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_BleuNoir_

@_BleuNoir_

Stunner

Posted: 10 years ago

i am trying to looking at situation once again to understand the situatin and to find real reason behind it.. its my try and good or bad reaction, all are welcome.😃

okkk..so this ragging rumour ended..now let us take ride to past epis why this happen:😉

so poonam want to be in college as only poonam..neither manchita's daughter nor lakhan's wife..she wants some hours for only herself... then what go wrong...she needs some freedom..even no one from thakur family keeping eye on her...she actually free in collage like a free birds then why this all happen..

jst coz of thakur name associated with her,,she forgot she is in begusarai wheather its college..she belongs to thakurs willingly or unwillingly..thakhur is king of raja and can raja and his family live freely??

ANS is nooo...king have so many enemies that they cant even go anywhere without safety..even their family members needs security so that enemies dont use them to take revenge... so how can poonam think she will no effected by this...

if pigeon close eyes in front of cat and thinks that cat cant see him..then its pigeon misunderstanding..what exactly happen with poonam..she thinks no one recognize her in college and she wil live freely but she forgot she is member of thakur family and enemies are in wait for this kind of moment and CHUNIYA got chance to cause rift in brothers..

he told lakhan half news that your wife is being ragged..so what will lakhan do..he will go straight and hit them.. and then chuniya other part of news in front of mithilesh that poonam enjoyed ragging..then what will mithilesh do..he will say lakhan that control your wife..she is playing with thakur name...

so whole truth out but its out in wrong manner according to enemy masterplan...

then laakhan mentally torture her but what poonam did... she nods and accept the torture..she not even say one sentence to lakhan that what actually happen..then how will lakhan understand what is actually happen..poonam cant speak..this also not true..she can speak..we heard it in front of priyom..she even have guts to insult bindiya but no guts to say one sentence to your husband..you afraid of him..you cant speak anything infront of him..then how can you expect you will get happiness not tears..

i like priyom words to her: that why you dont show this attitude to your husband..even he asked earlier that go talk with lakhan about your studies,,he will agree he is one who bring form for you but punmy keeps her mum..at that time priyom solve her problem but every time you will not get his favour..god save you once twice..and give you hint that your husband is not that bad..he can understand and even change his decision then why you are not giving him one chance to understand..once you will say that this happen..please undersatnd me.. if he loves you , he will understand you,,but you cant wait anyone else talk 4 you everytime like she calls priyom ans wants him to speak fo him...

if you dont want tears, want happiness if you accept your future, then you have to stand for you.. lakhan can understand, if priyom can then you also..you have to stand for yourself instead of taking sahara of other...

PS: i am not supporting laakhan in his torturing act yesterday..but i am trying to look it in different way as he came to know that poonam enjoyed ragging attention and mithilesh said him to control your wife..then poonam should once try to solve the scenerio which was created by enemies... she needs time..hope one day she will stand and give some senses and brain to his brainless and hot blooded husband

so poonam wants to run away from thakur name but thakur name always behind her..if she wants happiness, she have to stand by herself,,,priyom can save him how many times..he herself took stand and try to face laakhan..

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Chit15

@Chit15

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

I also donot support Laakhan for his torture to Poonam whether he knew the real reason or not He was wrong on that part

I understand Poonam is terrified of Laakhan's anger and his behavior but she needs to stand for herself. She needs to express her feeling on every occasion otherwise this non communication will destroy her relationship with Laakhan.

Laakahan as person what I understood is that Heis short tempered guy who acts first without thinking and then thinks if explained.He is ready to rectify his fault also. If poonam doesnot speaks or clears doubts of Laakhan how would they will be able to lead life.and in this type relationship outsiders and enemies take gain of such situation for their benefit.

Rather than taking anyone's help its better to fight yourself

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crazygod

@crazygod

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

I think that is what Poonam's struggle is going to be... She has been voicing her thoughts to Priyom and he helps her.. Soon she will have to start standing up for herself, which is not going to be easy in this male dominated Begusarai.. People get killed for opposing in such parts of India... I am eagerly waiting for her journey, how that will happen...

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_BleuNoir_

@_BleuNoir_

Stunner

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: crazygod
I think that is what Poonam's struggle is going to be... She has been voicing her thoughts to Priyom and he helps her.. Soon she will have to start standing up for herself, which is not going to be easy in this male dominated Begusarai.. People get killed for opposing in such parts of India... I am eagerly waiting for her journey, how that will happen...

Thats what poonam have fear that lakhan will beat him or slap him for opposing him..as she saw his father behaviour towards her mother...and lakhan is a complicate character...it looks he will beat her but he will not... but if you notice..till now he even didnt touch her... Lets wait when will she take stand for herself...

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_BleuNoir_

@_BleuNoir_

Stunner

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Chit15
I also donot support Laakhan for his torture to Poonam whether he knew the real reason or not He was wrong on that part
I understand Poonam is terrified of Laakhan's anger and his behavior but she needs to stand for herself. She needs to express her feeling on every occasion otherwise this non communication will destroy her relationship with Laakhan.

Laakahan as person what I understood is that Heis short tempered guy who acts first without thinking and then thinks if explained.He is ready to rectify his fault also. If poonam doesnot speaks or clears doubts of Laakhan how would they will be able to lead life.and in this type relationship outsiders and enemies take gain of such situation for their benefit.

Rather than taking anyone's help its better to fight yourself

You rightly said...lakhan acts first and then think... and this no conversation between them is not good for their relation...even lakhan's mom gonna take advantage of them. .. both have to take initiation..one has to speak and one has to give chance her to ans... he should ask her so thst she cant only nod head... yesterday first time i saw punmy open her mouth in front of him to tell time of college off...

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MaxMayfield

@MaxMayfield

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Posted: 10 years ago

to the post meenu - btw a good post that👏 - there is a saying

"anyaay karne wale se zyada, anyaay sehne wala gunehgaar hai"

the first aftermath of this incident has raised very many - why, how, god-damn what was that, reactions and debates and already discussed so much ..LOL m late to pitch in my contribution in it, except that it did shake something inside me in a not so pleasant manner n no i dint like it..

but yes after quite a few terrifically analyzed posts on this incident..atleast there is some justification to the actions of laakhan - even if that cannot be a likeable and acceptable one..

now when he asked her to go try everything second time around..laakhan was simply pushing her to the brink where she should have broken her maunvrat and reacted - he was pushing the envelope...he subconciously was trying hard to make her react...sadly she dint and just again gulped it all up and continued with getting herself insulted..I wish we had one shot atleast where laakhan showed his disappointment when she went inside to try it all second time around, instead of speaking up in front of him..

again when he asks her "ki aap maanti hai, galti aapki thi" - she could have broken her silence again there - if only she told him once - that u punished me, got the pleasure out of it, but now I do wish to tell u that what u did with me was WRONG!

not only is she letting laakhan hurt her due to her silence, there are others around her who are suffering for no reason of their's..ex all the employees of the sari shop who were made to stand outside forever, just becoz laakhan wanted to punish punmy..or that yellow tee guy who got beat black and blue..even if she ever wants to step out of this relationship = she needs to develop a voice and spine for herself..and no that cant be done by hiding behind the shield of priyom..tomorrow priyom too may become the target becoz of punmy's non communication issues...

more than the other characters, this is the only character - punmy - who really ruins my patience to keep up with her maunvrat levels..

Edited by Hiral_Halwa - 10 years ago

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_BleuNoir_

@_BleuNoir_

Stunner

Posted: 10 years ago

@hiral
i give you short updateafter epi and i told you that i dont know i am happy or sad... at fist place it seems, it seems 🤢 but when i watched epi again, then i found it okay...as what we expect from khatrnak laakhan...cvs are showing why he seems dangerous as he act first before thinking... but he can easily totrue punmy...luke manchita did..but he cant do this...
And if we analyse...he came to know about ragging but his elder brother said she was enjoying... you are bevkuf... this MU can make a normal person angry untill it was cleared by punmy...but punmy cant do it coz she jst saw his father slapping her mother and told him to agree with lakhan... so what will she do... she also right at this time...
And this lead to one unbreakble silence whose advantage taken by chuniya...

Laakam couple tagline at this moment is
"na vo kuch phuchta hai, na vo kuch khti hai"
When this equation will break then theirs relation move forward... so both have to change their attitude...this equation will change when one thing overflow wheather love or hate... chae punmy ka patience break hoga ya laakhan have to show love to move step ahead... and what laakhan mom and bindiya will do.. they gonna break this tagline by hook or crook and than this relation fortunate will be decided

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