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Posted: 10 years ago
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I strongly feel Anu is worst character in SS as on date...she has conveniently forgotten the most IMP fact that she is now MRS ANUSHKA RAJAT SAREEN and not miss shastri...love for your father family sister good we respect that but what about your husband. ..rajat didn't force anu to marry him rather it was the other way around...that time she told her father that she is married to rajat and hence sareen house is hers then why now the change...so she showed carrots to rajat always and then left him in lurch...rajat is also a strong person...remember minty said it but the way anu after marriage is acting has shattered rajat...minty hates her so what there are so many household were sassuma aur bahu ka kabhi nahi banta...toh anu aur minty ka kya different tha..her fil loves her so much she had a doting bil and a head over heels in love husband...even at lohri function shastri over acted if you rewatch minty was not ready to talk to shastri yet shastri khud khichad mein pathar dala shastri always knew about minty...aur shaddi ho gayi thi...i feel shastri ego was hurt by anu when she chose rajat over him at her wedding and somewhere he always wanted the alliance to break...aur koi bhi baap apne beti ki shaddi break kar ke ek hi din mein dusari fix nahi karta aur bhi tak divorce final bhi nahi hua...kya ye hi sanaskar hain...i find shashtri double standard atleast minty openly villiangiri karti hai...anu ne shaddi ka mazak bana diya hain...if anuraj were not married then maybe just maybe anu could have decided and acted as she has done now...what are the makers showing marriage is a game to be played as per whims and fancies...even courts don't allow annulment and or divorce on such filmsy grounds...sorry for ranting...but I hate shastri the most his daughters are most selfish and not fit to fall in love ...Thank god i stopped watching SS...i am hating anu...and no anu rajat ke liye nahi apne papa ke liye sab kar rahi hain...her behaviour is most unwarranted and callous
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: maine

Thank you for replying to all of us.

I agree that Anu is not thinking clearly but you will agree with me that if you love somebody, he or she is always on your mind and before doing anything you will think twice how the other person will feel.
Knowing Anu's character how could she see Veer without informing Rajat?
It changed Rajat completely. Squadron leader became a stalker.
I strongly believe that Anu and Rajat will be together in the end. As you said, we need some drama but at the same time Anu is becoming a villain in many people's eyes.


I agree with you on that. Ideally, Anu should have been the one telling Rajat that her father has found someone for her who she is simply going to meet. Her mistake here was not thinking this through. Even if all she agreed to do was meet him, this itself was a heavy blow to Rajat and quite naturally and justifiably he was upset. And then, when Rajat confronted her, instead of trying to explain things to him, she decided that all the more that this was ruining his life and made him believe that she has already moved on. As i said, its not smart behavior. But then sometimes in face of your circumstances, you end up not realizing fully the consequences of your actions. I guess I'm trying to say that she is only human after all and will make her share of blunders before she sees the clear picture.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorva22


but sona why does she need to take he whole baggage on her head when rajat is there for her she thinks that she is being mature but she herself is spoiling her lifeand that of rajat also. it is not always necessary to be alone and take such strong decisions. she has to learn she cannot keep all the ppl happy at the same time if 90% are happy then 10%vwill not be and in her case if she was wit rajat alhan could not have stood up and sareen, neil and rajat were all by her side she thought that she took strong decisions but before that she was strong enough to handle minty strong enough to face shastri strong enough to fight for rajat like she did before and that is how they got married or else it could have been rajat and karishma!and what abt her happiness? she is upto sacrificing her life for the oldies baseless unsatisfied ego! i feel that whatsoever happens, ppl, situations and circumstances come and go but love stays till eternity. she is weak right now seeing her family's condition, rajat's condition and listening to what crap minty speaks, she has turned numb and hopeless becoz she has lost rajat everytime before she even got him so she is completely broken. behaving like a machine she is doing whatever papa says coz she is not able to see a future with rajat, tough time again for anuraj, all she needs to do is trust her husband


The bold portion is exactly what explains her situation the best. And in the face of all this, I think it's a human reaction that she is behaving the way she is. It's not correct and in an ideal situation, she would realize all that you have said and implement it. But when someone actually goes through all these hardships, it's sometimes tough to evaluate the situation from all sides. That's what is happening with her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: v_ani_patel


@ red...Not agree with u ..she is doing this for her father, her family , because she is hurt by minty'y accusations, etc. But not for Rajat.. This is my POV of course..

I'm saying this because
1. When she forced Rajat to do engagement with Devyani then she said " do it for Devyani's happiness , papa 's khushi, family ki izzat" but when Rajat asked her what about me ?? She said aapka kuchh nahi !!😕

2. She refused Rajat after Devyani broke an engagement with Rajat.. Because Devyani kya sochegi!! Apni bahen ke sath rishta nibhsungi ..Rajat is not at all important.. No one saying her to get marry him at next moment.. Rejected Rajat without a second thought..

3. After karishma's truth came out she left Rajat.. Rejected him again , I m not saying she was wrong completely though..but she didn't listen Rajat..rejected Rajat again ..for her self respect..

4. In lohri function whatever happened and her dad took promise not to go sareen's house as a DIL..she promised it ..I know her dad was in critical condition and she agreed with him but then she has to make him understand that its affecting not only her life but Rajat's too..but no .she signed annulment papers easily..doing blindly whatever makes her dad happy only ..she is/was forcing Rajat to do that she thinks right ..



According to me, all of the situations you mentioned are different. In the entire Devyani fiasco, I agree that she was being stupid and I couldn't even see where she was coming from. That was her simply being an emotional fool and made no sense.

When she left Rajat after the enitire Karishma thing, I thought it was a necessary step as they both needed that space. If something as intense happens then questions are bound to be raised in anybody's mind about their relationship and Anu's questions were valid.

In the current situation, she is being influenced by her father no doubt but all the major decisions she has taken have been for Rajat's sake. She signed the annulment papers after the Sabjiwala incident and agreed to marry Veer after her confrontation with Rajat. She can see it affecting him and thinks he would be better off without her, not realizing that you can't get over a love like that. She is not correct and is forcing Rajat to do it, as she thinks, for his betterment. I still think it is one of those flawed, human reactions. She will come around to see sense soon enough because it's too strong a love to let go.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shyamlu

They only thing Anu need to do is, excatly like how she gives in to her papas decisions, Anu need to stand still on her ptomises made to Rajat. Yday she promised him tat she will share everything, with him, and it was OK that she didnt i form Rajat about meeting Veer, but when they met y did she had to say its a friend whom he dont know? That lie made Rajat completely insane and hence was behaving the way he did..

I strongly feel, even thoughAnu is doing all these for Rajat, she is not realising how bad its effect on him.


I agree with you. Her not telling Rajat and later lying was a blunder. The thing is, she keeps wanting to spare Rajat from pain but ends up hurting him all the more. That's why she thinks ending all this will solve everything, but doesn't realize it won't. That realization is what we are all waiting for to make her see that everything can be slowly sorted if she and Rajat are together.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyotic74

I strongly feel Anu is worst character in SS as on date...she has conveniently forgotten the most IMP fact that she is now MRS ANUSHKA RAJAT SAREEN and not miss shastri...love for your father family sister good we respect that but what about your husband. ..rajat didn't force anu to marry him rather it was the other way around...that time she told her father that she is married to rajat and hence sareen house is hers then why now the change...so she showed carrots to rajat always and then left him in lurch...rajat is also a strong person...remember minty said it but the way anu after marriage is acting has shattered rajat...minty hates her so what there are so many household were sassuma aur bahu ka kabhi nahi banta...toh anu aur minty ka kya different tha..her fil loves her so much she had a doting bil and a head over heels in love husband...even at lohri function shastri over acted if you rewatch minty was not ready to talk to shastri yet shastri khud khichad mein pathar dala shastri always knew about minty...aur shaddi ho gayi thi...i feel shastri ego was hurt by anu when she chose rajat over him at her wedding and somewhere he always wanted the alliance to break...aur koi bhi baap apne beti ki shaddi break kar ke ek hi din mein dusari fix nahi karta aur bhi tak divorce final bhi nahi hua...kya ye hi sanaskar hain...i find shashtri double standard atleast minty openly villiangiri karti hai...anu ne shaddi ka mazak bana diya hain...if anuraj were not married then maybe just maybe anu could have decided and acted as she has done now...what are the makers showing marriage is a game to be played as per whims and fancies...even courts don't allow annulment and or divorce on such filmsy grounds...sorry for ranting...but I hate shastri the most his daughters are most selfish and not fit to fall in love ...Thank god i stopped watching SS...i am hating anu...and no anu rajat ke liye nahi apne papa ke liye sab kar rahi hain...her behaviour is most unwarranted and callous


Shastriji is behaving in the most weird fashion according to me. Even if you think she will not be happy with Rajat, why hurry to marry her off? And while Anu is being influenced, I still think Rajat is a major factor in the way she is deciding, due to the timing of her signing papers and agreeing to marry Veer. She is being stupid, but it's still for Rajat.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi..cutegirl..sona..! I will make a very short and simple comments on your post...I am among the very few who is still defending Anu and Rajat equally...neither am I sympathizing with Rajat nor am I getting angry on Anu...I am keeping my judgement on Anuraj at bay for the time being...will wait till the end of this track to see the outcome of all this unnecessary mess... Just a small quote on Anu behaviour towards Rajat...

Anu should stopped acting like a lifeboat to save Rajat from drowning...when she herself is the iceberg who is responsible for the Anuraj Titanic sinking disaster... 😡


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Waida1234

Hi..cutegirl..sona..! I will make a very short and simple comments on your post...I am among the very few who is still defending Anu and Rajat equally...neither am I sympathizing with Rajat nor am I getting angry on Anu...I am keeping my judgement on Anuraj at bay for the time being...will wait till the end of this track to see the outcome of all this unnecessary mess... Just a small quote on Anu behaviour towards Rajat...


Anu should stopped acting like a lifeboat to save Rajat from drowning...when she herself is the iceberg who is responsible for the Anuraj Titanic sinking disaster... 😡



I agree with you there. I think that Anu will realize soon enough that she can't go through with this. Hopefully, they will both come out stronger from this mess. Of course, it's never say never in the serial world!

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