How can a Woman like Sharda raise 2 negative people

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I do not get it?. I mean she is the one who is the mom and who actually raised them. They are not showing their father. What happened to make them both evil? I am sure Sharda must have installed values in them but apparently not.

It was not like Sharda was working and the dad was raising the kids Samarth and Sarika. I can see if one kid turns out bad but both?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good Point raised.. I don't see Sharda the mom here being at MAJOR FAULT it is infact these two Samarth & Sarika who have groomed themselves to be like that...

As a parent Sharda has done everything possible to groom the three kids.. Somehwere she mentioned Garima seems to be different... As age goes by maybe the two Samarth & Sarika were moving together in their understanding and being selfish in motives or want it their way,,, Samarth being the male child Sharda had groomed him to be given more importance and Sarika followed his foot steps may be he was tuning her mind set to gather the selfish nature he groomed himself into and cunning when needed...

Yes Parents upbrining plays a major role in the childs behavior BUT again look in the world example terrorists are there criminals are there brothers from teh same mother or two siblings do crime do killings there phase of beyond a parents upbrining makes that mindset delevop Parent have no control no say .. As parents they do their best its again the resposinility of the individual to make sure that what parents give us we absorb..as they groom us the right way,,,

So yes somewhere cases are there or as fictional as it is shown two selfish people who are attacking two good genre genuine people Shobha by Samarth t present & earlier Sarika dumped Vikram...

Yes their father has not been mentioned... There is no back story but only Sharad mentioned she looked after them so its more which direction what negative shades the children pick up and sometime there is no no solution to such negativity only lawful punishment & Sharda will have to loose these two forgiving may happen but acceptance she will never do seeing what behiour they have set.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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In one of the episodes, Sharda said that she was a single mother who raised her children alone after the death of her husband, she also talked of the kids and her facing hardships while growing up. Economic crisis and making both ends meet was part of those hardships, hence their love for money and social status. Besides we don't know the environment and the social pressures they grew up in. Furthermore, twice Sarika mentioned that Samarth and Sarika are selfish and calculating like their father, and not silly, straight and emotional fools like their mother.
I guess that answers your query adequately. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dididumb

In one of the episodes, Sharda said that she was a single mother who raised her children alone after the death of her husband, she also talked of the kids and her facing hardships while growing up. Economic crisis and making both ends meet was part of those hardships, hence their love for money and social status. Besides we don't know the environment and the social pressures they grew up in. Furthermore, twice Sarika mentioned that Samarth and Sarika are selfish and calculating like their father, and not silly, straight and emotional fools like their mother.

I guess that answers your query adequately. 😊


As per our story Vikram was also a struggler and he came from zero level.He even bought the ring on credit card and just was having the Paris brochures in the dream of visiting their with his sweet heart.But now he is a jem of a person.

So the way in which they came up may attribute only a small percentage of their behaviour.
All depend on their innate born nature. When they have some concrete ideas of their own, the outsiders cannot penetrate easily.

So the evil or good brew from their birth mainly.
Edited by rangamma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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To b logical.. Samarth n sarika r conditioned by d upbringing of their mother but as it was mentioned that garima was too young when shobha came in d house.. So shobha was a major influence on garima to turn out differently conditioned from Samarth n sarika.. It is shobha who has made the difference otherwise d mother is somewhere majorly responsible for d odd upbringing..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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By innate nature Garima would have been good and Shoba's influence made her a good human being.
But she grew with Samrath and Sarika.'What about their nearness to her.

Samrath looked after her and paid all her expenditure and fees.

Until the MMS incident he acted like a good husband and son and no body suspected him of any

foul play

Even psychologists claim my view

Human beings are refined animals.

We know animals.

Hence my verdict

Just this is my thinking. plz donot take it seriously

Thank you

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