I sail in the 'wrong' ship, I admit it!

Posted: 11 years ago
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First off, this is my opinion, which I am expressing here on this forum, I obviously expect you guys to agree or disagree with it, and I want to hear it, however different all I ask is that you don't spread negativity about this:)

I do admit, that I was a Niraj person, but I also admit that from the first episode that I couldn't really imagine them in a lovey dovey relationship, which I know many of you disagree with, maybe it was my skepticism talking.

Guys, I think we are forgetting that Nisha was almost raped at the age of thirteen, Nisha needed Viraj so that she could see that it was possible to like someone, and that there were guys out there that she could fall in love with, Viraj was courteous and chivalrous towards her, thus proving that not all men were bad, and that she could overcome the fear she had because what happened all those years ago, and PROVE THAT SHE WAS NOT WEAK. This was part of Nisha s journey if nothing else.

Think back to all those years ago, when you had your first crush. Remember Nisha was at the age where she might've had her first crush, but didn't allow herself to do any because she feared it would make her weak. All of these suppressed emotions that were even stronger because she didn't get the milder version when she was younger, all came out when she met Viraj, because she knew that he wouldn't hurt her.

Can't we allow her to have one love which doesn't end well without making it seem like she is destined for him only? She might well be, but these are all of the things that we might've experienced without anyone holding us to it.

I know this may sound far-fetched, but maybe the main reason they showed Viraj in the show for so long was for Nisha's self discovery and so she would find Kabir, in her life repeatedly, as life works in mysterious ways. I mean think about it, the show always hinted towards Viraj's mother and his lack of family, and that was always important, so why shouldnt Kabir be too?

Of course this will be a massive slap in the face if she does end up with Viraj, but whilst all of this is happening, I like Nisha and Kabir a little bit more than I like Niraj,(so I'm saying I still do like them, just less than Nibir)

What do you guys think? Also, I haven't watched the 26ths episode yet, so sorry if anything happens in the episode which makes me contradict what I've said here, because that may cause confusion. This post was started AFTER 25ths episode.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with everything! Thank you for this well thought-out analysis. The CVs have the opportunity to do something great here. Something that's not the cliche "girl ends up with first crush." In real life, people rarely end up with their first love. Life happens and people part ways. It's way more realistic for Nisha to end up with someone other than Viraj, in my opinion.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I also agree I don't really see nisha and viral there just too diff I think viraj was more of a idol/mentor she looked up to him and it common to think your in love but really I think she was in awe of him rather then in love
I perfer her with kabir beacuse I see that sort of a relationship I always saw professional one with viraj but with kabir it that friend tom and Jerry relationship.

I wouldn't like her to be with viraj and agree realistic a girl never ends up marrying her first crush.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very good post. Yes Viraj was the fulfillment of the crush phase while Kabir will be her love. I am in favour of Kabir and Nisha
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agreed.. I too want nisha and kabir... I like niraj too but less than nibir..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: 100GIRL

I also agree I don't really see nisha and viral there just too diff I think viraj was more of a idol/mentor she looked up to him


Right? It reminded of all those stories I heard about male professors (known also as "tutors") marrying their female pupils in 19th century and early 1900s. I imagine that their love stories probably start out similar to Nisha-Viraj's. It still creeps me out. I guess I'm just ageist.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree with u yaar..
but my point is ...what happened with Nisha in her past life and after that she was a very rowdy and silent by nature...so she needs a person like her father.
who always make a smile on her face. Like her father said " My happy wala song"😊
and it only done by Kabir not by Viraj.
After all Viraj always lesson to her that fight ur fear with the dialogue "Nothings tough" and Viraj quit similar with Nisha..
my point agar dono hi sad hai tho ek dusre ko happy kese rakhenge...kisi ek tho happy rehena padega naa jo ki Kabir hai...not Viraj..ri8😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pilu05

agree with u yaar..

but my point is ...what happened with Nisha in her past life and after that she was a very rowdy and silent by nature...so she needs a person like her father.
who always make a smile on her face. Like her father said " My happy wala song"😊
and it only done by Kabir not by Viraj.
After all Viraj always lesson to her that fight ur fear with the dialogue "Nothings tough" and Viraj quit similar with Nisha..
my point agar dono hi sad hai tho ek dusre ko happy kese rakhenge...kisi ek tho happy rehena padega naa jo ki Kabir hai...not Viraj..ri8😃




truly agree with you ...i am just in love with nishka ...they are really a very promising jodi ...and i really love their tom and jerry fights so much ...

viraj is only a crush for nisha

remember when nisha closed her eyes and listen to her heart and counted from 1 to 10 ...waiting for viraj ...she ends up hugging kabir...😳 mistakenly...

so isnt it their destiny which is uniting them again and again...😳😉

she never beleive in miracle before ...but the miracle of god happens just when kabir enters on valentines day😳 ,also she get to see whome viraj is truly ...and that he do not deserve her love 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with your post, although the way they made Viraj's entry it seemed they wanted them to be the "it" couple of the show and unless they change that mindset I see it as another cliched track and kabir is just a third wheel.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I wanted the leads to be niraj but Now, am OK with nibir also.
I like both jodi's.

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