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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hello everyone..

Here is our discussion topic this week...

Are Similarities important in a relationship?

Does the person u love have to be similar to u?

Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out?

Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u?

Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u?

Anything else u wanna add about similarities?

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prithvi lover thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Are Similarities important in a relationship? yes!!!!

Does the person u love have to be similar to u?no!!!!

Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out? yes!!!!!!1

Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u? yes!!!!!

Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u? none! iammore like my sister! 😉

Anything else u wanna add about similarities? not really needed in friendship.........but IMP in partner relationship!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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*Are Similarities important in a relationship? In my case, some similarities. I don't want a person whose just like me because that'll get boring but I want the person to have some similarities as me and some different from me. 😉

*Does the person u love have to be similar to u? No, the same answer as the first question. Some similarites and some different 😉 😳

Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out? Yes, most of the time I feel that way. Because I lost connect with most of my friends because we are opposite of each other.

*Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u? Well, I was in love with a guy that was the total opposite of me so yes to the question

Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u? The last time I saw my dad was when I was 2. He died. My mom raised me so she's like my best friend.

Anything else u wanna add about similarities? In my opinion, I like to have a friend whose similar to me. But I want to have a lover/partner/husband or boyfriend to have some similarites and some different
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Are Similarities important in a relationship?
Well.. they say 'Opposite attracts ;)'

Does the person u love have to be similar to u?
You fight with a person because most of the times.. he/she is opposite to your nature. and you know they say .. pyaar mey pehle pehle jhagra hota hai and then you never know woh pyaar mey kab badal jata hai 😉 .

Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out?
Well.. as for friends.. i know that even if they have different natures.. one of them will copy the other and results in similarity. My dad and his best friend has got the same habit/nature. Me and my friends have got the same nature. So, one of the friends jus adopts all or most of your habits and that's how it results in similarity. and that's great.. i guess. :)

Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u?
You never know about love.. kabhi bhi, kisi se bhi ho sakta hai😳.

Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u?
Aah.. ma mom says that i am a complete daddy's girl and my habits are the same as his! 😛 😆 There was a time when i used to be more close to my dad than my mom. But now i am more close to my mom! :)

Anything else u wanna add about similarities?
I said it all in the friendship wala question :).
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: shizajaved

Are Similarities important in a relationship?
Well.. they say 'Opposite attracts ;)'


well said shiz....😉
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Anji~

Are Similarities important in a relationship? Nope not at all. As 'oppisites attract'.

Does the person u love have to be similar to u? Yeah. I guess..

Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out? Nope. Once again two friends or love birds do not have to like the same things in order to be friends or somthing..

Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u? Maybe..

Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u? Hm closer to both..And both my mom and dad are like me😛

Anything else u wanna add about similarities?Nope

Great topic!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Are Similarities important in a relationship?
In my opinion similarities are not totally important but some let the relationship run smoothly.....say if 2 friends have similar likes n dislikes they will get along 2getah as they'll have more to talk about and they will be able to connect to each otha. And that's the same with differences, if u have different taste then u can try out the things that your friend does and u mite start likeing dat 2 !

Does the person u love have to be similar to u?
Nope.....everyonez unique n das wot makes them special n das y u love em 😳

Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out?
Nope....even if they have diff taste their friendship can still work out......but saying dat me n my best mate are like psychic alwayz knowing wot the otah person's abt to say 😆

Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u?
u never know......like they say opposites attract 😆 😛 😳

Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u?
Mom!! shez like so me lol....we both have similar tastes and simialar faults 😆

Anything else u wanna add about similarities?
Nope

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Anji~

Hello everyone.. Hi!! 😃

Are Similarities important in a relationship? uhh.. yes i guess so u obviously need to have some things in common right?

Does the person u love have to be similar to u? no it doesnt have to be similar in everything.. but a lil bit yeh

Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out? No

Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u? Yes totally why not?

Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u? uhh.. i have to say both and uhh sadlt none of them are like me.. LOL!! 😆

Anything else u wanna add about similarities? nope 😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Are Similarities important in a relationship? Not really, life is boring if both partner are the same, if they are kinda opposite and have different choice then there is always some new stuff to explore in life.

Does the person u love have to be similar to u? No, Not really

Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out? Again i would say No

Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u? Not really, i don't want someone that is similar to me nor i want someone that is the total oppsite of me

Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u? I would say am closer to both but my dad loves me more.

Anything else u wanna add about similarities? To add some spice in life, there has to be some difference.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Are Similarities important in a relationship?

Well yeah, similarities are important in a relationship, but not similarities as in same taste, same looks etc.. but as in same values..


Does the person u love have to be similar to u?

NOt totally, but he should be able to communicate with me, to respect me and therefore i feel we should be on the same wavelength


Do 2 friends have to be similar for their friendhship to work out?

No not at all, you can be totally different from each other and still become Best friends, like i have so many friends who are totally different from me qua background, culture, ethnicity, values but still we manage to understand and respect each other's values and feelings 😉


Would u love someone who is the total opposite of u?

Hhmm as i said, it is possible..as love has to be unconditionally, but sometimes i agree it's hard to communicate when 2 opposites are together😉


Are u closer to ur mom or dad? and which one if more like u?

Well i was closer to my dad, but he's no more..😕.and of course i love my mom very much😊, she's like my and my sisters' friend too and i think i have characteristics of both my parents😛


Anything else u wanna add about similarities?

Only that it's good to have similarities, but you can maintain a relationship, whether it's a love relationship or friendship, even when u differ from each other😛


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