahi hu ki 'BHABHIMA'S PROBLEM WAS AKSHARA' sirf akshara aur koi nahi.. D whole problem was revolving around bhabhima hateful behavior towards akshara ..is mein naitik ka kya kasur tha?? poor guy was targeted by his son. His own son hating him.. In sab mein nathik ka mistake hai nahi hai woh bechara bus apni wife ko support kar raha tha.. Whose dad chahta tha ki apne hi aulat apne insult kare?? Poor soul yeah sab akshara keliye kar raha tha.. Ithni kurbhani .. Apne bete ki love keliye taras raha tha Cry .. Yeah akshara ki responsibility hai duggu ko sambalna.. Usi ki jamidari hai apni bete ke dil mein apne dad keliye jagha banana kyu ki sirf akshara keliye hi naitik ithna kar raha tha. Akshara duggu ka matter mein thoda strong hona chahiye.. Akshara apne pati keliye ithna tho kar sakthi hai na? When ever duggu insulting naitik 'stop it duggu' ke bagair woh kuch nahi bol rahi hai its totally wrong on her part. I'm not blaming her but yeah sab mujhe thik nahi laga.. Ek teenage boy apne dad ko inthna insult Karna dat 2 naitik ko its not bearable .. He don't deserve this at all hai na.. 😭

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Posted: 10 years ago
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i don't think its only akshara's fault..but somewhere she can scold duggu more when he is not talking properly to naitik..
its parents duty to teach some manners to their children..where their children is insulting own mother and father..or anyone..
but i think its really tough to control the situation for a mother when ur husband and child arguing with eachother..
because father is always strict and mother always became a sandwhich bw them..so as akshara..
ya we all know that naitik did this all things olny for akshara..and we are proud on him..its not easy to leave ur family behind and everyday ur son's taunt..
but to blame only akshara is totally wrong..
atleast form my side..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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AND YA ABSOLUTELY AGREE THAT NATIK DON'T DESERVE THIS..
Edited by hirannaksh - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh topic maker hold on..Why are you blaming Akshara for naitik's duggu distant relationship first of all? you can judge what trauma Akshara had gone through that 10 yrs. period..Getting hatred for no fault of her..may be you couldn't able to judge her pain basically becoz your viewpts. only for naitik..Naitik is not a saint if he had supported his wife becoz he knew daddaji 's worsen condition before death & Akshara called him too many times as doctor wanted him to speak & took some decisions..Even we are n't happy with creatives by making bahus /girls/ girl parents to speak on behalf of her/them..This show always show fakeness by treating Singhania's as mahaan tags..Naitik knew that Akshara had n't done anything for which she was blamed by his so called bhabhi maa..Why he didn't speak on behalf of Akshara..Poor soul Akshara the main sufferer of this track..Akshara is not responsible for naitik's & duggu distant relationship..If Akshara didn't tell the truth then why could n't Naitik or even his family members too..What 's this?..Naksh brings two families together?..What about Akshara's pain?..Are bahus/girls are n't humans?..Why such treatment for bahus by boys families?.. What bhabhi maa & his family did with Akshara w as absolutely wrong?..They deserve treatment but yes for creatives Singhania's family is a saint & mahaan..Why they give importance to Maheshwari's & bahus..Sirf naatak dikhate hain creatives zindagi ki haqeeqat aur sachai nahin..yrkkh is only a fictional show far from realities & whatever happens in modern world.. Creatives must show bhabhi maa & rest of Singhania's family must realize what blunder they did with their self less bahu Akshara..Think on Akshara's part too..Akshara is only a rolling stone between her husband & her son as both baap beta are stubborn & ziddi by nature...Poor Soul Akshara..Even Rajashri maa dialogues rightly suggested y'day ki Akshara akeli un tino koh sambhal rahi hain ..My & My family view..Thumbs down creatives.
Edited by akshara456 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am sry but I think we need to discuss any problem with a view of not hurting others...
Let's have friendly talks and let one another learn about each other pov..
Sry if I hurt anyone😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --pranu--

I am sry but I think we need to discuss any problem with a view of not hurting others...

Let's have friendly talks and let one another learn about each other pov..
Sry if I hurt anyone😊

yup right we should put our points without saying anything about bad for others..respect others views if u are only fan of single lead..
" apni baat aise rakho ki baat bhi keh do au kisi ko bura bhi naa lage "
enough of my gyan..but at the end of the day we all are fan of YRKKH..thorugh AKSHARA OR NAITIK
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@TM - You are actually talking like my Dadi! Usne apne bache ko ache sanskar kyum nahi diye? Yeh sab uske ma ki galati ahi! Ek ma ko apne bachonko sahi raha dikhani chahiye. Us bache ki galatiyonka karan sirf uski ma ki buri parvarish hai ... etc.
As if a mother is a rmote to her children and their behaviour. Duggu is an adult and he is responsible for his own views. From his perspective, he does not know why Naiitk chose for his family to move to South Africa and never visit the SS in India. They talk to the SS family as if they have not left, but refuse to go visit. I am pretty sure that Duggu is feeling helpless bcause he spent his childhood iwth the SS (no matter how weird or mahan they are) and he misses them dearly. Yet, they refuse to tell him the reason why they left India. In his head, Naitik favours only Naira and dislikes him. He is also angry on Naitik on uprooting him from his childhood.
[I too was nine when I left India to go abroad, and I cried almost every night for a few months because I missed my family dearly. I rember my mother being very sad as well. That is a very bad age to leave one's country, because kou remember enough to miss it but not enough to understand why you loved it so much. Obviously, my parents told me why we left, so I did not hate them.]
On top of that, Duggu is a teenager so "garam khun" toh hota hai (according to my dad). He is bound to be rebellious but yes his hurting words are unwarranted. They could have shown him as being quiet in front of his dad and dfient of his authority at the same time.

Akshara's only fault in the whole thing is that she should have told Duggu the truth of Naitik's kurbani. It will wipe out the hatred that Duggu feels for his father.

P.S. Sorry TM if I hurt your feelings. This is not my intention. Please do not take it to heart. I jsut dislike the whole attitude of blaming the mother if the adult kid does something wrong. Although I am a girl, I can see my teenage self in Duggu and I do not wish anyone to blame my mother for my mistakes. (Oh, and my mother is just as selfless as Akshara with my Nana and Nani like Vshambhar and Rajyashree.)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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How difficult to see Naitik's suffering of rude behavior from naksh..Can anyone imagine how difficult to face hatred from your elders for no valid reasons?..Why creatives would n't give opportunities to girls/bahus/ their families to speak up their points?..Why in this show always given more importance to boys/boys families?..Are girls & their families not living in this world? Are they are not humans?..Are they n't not effected by anything even so harsh treatment done with girls/babus/their families..Why for yeh rista story maker & creatives make their story on behalf of elders/boys families?..Why creatives won't give any consideration / importance to girls /girls parents in this show? More than six & half yrs. still living on same story lines..Whose girls parents are n't effected or deeply hurt whose daughters were dragged from their houses by putting blame by her/their daughter in laws...Why only on one line this show is moving from the beginning up till now...When will creatives & story makers of yeh rista on behalf of girls & their families..To show fakeness in the show to some extent but if the creatives will try to show only on behalf of same lines, who in the audience /viewers will support them /show..At least girls parents will n't..How can the creatives hurt the sentiments of girls/their families again & again..Why the creatives are showing negligence on this part..For how many yrs. we will see the same thing in this show..My mom who is a great lover of this show has now rejected this show now with this tract..We have given up for everything..Why can't creatives think on this sensitive issues too..Poor aptitude of creatives, story maker & the whole creative team on this tract & even before too sometimes..Jaago creatives jaago aur joh duniya mein ho raha hain usse dikhayo warna dheere-2 iss show se log door hote jayeinga..mind my words.
Edited by devikarulez - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you devikarulez-- With this creative approach , most of the times hurt the feelings of girls /girls parents by the view of taking them granted for everything..Only have one direction to show in yr what about other perspectives?..Is this show only seen by the boys families?..What about the parents who have two daughters ?..Are they happy to see that no chance given to Akshara & Maheshwari's families to react after bhabhi maa's arrogance & harsh treatment towards Akshara? No is my answer..Why naksh to bring two families together?..Why can't bhabhi maa & rajbanna realize of their fault on their own?..Really feel shockedto see in t'days sbs segment the way Akshara's dadi kissed & hugged bhabhi maa when she came to her house..What over drama will be shown by creatives in future episodes..What about ?Akshara's dadi's feeling for Akshara?..Can creatives explain it?..Is it so easy in reality?..Absolutely no is my reply..Total fakeness & full of melo dramas only..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I can't understand how the topic maker put all blame on Akshara for duggu's rash behavior towards naitik..I want to ask one ques..Are Naitik & duggu are little kids who can't solve their differences by talking simply with each other?..Why Akshara to interfere? & Secondly How can she tell the whole truth to duggu about bhabhi maa & others..Is it so easy for a person to tell the truth who is to be blamed for some one's death..?..How can you think like this..Only seeing naitik's pain ..What about Akshara?..Has she been able to live normally?..How much pain she has suffered & also the hatred of bhabhi maa?..Is she not a human?..To live in guilt & so much hatred is not so easy in real life...My opinion is different ..I feel more sympathetic & pain of Akshara than naitik...
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