For the Sake of Love

I always say I have lots of positivity in me. I have always tried to find one good thing in the hell of a track and once again here I am to rant on the one thing I found good in show. Or perhaps my take on whole track.

Okk...In terms of what we have seen YHM so far, yess..I agree this is the most disheartened track. Yess...we are more kattar yhmians and specially ishraians. But people who are not...watch it just for sake of it...even for them..yhm is no more watchworthy. And yess...we are still watching...coz we love ishra and divan. We come here...this forum and we imagine our divan in various roles of ishra everyday. But those who dont...actually change the channel and I know many here also do. Cvs say...drama is necessary..ok it is..to raise your trps. But for your information...even those who raise trps are unhappy with you.

First wife returns to home in the name of son and two wifes, two kids living with a man under same roof is not natural. Neither is the natural such a father who drools so much on his son. Yess..in practicality, there cant be a father who is ready to accept anything for his son...even if he lives with him or not. No father pleads his son to return home and weeps in front of him. Father is the one who can make you live wherever he feels like and you cant question it...spclly a twelve year old. Just get out into street once and see...where you stand. I bet...you will run to your father for support even if he beats you and your mom everyday. Thats the power, a father holds.

Anywaz...practicality is what we dont expect while watching a television drama...it is also not natural...Using brains while watching TV.

But we do watch it still...for the sake of love. Love we have...for our ishra, for ruhi, for the whole cast. Mere presence of ishra onscreen, a cutie moment of ruhi, shravu with any member, one good heart to heart convo of any two characters - bala raman, bala ishu, simmi, mihir, romi, rinki and even ashok and suraj funny antics and dramas or raman showing shagun her place...his one liners make our day. One news of divan, ruhanika, aly...etc, any interview, any photo makes us proud that we are fan of this show. Our long discussions and hillarious comments...on every actor and character...which we look forward to everyday also form a big part. Everything except the crappy episode sometimes they show...spclly some scenes...or maybe scenes are also tolerable when they come. But spoilers and olvs actually make us think should we switch on the tv or not. With me, it happened twice. Though I didnt miss it but that zeal that enthusiasm that wait of episode actually got lost somewhere. Still...not with full heart...with sadness..we watch the episode..to see if there is anything that can make us smile. For the sake of ishraru, for the sake of divan, ruh, for the sake of crazy bhalla siblings or for the sake of lovely iyyer sisters, for the sake of love birds samdhans...and most importantly for the sake of our love for yhm and everyone. Yess...its love which can make us do anything. We try to find one good scene in an episode of a show for which people say...Mujhe yeh bore lgne lga hai. Its not that we dont find it bore, but we still keep that hope, that faith that everything will be back soon...track will come to a closure soon. When we love something, we do anything for it. Isnt it your love for show for leads for story for concept due to which you still feel like having a discussion about it...reading and writing something about it. Ofcourse...its that craziness and madness only..that Love. Nothing else.

Toshiji asking Ishita to say sorry was not acceptable. Because she didnt think about dignity of a daughter in law...of a mother...be it a step mom only. But she never thought. But Ishita herself thinking to say sorry...haven't you done anything in your life which you never wanted to do just for the sake of person you love. Keep aside man woman issue...am not saying ladies have to do it or suffer and all.

But at some point in our life, have we not done anything against our wish...listening to others...simply coz we cant afford to loose that person. Self respect is there..it should not be lost but we must note even if Ishita would have said sorry, everyone would have praised her more only. Okk..I am not being an Ishita bhakt here. But one thing is for sure, for the sake of person we love(regardless of it being a man or woman...regardless of being spouse...can be parents, siblings, frnds or any family members)we can do something which our heart never allows. Or you can say our brain thinks its not logical but then all heart want is to see other person happy. Such people are really strong...who swallow down the pain just to see a smile on the face of their loved ones. Ofcoure...in telly world, its too much of it which is again not natural.

But my point is if they...spclly shagun..can come home and live under same roof then saying sorry for the sake of husband you love...or atleast thinking that everything can be better if I say once is no wrong..atleast not much wrong. Though I would have been happy if Raman could have been firm Ishita you need not..but again...thats not wat you expect wen drama is going on for sake of trps. Moreover...when we have seen Ishita using less brain so many times, I dont mind if Raman didnt stop. Atleast he knew it was wrong for Ishita to say sorry. But I must say...cvs have not shown a good portrayal of father and husband. Again..we know the reason. Indian daily soaps tend to be female oriented...and if they show a strong headed man...where will there trp baba go. They need to show his vulnerable side again and again and also show that how that woman fights all the odds...abla nari crap. On a side note, watever you may show cvs..all I see during Raman scolding Ishita scene is...By god Kp...kya acting hai...gusse mein bde hi hotty kumar lgte ho. I love that punjabi puttar. Not at any cost are we going to think that ishita is mahan and Raman though good is mere helpless.

All I needed to say was if Ishita herself thinks that saying sorry can help, she could have done that. Though on first place...bringing her at home was wrong. Ishita has got Ruhi becoz of her selfless amd oversweet nature only...so this much for the sake of your love is not a big deal. But there is no law in India which can stop from Adi living alone with Bhallas and Shagun with Mihir...and nothing is in the hands of that 12 year old boy.

And and and...am venting my heart out...so surely want to mention this. The day I heard about this how being launched...by Ek...based on Custody...the thing which I found different was it will be around lives of two kids of divorced parents...what all they have to go through. When this show was on air, only actor I knew was DT and AH...rest everyone was new for me. And from begining only, since i liked ruhanika and ruhi so much, Adi has been my major point of interest. I mean who will they take as Raman's son...Adi had always been as important part of story to me as ruhi. We all knew it will be Adi custody track once...and I had been so excited for it since forever. But...damn this boy Gautum. I mean I know he is a kid and am not bashing...I shouldn't but due to him I lost my interest in Adi character, which had been there since the start of this show. Such a wonderful starcast...even Anurag in yhm looks his devil best..but however hard I might try...I cant connect to this child. Even if he changes for good and cvs write a wonderful scene...our forum can be full of praises of characters or writers but not that actor. He needs a lot of hard work and improvement. He is a sweet boy...really cute but being Adi is not done well by him. That Raman Adi scene...pita vala and even carrom and car scene...atleat I cant connect...the same connection which I have with ishra ruhi and others...no. Though I still praise Anita for that one garbage scene and Sangram has become a good comedian now.

We love yhm...and I think we will do. Hope cvs dont make us think about our love twice.

Okk...this was all I wanted to say. I dont know if you liked it or not...that was what I wanted to say...so many emotions. If you read it...thanks a lot...and if didnt and just reading last line...still thanks. I had so much to say...so just went on. Sorry to bore you. And if you didnt get what I wanted to say...pls ignore everything.

Thnks for reading is all I can say. YHM rocks and we love YhM.

aww...glad u liked it yrr

will be waitingg

so true yrr

yhm is unique

and all we crave for is to retain itt