Originally posted by: metoyou
<font color="#0000ff">Not a bad episode. They are working towards the big thing which is Suhaani's kidnapping and accident.</font>
<font color="#0000ff">What really caught my attention was Pam.</font>
<font color="#0000ff">Yes we all know she is a negative character, I would not say villain per se but the woman has a lot of negativity in her which is close to hate.</font>
<font color="#0000ff">She being upset about Suhaani's missing is justified. It is true that she gave up 15 years of her life to raise the children of her brother. That is not something every sister is ready to do. It is a big sacrifice. Of course, we still do not know if Pam has anything to do with the separation of NeiRa, but for now I kinda felt sorry for her.</font>
<font color="#0000ff">Not entirely though. She has raised the kids and made sure that she was always there for them, even when their own father forgot to fulfill his responsibilities! But but but... the duty of a mother is also to teach your kids good and bad, right and wrong. And to me, Pam has failed a bit there. When Ranbir told her about his plan she should have acted like a mother and not like Ragini's enemy. She should have put her hatred for Ragini aside and made it teach Ranbir that whatever path he has chosen is completely wrong. Another example is the whole accident thing with Ranbir and Shilpa, again she failed.</font>
<font color="#0000ff">Out of frustration and irritation she yelled at Nivedita. Again, there are two ways about this. Good that she told all those things to her but then Pam should also have told Neil about it.</font>
<font color="#0000ff">To cut a long ''story'' short, Pam's character is a tricky one. She loves the kids from the bottom of her heart and is therefore ready to anything for them. She believes that she has fulfilled her duty as a 'mother', which is true to a certain extent. But she should very well understand that even though she was there for them in all those years, Ragini is and will always be there mother. Even Ragini might have failed here and there but she made sure, and still even does, that her kids go on the right path...</font>
<font color="#0000ff">Having said this, regardless of Pam the character, Ashwini ma'm is doing a damn good job playing Pam. Her dialogue delivery, body language and the way she carries the character are bang on! Even if it's sometimes on the edge of overreacting but that is the character and not the actress.</font>