Say NO to gender inequality.... plz spread the thought (note-pg 9) - Page 7

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dear appuss, first i salute u for making dis post..Not only gender inequality..dey r showing d abusive husband who he is treating her like a door mat...MIL says dat she is an outsider..husband keeps silent..The marriage alliance was brought by her friend..instead of blaming her she blames her DIL..dat too once she was an positive character..don't knw now in which shade she comes into..DIL instead of standing up herself..taking all d blame upon her..If they really want to shw dat ishita is really at fault..den shw dat she really made a mistake..dat would make more sense..
In 21st century girl marriage brokes..dey get married to near available bakra..I watchd hallabol on bindass...whr d girl rejects d marriage at d mandap as she unable to bear d torture dat d guy is giving bfor her marriage..after 3 yrs she marrried other person who respects her nd shares responsibilty with her..yes indeed its a real stry...
In dis shw Husband abusing his wife with no fault of her..i didn't find any difference bw the zee tv shw doliarmanoki hero to raman...Loving ur husband nd understanding him doesn't mean u have to bear watever he throw at her..U hav to stand for ur rights..In a marriage der wil b no upper hand..both individuals should b equal..Y she has to bear coz u love him..plz every wife loves her husband..
I demand dem to change d shw name..Me nd my sis yday nite discussing upto 1'O clock dat hw d shw turned especially dese 2 epi..We feel ashok is better dan him..instead of knwing dat his wife is preggy wid other man..he is atleast not abusing her nd treating her badly..i haven't watcd INDIAN DAUGHTER..but i read d statements..2 days bfr..nd i became more emotional..to get out of dat i switchd my fav shw..wat i get to watch was worse dan dat..
sorry for dis rant..i am not raman bashr nor ishita supporter..i love both of them eqully...but wat dey were shwng was really disgusting..
if possible make a post dat about abusive husband..
Edited by manan09 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#62
agreed!

just tweeted to aniljha, karan patel and divyanka tripathi
don't know accounts of others😕
Edited by rutu83 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#63

Very Good Post.. 👏
The way Bhalla family is behaving..its just intolerable...
I wonder..which century we're living in !!!
Idiotic thoughts... disgusting dialogues...
If there is no male child in the family, what so wrong about it.
When will our country learn to treat girls/women as human beings...when will they get equal rights ???

On thursday's epi... Raman said Ishita that she is responsible for her sisters (elder one) life... It was her 'galati'... !!!
How can he say that??? Nonsense...
What was expected from her...??? She should have allowed molestation in order to save her sis-in-law's so called married life..

Sorry to say.. I don't see any difference in Raman ( NOT Karan Patel) and the rapist of Nirbhaya case and his lawyer's mindset...

The entire situation has become so very DISGUSTING
Edited by SharmilaGupta - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: manan09

Dear appuss, first i salute u for making dis post..Not only gender inequality..dey r showing d abusive husband who he is treating her like a door mat...MIL says dat she is an outsider..husband keeps silent..The marriage alliance was brought by her friend..instead of blaming her she blames her DIL..dat too once she was an positive character..don't knw now in which shade she comes into..DIL instead of standing up herself..taking all d blame upon her..If they really want to shw dat ishita is really at fault..den shw dat she really made a mistake..dat would make more sense..
In 21st century girl marriage brokes..dey get married to near available bakra..I watchd hallabol on bindass...whr d girl rejects d marriage at d mandap as she unable to bear d torture dat d guy is giving bfor her marriage..after 3 yrs she marrried other person who respects her nd shares responsibilty with her..yes indeed its a real stry...
In dis shw Husband abusing his wife with no fault of her..i didn't find any difference bw the zee tv shw doliarmanoki hero to raman...Loving ur husband nd understanding him doesn't mean u have to bear watever he throw at her..U hav to stand for ur rights..In a marriage der wil b no upper hand..both individuals should b equal..Y she has to bear coz u love him..plz every wife loves her husband..
I demand dem to change d shw name..Me nd my sis yday nite discussing upto 1'O clock dat hw d shw turned especially dese 2 epi..We feel ashok is better dan him..instead of knwing dat his wife is preggy wid other man..he is atleast not abusing her nd treating her badly..i haven't watcd INDIAN DAUGHTER..but i read d statements..2 days bfr..nd i became more emotional..to get out of dat i switchd my fav shw..wat i get to watch was worse dan dat..
sorry for dis rant..i am not raman bashr nor ishita supporter..i love both of them eqully...but wat dey were shwng was really disgusting..
if possible make a post dat about abusive husband..

While we all agree with the intention of this thread and support it ..I have to counter a lil bit of what you have said in the comment above...the creatives of this show have the creative freedom to take this story however they want to..we cannot dicitate the story line to them just bcoz we don't want to see Ishita & Raman fighting..my grouse is against certain dialogues and terms used to show preference for male child over the female child and the whole treatment given to Rinki wedding fiasco..by marrying her off to another guy the message being conveyed is that yes even if a girl's wedding is called off for no fault of her's the society will only blame the girl and therefore yes we are giving into the pressure and getting her married to the next available guy..
That said ,I do not have a problem with Raman Ishita equation in the show ..if she chooses to give the upper hand to her husband..then thats how the script is..i may not agree with it personally but it's not a social problem faced by our country..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Now i have a point, Raman blamed Ishita for no fault. Yesterday his mother went to Sarika: What was the result😡 Now cant he blame Toshiba🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good Post Appu..

This time I can say with confidence that you and me are on same level on this subject.

Hi five :-




Really appreciate your efforts and hopes that CV of this show will read this post and hopefully will stop all these regressive thoughts which is very harmful for our society. Entertainment industry, plays an important role in shaping the society. Unfortunately people related to this show doesn't think in larger perceptive other than greed for trp.

Honestly speaking from past 1 month I have stopped watching this serial totally.Really don't know anything about serial .Just read your post and i completely agree with you. Well appu - if you don't mind - like to say/ask - why are you still watching this serial? Just for one or two character. Biggest question is - Whether YHM is really worth watching ? You need to find your own answers.

Believe me even I had tried everything to stopped/revolt for nonsense content of this show. Even registered an official complaint against this serial in Indian Broadcasting Foundation:http://www.ibfindia.com/complaint-form-
After Mihika's- AShok track and Ishita molestation in hen's party track. The way cv dealt with problems was just disgusting.

Not only this even I have wrote complaint in starplus website complaint form . Nothing happened and after that what we saw/watched was shagun staying in bhalla house.

In short - my whole intention of telling this story to you- Do good but don't get disheartened after seeing no response or no change in this serial.
You have done great job by making this post. Hatss off to you...

P.S. - One thing when I agree with taklu- If you don't like the content of the show- use your remote control of TV and change the show. I believe in that now completely. Sorry for long EW.😉






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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: stylish_VJ

Posted in almost all FB Groups and pages I know...Great going!!!

Thanks dear... hope we will be heard!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Good Post Appu..


This time I can say with confidence that you and me are on same level on this subject.

Hi five :-




Really appreciate your efforts and hopes that CV of this show will read this post and hopefully will stop all these regressive thoughts which is very harmful for our society. Entertainment industry, plays an important role in shaping the society. Unfortunately people related to this show doesn't think in larger perceptive other than greed for trp.

Honestly speaking from past 1 month I have stopped watching this serial totally.Really don't know anything about serial .Just read your post and i completely agree with you. Well appu - if you don't mind - like to say/ask - why are you still watching this serial? Just for one or two character. Biggest question is - Whether YHM is really worth watching ? You need to find your own answers.

Believe me even I had tried everything to stopped/revolt for nonsense content of this show. Even registered an official complaint against this serial in Indian Broadcasting Foundation:http://www.ibfindia.com/complaint-form-
After Mihika's- AShok track and Ishita molestation in hen's party track. The way cv dealt with problems was just disgusting.

Not only this even I have wrote complaint in starplus website complaint form . Nothing happened and after that what we saw/watched was shagun staying in bhalla house.

In short - my whole intention of telling this story to you- Do good but don't get disheartened after seeing no response or no change in this serial.
You have done great job by making this post. Hatss off to you...

P.S. - One thing when I agree with taklu- If you don't like the content of the show- use your remote control of TV and change the show. I believe in that now completely. Sorry for long EW.😉







personally I read only LUs... that emotional bonding I mentioned in my post. I loved the ishra, ishru, mi-mi etc which they showed in the early days. I think it is time to stop that too if things are heading this way.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#69
I'm grateful to all those who went through this post, pressed like and shared their thoughts here.
This is not my post alone...This is a collective assemble of the viewers opinion about the content shown in YHM... So, I didnt reply personally to all the comments.

I agree to each and every comment here and I'm happy that at least audience of YHM are matured enough ...and not some stupid soap fangirls crazy for romantic scenes like the so-called creatives think.

The intention of this thread is to show that it is NOT OK to show such pathetic regressive stuff in the name of drama.

Special thanks to Gan for adding the link of this thread in her post.

Thanks to everyone on twitter and facebook who helped in spreading the word.

Thank you everyone who contributed to this post in their own simple way...


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