Recently read this...Successful Marriage is based on Give & Take
Husband gives Money, Gifts and Dresses, Wife Takes it
Wife gives Advice, Lectures😆 and Tensions and Husband Takes it
Enjoy Successful Married Life.🥳
On the heels of their first wedding anniversary what's the status of the equation in this marriage?
Raman gifted Ishita, Punjabi style jewelry, couple of dresses and saree. Ishita earns her own money, has learned to appreciate Raman's thoughtful gifts over time but didn't bat an eyelid before she gave back the khandani earrings...his material gifts don't matter much, all she wants is his love and his family's happiness.
Ishita is doing her part with her frequent advices, lectures😛 and tensions thanks to her love for jagga jasoosi to Raman all in the name of love. She's got to remember taking bakwas from Raman's ex-biwi #1 is not required of wife #2. Show the woman the door and let her fend for herself. Shagun has been riding the freebie train for too long. She has no qualms switching trains as long as it is a luxury train. 🤔
Raman has learned to take it all in stride and has made great progress in learning from wifey #2.👏
He is also, for the love of beta Adi, giving his credit cards and money to scheming ex-wife #1 these days👎🏼🤪. As a thank you she gives him a motherload of tensions to make up for the lack of acceptable advice or lectures and he takes it all in stride sirf Adi ke liye. What is he really teaching his impressionable teenage son while he takes Shagun's shenanighans and leaves Ishita to clean up the mess he continues to ignore.👎🏼
Raman continues to take a boatload of bakwas from biwi #1😕. Will he ever grow a spine of steel and show Shagun the door? He doesn't mind giving money to his teenage ghar ka chirag it's all well and good, but for goodness sake, someone teach the boy the value of someone's hard earned money even if it's his Papa. He's older now and can survive without being tied to his mother's apron strings...better for him in the long run if he wants to grow up to be Adi RaMAN Bhalla.🤓
No second guesses here...Shagun never gives up, she thrives on troubling anyone with a last name Bhalla🤔. She takes liberties with a sense of entitlement after she walked out of the Bhalla train six years ago. Since she was burning a hole in Lambu's wallet in the interim someone better remind her the Bhalla train left the platform a year ago with a Madrasan on board.😛😆
Please add your thoughts!😊
Edited by MERARAI - 10 years ago