Friendship vs Love once again...

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arathim

@arathim

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

Watched the Epi...

The Biggest of Conflicts in KYY again brought to forefront...

Friendship or Love...

"How does it matter..? After all its Dhruv..?"

The Dilemma...

Show compassion and understanding towards the Friend who is depressed and acting out and is no where in a position to think straight...

Fight for the Love of your Life... regain the Trust that you deemed the most important...

If Manik chooses as he has done currently to back off for Dhruv then he is putting the one chance he has got in his Life for True Love at Stake...

If Manik chooses Nandhini then he is losing the one last chance to win his Best Friend / Brother Back...

Karein tho Kya Karein...

His Love is his SKY... full of HOPE and LOVE and LIFE...

His Friendship is his GROUND... where he has Grown up and LIVED...

The thing is there is no right choice in choosing between LOVE and FRIENDSHIP...

His actions , His decisions are all based on the situations he is in...

When Manik had to choose between safety of Nandhini and Fab5 Album Dream ... he chose Nandhini's safety...

He went with the situation that was the highest priority... Nandhini's safety...

Now when Manik chose Dhruv because he is still counting on protecting Nandhini irrespective of his presence in the Concert...

If he feels that he will not be able to protect her without competing in Concert... then he will compete... Dhruvie's Depression be Damned...

He is just making sense of situation as it comes and making the best possible decision in its face...

When Friendship needs him the most he Prioritizes it... When Love needs him the most he Prioritizes it...

From his perspective he is doing the best that he can...

"Manik hamara kya..? what about us..?"

But From Nandhini's perspective the Guy she loves, had staked their relationship on a Concert...

Now he is backing out of it... so where does that leave them...

The Guy who needs absolute Trust...absolute everything... the Humeshas... he is not able to give her ...Her Humesha...

Humesha to be with Her no matter what the situation is...

How much can she fight for them... when he himself will back out...

From her perspective she is doing the best that she can...

She is trying her best to understand his situation... but her patience is running out... she is human after all...

She questions herself and him ... how can she fight for them... when he is not even giving her the opportunity to fight for them...

Here both are Right in their own Perspectives... and at the same time Wrong when seen from the other perspective...

The only way now is to be a Team and find a way out of the Dilemma... because one's pain is the other's Pain too... one's trouble is the other's trouble too... they are one unit now... they need to face the problem as one unit... only then they will find the solution... Just like they did or tried to do with the almirahs... together...

Someone wise had said... No one can be completely Right nor Completely wrong... we do our best in the situation we face... and we move on... THATS LIFE...!!!

Edited by arathim - 10 years ago

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Tanvi

@manan58

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

U r absolutely right.. They need to work as a team n find a sol to this prob

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kresham

@kresham

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

such a beautiful post arti...

n u r ryt...both r correct at their place but somewhere both r wrong also...as situation is demanding in a very messed up way...where both r helpless...

awesome post...

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Zoya_09

@Zoya_09

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Yup, back to square one...hope CV's will handle this situation differently...beautiful post Arathi , thanks !

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riddhima11

@riddhima11

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

very aptly described both of their situations... very nice post arathi

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priya

@priya_sejwal

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Very nice post

U described n compared these 2 situations perfectly...

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harinisriram39

@harinisriram39

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Wow Arathi, what a post. Yet to watch the episode and your post gave a full feel of watching it.

Missing your posts. How do you manage to put it so beautifully. "Right in their own perspective but wrong in the others'"
A great big hug to you for this.

It is not about Nandini vs Fab 5 but the priority at the moment.

Like Cabir first attended to Mukti and saw her home safe and then called to check on Manik. Feeling sure that Nandini would calm down Manik, he wanted to check on Alya. He went by the need of the hour.

If Manik had not put that condition of performing the concert together as a mandate for their relationship, may be Nandini would have understood why Manik is doing this for Dhruv.

Manik is now yearning to win back the friendship of Dhruv because he felt that he is the reason for not able to see it before itself on how Dhruv started to feel about him. He feels that if he had known earlier then he might have clarified Dhruv and not let it go so far. When it comes to Dhruv , its parental ego for him (not saying that ego is wrong but just a feeling). Whatever situation resulted in this fall out , he wants to take responsibility and sort this out.
When it came to his trust issue with Nandini where he felt betrayed by her, it is the child ego. Just like Dhruv is not thinking with his clouded judgement.

Best time for Manik to realise that his situation with Dhruv is same as Nandini's situation for him where she wants him back so badly as he wants Dhruv back at any cost.

Edited by harinisriram39 - 10 years ago

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arathim

@arathim

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: harinisriram39
Wow Arathi, what a post. Yet to watch the episode and your post gave a full feel of watching it.

Missing your posts. How do you manage to put it so beautifully. "Right in their own perspective but wrong in the others'"
A great big hug to you for this.

It is not about Nandini vs Fab 5 but the priority at the moment.

Like Cabir first attended to Mukti and saw her home safe and then called to check on Manik. Feeling sure that Nandini would calm down Manik, he wanted to check on Alya. He went by the need of the hour.

If Manik had not put that condition of performing the concert together as a mandate for their relationship, may be Nandini would have understood why Manik is doing this for Dhruv.

Manik is now yearning to win back the friendship of Dhruv because he felt that he is the reason for not able to see it before itself on how Dhruv started to feel about him. He feels that if he had known earlier then he might have clarified Dhruv and not let it go so far. When it comes to Dhruv , its parental ego for him (not saying that ego is wrong but just a feeling). Whatever situation resulted in this fall out , he wants to take responsibility and sort this out.
When it came to his trust issue with Nandini where he felt betrayed by her, it is the child ego. Just like Dhruv is not thinking with his clouded judgement.

Best time for Manik to realise that his situation with Dhruv is same as Nandini's situation for him where she wants him back so badly as he wants Dhruv back at any cost.

Thanks Harini..!!!😊

Its that... Priority... for Manik... Dhruv is his priority now... if situation changes...Nandhu is in danger then she becomes the priority... not only physically but if their relationship is also in danger... their relationship will become the priority...the only thing is they need to team up and talk and undesrtand each other's situations and plan it out...

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arathim

@arathim

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: kresham
such a beautiful post arti...

n u r ryt...both r correct at their place but somewhere both r wrong also...as situation is demanding in a very messed up way...where both r helpless...

awesome post...

Thanks Krithu...😊