Ishraholics Anonymous ~March 28. 2015. Collages added

Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the person you thought would never hurt you. ~Unknown

"He is the hero of her childhood and often a wall she pushes against during her adolescence. He is often both the rule-maker, laying out laws of discipline and competence, and the rule-breaker, helping his daughter take risks, push the envelope, and explore uncharted worlds.

~Michael Gurian, The Wonder of Girls

The episode itself was not a bad one. I actually I quite enjoyed it due to the Ruman scenes.

For the pity I lost for Ishita returned back today. Ruhi is only mad at Ishita which sucks so bad because Ishita did what she did was all for Raman. And now Ishita is the only one paying such a hefty price for it. They say we get mad at those who we love the most and this definitely applies in Ishru's situation. I have two theories in why Ruhi is mad at Ishita.

1. From all the people in her life, Ruhi never though her Ishita would be the one to give up on her. Ruhi trusts Ishita the most, and when her own mother didn't fight for the child was blinded sided really badly. Also Ruhi probably taught that no matter what, her Ishimaa would fight for her.
2. The second reason could be Ishita denied Ruhi as her daughter and that hurt her more than anything. She did call herself Ruhi's stepmother when we all know Ruhi has always fought against that.
3. Both my theories could be correct or wrong

Whatever the reason is, Ishita is the only one paying for it. The last scene made me tear up. Those emotions that were gone now returned today. She was so desperate to see her daughter that she ran on one leg to meet her daughter. That is what you call true love. It made nostalgic to see the flashback of their first meeting with the Bg music. I am not looking forward to see Ishita being rejected by Ruhi on Monday.

Ruman scenes were sweet to see. As much as I am mad at Raman for the situation they are in, no one can deny this man loves his daughter a lot. Watching his joy by seeing Ruhi was sweet and wiping off the lipstick were heart-warming. These are the reasons why I stay loyal to the show because you never know when cvs will provide you with quality scenes. Also, he was ready to give back Shagun money so Ruhi would not have to work. I am maybe the minority but it was nice for Raman to give up his ego for his daughter. I enjoyed watching Raman fight for her. That's what a father is, fighting for his children. For once I want Raman to be the one to fix the mess he caused. Please cvs if you're reading this, bring back the epic RKB.

Shagun is such a low life woman. That's the nicest way I can put it. Both Raman and Ashok never fell for her excuses because both know what tye of woman she is. The ego on her is disgusting. I wanted to punch this woman today. Blackmailing an innocent child to live an elite lifestyle in my books is emotional abuse. She has done that with Adi and now she is doing that with Ruhi. The first hand this woman wants Ruhi to stay away from her parents and the next second she is using them to emotional blackmail her to doing what she wants. One thing I have to give it to Shagun is that she knows how use people's weakness against them. That's why her latest target was Ruhi because she herself knows Ishita loves Ruhi more than a biological mother can love her. Again I am tired of seeing Shagun on my screen and I am so happy that Anita got a new show.

---Notes---

I know I said that the cvs introducing the Mihika marital rape track was bad timing but it made me thing, they probably introduced Mihika's truth and rape track because KP wasn't available. My only concern is they will not give proper justice to the whole issue. But I will keep my hopes up high.

For Shagun today:

Collage by Gan

"I take my time because I love how it feels to carry her, the way she needs me, the way I need to protect her."

Jessica Sorensen

Collage by VJ on Page 3

Originally posted by: stylish_VJ

The scene was just so RuMan...❤️

Good analysis Coco. I haven't seen it so can't discuss, but appears it wasn't all bad !!!!!

Everyone fedupp with shagun track expact Cvs with that they open many track with out proper closer

Coco! This is terrific...!🤗

I'll come back and add more later but this perfectly describes Shaggy's mentality to me, especially now:


And this describes the current show and the CV's attitude towards Shagun on the show:


And this is me...


😭 When did this become the 'all about Shagun' show? I need to know... was this the plan all along or simply a 'happy coincidence?'🤢

Just back from an official meeting! Will watch at 11.00 and comment.

Good post👏👏👏

The episode wasnt bad okiesh for me nothing much happened though!!

Liked Ruman scene surprised to see Ruhi behaving normally with raman shouldnt she be angry with her father too as her father also disowned her and not her ishima alone, may be she can expect it from raman as he neglected her and never expressed his love for her for almost 6 years untill ishita came in their life so she is not angry with him but with ishita its different. Ishita has always fought for ruhi with everyone no matter what, ruhi's happiness was of utmost priority for ishita always and she has never let ruhi down until choosing adi over her thus she never expected ishita of all the people to disown her and choose adi over herself. She trusted ishita blindly and that trust is broken and she is completely shaken by her decision so she is super angry with ishita!! I can somehow relate to ruhi's stand but my heart went out to ishita today the way she forgot about her injury after seeing ruhi and went to meet her i could not see her pain!! Ishita and ruhi are suffering the most in this track and now its getting too much to see their pain!!
Must say cvs are making good use of DT's injury and DT is taking too much of effort in doing it to the perfection!! I have never seen such level of commitment from any actor!! Hats off to her!! My respect for her has increased leaps and bounds she is truly an inspiration to many!!

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But Gan's Raman-Ruhi collage has stolen my heart! Even though Ruhi's mad at her entire family...when her mom put make up on her, took her to a strange office with an uncle she knows is bad, and forced her to perform...who better to turn to than her father? It may look like she has just forgiven him and not Ishita, but to me that was a 7 year old trying to come to terms with a scary situation!

#Puttar save your daughter
#Biwi fight for your daughter

Coco wonderful post yaar.. I really loved the Ruman moments... Rest most of it I skipped.. I Can't watch Shagun anymore these days..