Ishita waisey toh is selfless for the whole world bt whn it comes to R

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mishkatfanfrevr

@mishkatfanfrevr

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Posted: 10 years ago

So when it comes to Raman..ishta's bulb fuses..she short circuits.. I dont know is ishita failing on the psycoanalysing n tackling raman department... I dono i feel she passes hasty judgements inher head when it comes to. Raman..how many of u feel this...cmon ppllets have a healthy debate...😊

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victo

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yes when it's about raman ishitha has already judged and set mindset he is like that a because raman also doesn't clear what's in his mind to her and how he feels for her

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-kri-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Not at all... She was miffed with Toshi too... She's being patient... The day when her patience reaches its saturation point, everyone will know who Ishita is...

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Neha

@SurrealFantasy

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Posted: 10 years ago

When Raman shouted at Ishita, the excuse was that she is his wife and so he has the right to take out her frustrations on her. I agree with that although he went severely overboard and became callous in his fit of rage. So similarly, her anger and frustrations are going to be taken out on Raman.

There is a limit to every nonsense. Attacking her motherhood and calling her irresponsible and then responsible for Adi's absence in the Bhalla household were hurtful taunts thrown at Ishita by him. So now she has EVERY right in the world to be pissed at him and act vengeful.

Ishita never expresses her hurt or conundrums to her in laws and that has resulted in them taking her for granted. There is only so much you can say to your in laws, but your husband is another story.

Just because Ishita is selfless does not mean that she is a doormat that can be walked on - that is simply regressive and sad. She is finally taking a stand for herself in front of her husband, who wronged her the most in the past few days and that makes her normal. Not a fused bulb. He straight out called her all those things and thus, she hasn't passed ANY hasty judgement on him. His Adi jaap was not right and there's that.

Raman was wrong the past few episodes. Period.

People will for sure bring in the Mani track and what not from the past, but this is FOR THE PRESENT.

I am sure this is going to become a Raman vs Ishita thing, but I'll throw in my only two cents. Not going to comment again and justify myself later because it is sure to become controversial.

Peace.

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SurabhiA91

@SurabhiA91

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: victo
Yes when it's about raman ishitha has already judged and set mindset he is like that a because raman also doesn't clear what's in his mind to her and how he feels for her

The problem is they do not communicate ishita thinks raman was blaming her for everything n he was guilty enough to say anything that is the whole problem. If they communicate all problems will sort n from today's episode I don't understand one thing why are both of them so hesitant in saying that they love each other.

When he saw ruhi saying I love you to ishita then why he was saying itis difficult for him to confess this to ishita n instead of ishita asking for trust n respect she could have simply said I only want your love. What's the fuss even after knowing they love each other why don't they say it.

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vidya.anand

@vidya.anand

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Posted: 10 years ago

Well said...

Ishita had endured many tortures and tried her best to make peace with Adi but the kid clearly detests her and is least interested in seeing through her goodness. But even then, she is being nice to Adi and trying everything she can to make him comfortable at home. And why do you think she does all that. Its only because of her love and concern for her husband Raman.

But Raman vented out all his anger on her and fine, she is his wife and he can do it but then it wasnt just plain anger he vented out. In the angry mode, he was out with the doubts regarding her sincerity towards Adi and her being Ishima. His words not only reflected anger but also his disrespect towards her motherly feelings.

None except a woman in her state can even understand what she would have gone through when a husband tells such things to you. Even then she tries to stay calm and composed for the sake of everybody's happiness. She was even ready to apologize to Shagun for their happiness, mainly Raman's happiness.

I dont say that she doesnt have flaws. well yes she has flaws, weaknesses. Her selfless nature and goodness are her strengths as well as her weakness. And no, I am not saying Raman is wrong in everything but his angry words, his angry gestures when he said that he doesnt need her or wont allow her between him and his son was completely wrong. Insulting to the core!

Now he repents his mistake and wants to patch up with her, so what should she do? should she just forgive and forget everything, behave as if nothing happened?

Instead of giving her the replica of the earrings, he should decide to act fair and not act insanely for Adi's sake. He is the brilliant CEO of the year and should figure out that the woman Shagun and Adi are using and manipulating them.

She has said it right. All he needs to give her is some trust and respect. A promise of the same is the best gift he can give her and only that can make peace between them!

purely my POV! No offence intended!

Originally posted by: SurrealFantasy
When Raman shouted at Ishita, the excuse was that she is his wife and so he has the right to take out her frustrations on her. I agree with that although he went severely overboard and became callous in his fit of rage. So similarly, her anger and frustrations are going to be taken out on Raman.

There is a limit to every nonsense. Attacking her motherhood and calling her irresponsible and then responsible for Adi's absence in the Bhalla household were hurtful taunts thrown at Ishita by him. So now she has EVERY right in the world to be pissed at him and act vengeful.

Ishita never expresses her hurt or conundrums to her in laws and that has resulted in them taking her for granted. There is only so much you can say to your in laws, but your husband is another story.

Just because Ishita is selfless does not mean that she is a doormat that can be walked on - that is simply regressive and sad. She is finally taking a stand for herself in front of her husband, who wronged her the most in the past few days and that makes her normal. Not a fused bulb. He straight out called her all those things and thus, she hasn't passed ANY hasty judgement on him. His Adi jaap was not right and there's that.

Raman was wrong the past few episodes. Period.

People will for sure bring in the Mani track and what not from the past, but this is FOR THE PRESENT.

I am sure this is going to become a Raman vs Ishita thing, but I'll throw in my only two cents. Not going to comment again and justify myself later because it is sure to become controversial.
Peace.
:)

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1016207

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Posted: 10 years ago

Don't you know her kaali roop is ONLY reserved for Raman?
She needs the help of a six year old kid to fight with others.

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yhm_craze

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Posted: 10 years ago

to be honest I feel both Ishita and Raman are to blame. Both have not respected each other in their quest of "Adi ke liye". Ishita started it with the horrendous anniversary celebration not once considering Raman's feelings and Raman carried it forward with his mindless rant in anger. The difference is that CVs have a fixed mindset...when Ishita does it its selflessness and when Raman does it its insensitive.

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 10 years ago

The same logic applies dude which is applied to Raman. He vents his anger to his dearest love Ishita, so, if Ishita does, is it a crime?

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Eyes-Wide-Shut

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I do not why this must always turn into Ishita vs Raman, believe it or not people or rather like it or not people but they are a married and are a team, and more importantly they are a fictional so we should all dial down the hate and contempt a little bit.

Having said that, are we actually blaming Ishita because she only expresses her displeasure to her husband and that too in the privacy of their bedroom? I mean how dare she, that bitch! Look at her audacity, she is giving Raman the silent treatment and expresses her disappointment at not being trusted and understood by her husband. I mean how dare she, all Raman did was be callous, question her ability as a mother, be mean and condescending and that too out in the open in front of a 3rd person. But Raman is raman, how can he be ever wrong so what's the plan now that Ishita has erred and offended the almighty Raman?

Wanna throw stones at her? lynch her in public?

Lord have mercy! I cannot tolerate this anymore, I love both the characters dearly and that's why I love this how because both the characters are flawed and melancholically beautiful but why must we pit them against each other? Why can't we accept that both have flaws and both make mistakes.

I am out, don't have time for this nonsense anymore.

Before I depart, must answer that Ishita reserves her anger for Raman because he is the one that hurt her, presence of Shagun could be insignificant had she had her husband's support. One cannot go and fight with the world, Ishita can't express her displeasure to Toshi because she is her MIL, she can't express her displeasure to Shagun because why should she? She can only show her displeasure to HER husband because that's what husband and wife do. Regarding her needing a 6 year old to stand up to people, I agree how deplorable her state that she relies on a 6 year old when in reality it should be her husband by her side.

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