There is no option for Ganga

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ganga has no option in this matter. She is taken for granted.

Dadisa or Jagya never thought how Ganga will feel if Anandi becomes permanent in BH.

Ganga never said anything when Gauri went berserk. Why will she say anything if anandi lives with them?

If Ganga expresses a little displeasure also, Dadisa and Jagya will go ahead after allaying her fears.

This is an inappropriate development which could have been avoided.

A souten even if it is an ex is always a souten even if it is golden hearted anandi.

I am surprised how Ganga can be so cool and composed.

It would have been better if anandi stays in some other house with her kids in Jaitsar instead of BH.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes, Atleast they could have shown talking to her about the decision, although I'm sure she will say no problem😆. CVs have to show her trust on her pati and Anandi na? But 11 long years passed in leap so I think no problem after all😆. Spoilers mentioned about Anandi getting to know of Bal Vivah of Nandini, holi celebration which was confusing, DS informing Jagya. I think these will be shown post leap and search mission will start.

If Anandi stayed in another house in Jaitsar it won't solve CVs problem of handling too many places. Best options were available - she could have stayed in KB or the farm house with Khazan, if Daddu and Meenu cannot stay back. Will Khazan say no or if CVs want suddenly he will have an harvest month in Bilaria and he can't live with her😆. Also Problem is Anandi cannot ask Daddu or meenu to stay back, if they are so worried about brining up the children. She can only say I will manage on my own which they won't accept😕. Being Anandi is so difficult for your own good😆.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi is not coming to Dsa's haweli as Jagya's ex. She is coming to Haweli as Dsa's grand daughter.
Gauri's relationship with Singhs is solely because of Jagya and it has nothing to do with Singhs.
As Jagya's wife Ganga had a say in the matter of Gauri's stay in BH.
Anandi;s relationship with Singhs and now it has got nothing to do with Jagya.It is Dsa's home and she has full rights to say who she wants in her home.
She wanted to support Anandi at this juncture and she is bringing her here.
Gauri and Anandi do not share the same kind of relationship with Singhs.
Dsa decided during Jagya Gudiya marriage that Anandi will always be part of Singh family if not as a bahu then she will get a status as a beti of the house.She did give Anandi the same rights as Suguna.
I don't want Anandi to stay in BH and that's a different issue
Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Though sautan theory doesn't hold true here and Ganga might be agreeing to this so as to help Anandi, still it is a valid point that she has been left with no option.

In fact Jagya's wives never had any option.. Be it due to his mistakes in past or due to circumstances like in present situation.

Well, woman empowerment!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Aparnauma

So BH is not ex-sasural but maika like the CVs say? Her relationship is now not based on the Bali vivah then what was the FB for? How much ever DS may say its her maika, the Truth is its not. Anandi doesn't even ask help from her real maika then why should she accept help from ex-sasural turned maika? Though I don't feel her self respect compromised since elders forced her into this when she has other viable options, still Its all too illogical, unrealistic and forced.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Show ca caption hi hai -Kucchi Umar Ke Pakke Rishtey so anandi is going back to badi haveli.
Actually after shiv entry show got good trp so they got anandi married to shiv, agar shiv hit nahi hua hota toh they would have shown re-marriage of anandi and jagya.


Its all trp game.

But yes if they want to show woman empowerment then they should show anandi alone raising children.

If she will shift to badi haveli then whats thrill in her life. She will again get protection from dadisa.

So finally no empowerment . Anandi will do cooking job in badi haveli .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

@Aparnauma

So BH is not ex-sasural but maika like the CVs say? Her relationship is now not based on the Bali vivah then what was the FB for? How much ever DS may say its her maika, the Truth is its not. Anandi doesn't even ask help from her real maika then why should she accept help from ex-sasural turned maika? Though I don't feel her self respect compromised since elders forced her into this when she has other viable options, still Its all too illogical, unrealistic and forced.

Did she ask Dsa or J for help in the first place?It was Daddu who decided that she is not fit enough to raise his great grand children on her own but at the same time he didn't want to help her take care of the kids dictated to her that the heirs to Shekhar legacy should be brought up with the help of Singhs.😛
About the rights issue - It is in comparison with Gauri and Anandi.
Well the FB of Bal Vivah - illogical obviously - How many times she crossed that threshold and entered that house since she married Shiv? Every month she is back at BH for some function or other.In all those times she didn't feel and suddenly she remembers it? It is 🤬
NOTHING but a pathetic attempt to sell BV no 2 by connecting her to BV no 1
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Posted: 10 years ago
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why should ganga feel bad .and how v r sure ganga going feel bad or anandi will such thing that ganga feel bad .first of all that badi haveli is belong to dadisa not ganga so ds need not to take permission from ganga whether to allow anandi to stay in bh or not and anandi is not type of that person who like destroy other marrige life .she is not like that person who will destroy ganga marriage life , she is not like that person who will snatch jagya from ganga]and anandi is not sauten of jagya because anandi is in not love with jagya neither she illegaly marry with jagya ]anandi come to badi haveli for her children not for jagya
Edited by surabhi01 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If daddu was so conderned, he should have stayed back with Meenu atleast for the sake of his jailed son. Everyone wants to go on a foreign trip and enjoy and they are in a hurry.

They have not informed Sanchi yet. And Sanchi and her lawyer husband is there to help Anandi.
And her father is there.

If it was Gauri in place of Ganga, things would have been different.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

If daddu was so conderned, he should have stayed back with Meenu atleast for the sake of his jailed son. Everyone wants to go on a foreign trip and enjoy and they are in a hurry.

They have not informed Sanchi yet. And Sanchi and her lawyer husband is there to help Anandi.
And her father is there.

Daddu was so concerned about Anandi's abilities to raise kids alone on her own and yet doesn't want to stay back with Anandi. Why simply because he wants to get away from the memories of grandson🤢 Yet he expects Anandi to leave KB and make a life for herself and for kids somewhere else.This is the same KB house where Anandi worked so hard to make it her home and that family as her family and yet she doesn't find place in their hearts or their support when needed🤢

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