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There has been so much of discussion about TRUE LOVE between Manik and Nandhini... the holy grail... that i wanted to really understand what does it consist of at the most basic level...
Passion:
Manik and Nandhini's Passion for each other is the first Component...
It includes both Physical as well Emotional Attraction they have for each other...
Its Electricity, its Chemistry , its Obsession Unlimited...
No Matter what they do , where they are ... what time of the day or night it is... They cant get each other out of their mind...
Their need for their Feelings to be accepted and reciprocated is Overwhelming , ... Physically Painful...
Its Attraction in its Purest Form...
Intimacy:
Manik and Nandhini's Intimacy increased as they spent more and more time with the other .
It grew deeper and deeper when they bared their Hearts to each other.
Shared their deepest Fears , Hopes and Scars to one another.
Their Intimacy lead to Attachment.
It developed a Bond between them.
They Trusted each other and felt safe with each other , the two prerequisites for Intimacy to Flourish and Grow.
Without complete Trust and the feeling of being Safe, one cannot be vulnerable enough to be Intimate with the other.
Commitment:
Commitment in their context "The Humeshas".
"Humesha Trust karoge.. " "Humesha Shine Karoge.. " etc..
Commitment means not giving up on one another , fighting for being together, no matter what the circumstances...
Commitment needs Maturity that lacks a bit in both of them...
A mature person is one who can work through misunderstandings and hurts.
Commitment means believing the best of the other person, not prejudging them with bad motives.
In order to stay Together 'Humesha' a couple must consistently break through the barriers of being hurt .
Commitment involves being conciliatory and pursuing the relationship no matter how you feel, what you think.
Manik and Nandhini need to become more mature to Commit to each other Fully...
True Love just doesnt materialize out of thin air , it Grows in the Hearts of People , day by day, step by step... until it is ready to make you realize of its existence and importance.When all the three above mentioned requirements are fulfilled it will be Ready !!!
Note: I may be out of my mind today... as my peepz Chicks and Dushtu know... so if you feel something is Off.. I wont blame you... 😆
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
