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Posted: 10 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

When did mannu cross the line? I dont remember.

when he slapped Sanchi😆though it was cute and he was ⭐️but he gave a punch to Sanchi quite hard 🤣Sanchi was holding her cheek Didn't Ganga ask Mannu it is not correct apologize to Sanchi auntie ?i am talking about such incidents
Edited by saba113 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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How it can be any other kid the way Abhi is feeling If not shivam then it can be someone else This logic applies when every other kid is staying in the same house with him and boasting off in front of him he is everyone's favorite in the house ? Only because he is not scolded by others because they have to keep limits as he is nothing to them I am talking about Jagya and Ganga here Dsa does not say anything to anyone does not mean shivam is her more laadla
Dadisaa i found it unfair of her in that story scene Why she does not tell story to both kids at same time when she didn't tell to Abhi then why asking him to listen to remaining story Isn't that sprinkling salt on wounds ?

Why expecting everything J should do to his child only then abhi will be alright? Is Anandi's child absolutely doing right? J 's child has misunderstanding of shivam being favored by his dad which is not true but he thinks since Shivam does not get scolded by his dad but Anandi's son also have a misunderstanding This king of the house attitude because others don't scold him for his acts ?Anandi should put her son in limits as well First she should make him clear all kids are equal in this house and equally loved by all of them and he should not rub on others face I am blah blah's favorite
Second thats pretty rude to eat others food like that without asking permission from anyone Even real siblings don't like that Since Jagya Ganga won't say anything to shivam for this does not mean Anandi also does not firmly put him in some limits Thats not right Today he has eaten sandwitches tomorrow will do something else pick up their other stuff which they may not wish to share with him Thats not correct Anandi tried to make him see his mistake but so leniently that he did not pick up any iota of meaning from it otherwise at least he would have gone and apologized to Abhi i won't do this again

Yeah J has to make Abhi understand then Anandi also has to make Shivam understand in proper way because he is no less mess maker with Abhi


Edited by Mehek134 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Abhi particularly said Dadisaa will fake praising for me He thinks Dadisaa too favors shivam over him and loves him more than him and shivam too said he is Dsa 's favorite
One can understand why he feels his father prefers shivam more than him because he sees his dad scolding him for his mistake same he does not do with shivam and abhi does not know why so he has developed a Misunderstanding in him his dad loves shivam more than him and that when he scolds Abhi is only to protect shivam instead of his mistake but why he feels like this for Dadisaa ?Dadisaa does not scold anyone but all i can see this dokri must be paying too much attention to shivam , pouring praises on him or might have done comparisons between Shivam and Abhi just like she does of Anandi and Ganga and hurt Ganga Never for once she realized and thats why the kid is feeling like this for her and shivam thinks he is her favorite and in that story scene she was BIASED one can see First why not tell story to both kids at same time , if did not then Abhi is left for remaining bacha kucha stuff only ? She realized what she uttered later but how many times she would have done it and could not realize one can see through Abhi 's feelings like these for her even when she does not scold Abhi
Edited by AdorableAnusha - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The very first scene we saw ''Abhi must give his toy to Shivam'' was a hint of what will happen in the future. And after a leap of 11 years is very clear that Shivam, since he's a fatherless child was given a precedence over Abhi. Its not for nothing that Shivam became overconfident and Abhi lost confidence in himself. Watching all these 11 years how everybody in his house are lenient towards Shivam , how Shivam considers himself as a good boy , family favorite , etc. no wonder that Abhi's outburst. I would too at some point and especially at Abhi's age. But on the other hand Is it really a good qualitiy if someone like Shivam for example, an 11 years old child considers himself to be superior than others ,to be boastful, to take stuff(no matter what) without asking from other people's rooms, not to feel the need to apologize because he thinks that he had done nothing wrong -no one will scold him -,because obviously nobody ever did .I Wonder what would've happened if it was the other way around. And no one sees that but the only troublemaker here is Abhi.I can imagine how many times Abhi had to cede some of his like that toy from the beginning.( this scene did not happen by chance) And Ganga like all good mothers sees that something bothering her child ,wants to deal with his problem.But is it really the only problem in Abhi's behavior and Jagan have to deal with it or the other mother should atleast a little bit pay attention on her own child and how the other child feels because of her son's bragging .And yes '' I'm a good boy, everybody in this family loves me more, I'm Dadisa 's favorite '' IS bragging.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jagya and his son has same fate😛 Jagya was cursed bashed , abused and was the most wrong person on planet the way every one was abusing him around in BV when he did not wish to be with his Balika Vadhu His mother told him i curse my luck you were born to me Wish Anandi would be born to me and why? because she was convincing him to be with his janam janam ki saathi Anandi when he refused she slapped him and cursed her luck why he is born to me

Later he has to live his life according to whims and fancies of Anandi Madam ji wants him to stay in house because she gave him responsibility of the family he cannot move out to have some space of his own He is wrong

He is suppose to sell his soul and marry Sanchi because Anandi should stay happy in her sasra No problem should come for her

He married Ganga He was rudely disowned by his granny and even hospital was snatched from him because of you our laadli Anandi has to stay away from her sasural cum maika , and that Anandi is much more important for Us than U and she brought you in home Wonder this house was her private property Who is she to decide whether he should stay at BH or not ?that he was taunted she brought him to his own house ?Its a great favor of her done to him ?

Jagya and Ganga have to accept Anandi and tolerate her forever
Now pretty sure Jagya's son will be declared wrong Why he is not accepting Shivam ? He is suppose to share everything with Shivam and accept the poor orphan kid as his brother and its his birth right on everything and that Abhi should learn to adjust with him


Edited by Beautiful-Soul - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Beautiful-Soul

Jagya and his son has same fate😛 Jagya was cursed bashed , abused and was the most wrong person on planet the way every one was abusing him around in BV when he did not wish to be with his Balika Vadhu His mother told him i curse my luck you were born to me Wish Anandi would be born to me and why? because she was convincing him to be with his janam janam ki saathi Anandi when he refused she slapped him and cursed her luck why he is born to me

Later he has to live his life according to whims and fancies of Anandi Madam ji wants him to stay in house because she gave him responsibility of the family he cannot move out to have some space of his own He is wrong

He is suppose to sell his soul and marry Sanchi because Anandi should stay happy in her sasra No problem should come for her

He married Ganga He was rudely disowned by his granny and even hospital was snatched from him because of you our laadli Anandi has to stay away from her sasural cum maika , and that Anandi is much more important for U than us and she brought you in home Wonder this house was her private property Who is she to decide whether he should stay at BH or not ?that he was taunted she brought him to his own house ?Its a great favor of her done to him ?

Jagya and Ganga have to accept Anandi and tolerate her forever
Now pretty sure Jagya's son will be declared wrong Why he is not accepting Shivam ? He is suppose to share everything with Shivam and accept the poor orphan kid as his brother and its his birth right on everything and that Abhi should learn to adjust with him




Beautiful-Soul beautifully said.😉 Exactly my point.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Abhi will get alright if Anandi start putting her son in limits and when he does mistake that is worth of apologizing to Abhi make him apologize to him

Jagya and Ganga are in tight situation they cannot scold Shivam because it will make Anandi feel bad Every parent wants to keep their child in check themselves but feels bad when others start keeping their children in check so Jagya and Ganga are dealing with shivam in limitations and leave him to Anandi to check and Shivam is growing over confident he thinks he is never wrong and that he is a very good boy thats because Anandi's way of dealing with him is too soft that he never realize his mistake

and poor Abhi is feeling lonely His parents are in tight situation cannot correct shivam and when he complains to Anandi about shivam messing with him Still no effect This time for sandwitches thing he complained to Anandi but what happened ? No realization from shivam at all so what will happen even if Jagya explains to Abhi why he does not scold shivam he is Anandi's son when Anandi also cannot make shivam realize his mistake and he is going over confident and have '' i am always right attitude''Its always Abhi's fault?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Beautiful-Soul

Jagya and his son has same fate😛 Jagya was cursed bashed , abused and was the most wrong person on planet the way every one was abusing him around in BV when he did not wish to be with his Balika Vadhu His mother told him i curse my luck you were born to me Wish Anandi would be born to me and why? because she was convincing him to be with his janam janam ki saathi Anandi when he refused she slapped him and cursed her luck why he is born to me

Later he has to live his life according to whims and fancies of Anandi Madam ji wants him to stay in house because she gave him responsibility of the family he cannot move out to have some space of his own He is wrong

He is suppose to sell his soul and marry Sanchi because Anandi should stay happy in her sasra No problem should come for her

He married Ganga He was rudely disowned by his granny and even hospital was snatched from him because of you our laadli Anandi has to stay away from her sasural cum maika , and that Anandi is much more important for Us than U and she brought you in home Wonder this house was her private property Who is she to decide whether he should stay at BH or not ?that he was taunted she brought him to his own house ?Its a great favor of her done to him ?

Jagya and Ganga have to accept Anandi and tolerate her forever
Now pretty sure Jagya's son will be declared wrong Why he is not accepting Shivam ? He is suppose to share everything with Shivam and accept the poor orphan kid as his brother and its his birth right on everything and that Abhi should learn to adjust with him


Poor Jagya and Abhi

in fact poor Sugna too I felt really bad seeing Dadisaa and Sumitra handing over their most precious treasure Dadisaa her wedding dress and Sumitra her necklace All for Anandi Nothing for Sugna ?




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Posted: 10 years ago
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well said...in this track they wanted to show shivam as a activ kid like shiv and anandi and abhi is jelous about shivm just like jagiya used to be of anandi, here it does not suit right...shivam is over confident and thinking he is too good and he was saying anandi always says that he is good...with abhi jagiya is not understanding and wanted to be bit soft with anandi's son, so it looks bit harsh to abhi, Ganga is doing wright here she is trying to explain him where he is wrong, but she cannot be very strict to him when is having insecurity that his dad is not being good to him at this point when one parent is strict if other is so strict then it might lead to more misunderstanding and cannot learn what is going on in child brain...dont interfere when one parent is strict, but at the same time both should not be very strict all the time, one need to explain them what is wrong in a good way, which is not happening in the family situation.


Originally posted by: kikyo

Abhi will get alright if Anandi start putting her son in limits and when he does mistake that is worth of apologizing to Abhi make him apologize to him

Jagya and Ganga are in tight situation they cannot scold Shivam because it will make Anandi feel bad Every parent wants to keep their child in check themselves but feels bad when others start keeping their children in check so Jagya and Ganga are dealing with shivam in limitations and leave him to Anandi to check and Shivam is growing over confident he thinks he is never wrong and that he is a very good boy thats because Anandi's way of dealing with him is too soft that he never realize his mistake

and poor Abhi is feeling lonely His parents are in tight situation cannot correct shivam and when he complains to Anandi about shivam messing with him Still no effect This time for sandwitches thing he complained to Anandi but what happened ? No realization from shivam at all so what will happen even if Jagya explains to Abhi why he does not scold shivam he is Anandi's son when Anandi also cannot make shivam realize his mistake and he is going over confident and have '' i am always right attitude''Its always Abhi's fault?

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