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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Petty politics even during such a calamity. Disgusting. Want to assert as the father instead of grieving.

DB trying to assess the situation when the dead body was about to be consigned to flames.

Daddu gave that right to Amol and rightly so. It is not blood but emotional bonding that is more important.

DB starting politics asking Anandi to wear white and others not agreeing.

All these things made Shiv''s death a matter of fact.

Stupid relatives, they dont know how to mourn properly. DB and Anup.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

Creative's thinking is really disgusting. They will make their characters either white or black. So, a negative person will be negative even in most tragic situation (Anup has been changed just like Sumitra was changed). Even in real life, there are negative people and tensions/ego clashes within family. But they control themselves during such circumstances. But in serials - it is all the negativity even in tragic situations.

What DB said about Anandi's clothes happens in real life also - but not so openly and certainly not within earshot of the widow.

I could not believe CVs have some great story ahead for which killing Shiv was necessary - so far, the serial is moving on expected line. But I wish, I am proved wrong and we get to see a good, reasonable story now.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

This petty politics was anticipated and precisely, this was the reason why Shiv was killed.

In Shiv's presence Anandi's honour and respect was safeguarded. Now she will be open to various forms of degradation through the likes of DB and Anoop. So more tears for the lead. And also because Shiv has asked her to keep his family 'intact', Anandi will bear everything silently as always.

BV makers needed some regression, so they killed Shiv. Post Shiv, DB will bring all the regressive ideas back on platform. Anoop will continue to agree with her. Alok - Ira will not be in a position to oppose beyond a point (and they might shift as well)

Daddu's opposition is usually limited. Meenu will feel bad but won't be able to go against her husband completely.

I am even anticipating that Amol will be tortured for not being the 'apna-khoon' and may be forced out of the house despite Anandi's opposition.

More torture and darkness is on the way for Anandi.

Ds will be the only support, but that too indirectly. She cannot interfere in Anandi's family affairs.

DB, the snake wins - everyone else loses and CVs will show us 'women empowerment' - Totally disgusting 🤢

Cvs are hell bent on ruining their own show.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha

DB, the snake wins - everyone else loses and CVs will show us 'women empowerment' - Totally disgusting 🤢

Cvs are hell bent on ruining their own show.

Of course they are showing women empowerment by empowering DB. CVs are being true to themselves

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

I think the news about Amol returning to his biological parents might be true too.

Looking at the way they Anop went on about apna and paraya khoon Anandi herself may decide to let Amol go to his biological parents just to prevent Anop and DB harassing the little boy.

I think this will happen before the twins are born.

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The episode showed what kind of people Shekhars are -

Shivraj Shekhar the extraordinary human being

Daddu Ira Alok Ordinary humanbeings who trying to cope with circumstances but not really are capable of rising above their ordinariness

Anop whose worst side comes out in the times of stress

DB the serpent in the Eden.

I so want these people to throw out Anandi from their home.Because that's the only way we can get rid of this family.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Shekhars may not be extra-ordinary and there is nothing wrong with that. They are pretty fair and loving people (minus Anoop & DB). To be precise, Db is not even a Shekhar.

The only place, Shekars have failed big time is in controlling DB. Because she is a long lost relative, an elder etc etc , people have managed to overlook her stupid suggestions, but not throw her out of their family.

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On the other hand why should Shekhars throw Anandi out or why should Anandi even accept it? This is as much as A's family as anybody's in that house.

Now, Shiv is not there to protect A's honour and because Anandi did not expose DB earlier, she will have bear with her mistake.

So if A really want's to protect her honour, she will need to be bold and take her own decisions. All Shekhars will support her. But Anandi needs to step up. If she doesn't step up at the right time then she will be controlled. But if she steps up, she will be heard and supported. Anandi should know how to be bold in front of others. She is known for keeping things to herself and hiding tears, let's see if we get to see an Anandi, who can judge there and then.

But with daily soaps the leads are bound to cry to forever, so I am not hoping much.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

Problem is not with the ordinariness of some of the Shekhars but with their inability to keep their own blood relatations in control.

Daddu has seen how spiteful his sister is with his own eyes.He has seen what DB has done to Amol

when she force fed him chillies and like the time when she locked him up inside the room.Yet he did not say anything other than giving her dirty looks.When Anandi shouted at DB at that time he kept quiet.Anandi was forced to think that she has offended him by screaming at DB.

He never told DB even once that this kind of behaviour is not acceptable.

Same thing with Anop when he saw that Anop stole Bhaili staff instaed of ticking off Anop for resorting to underhand tactics to advance in life he offered Anandi his help to find new staff.

So what can be expected of him?

Yes Anandi didn't let Shiv tell Daddu about DB . That she did it not just for the sake of Daddu but for the sake of Shiv too. She didn't want Shiv to take sides in case there is a dispute regarding DB.

So together they decided to handle DB on their own without causing any pain to the family.Just like the way they handled Saurabh without any of the family members coming to know about him.

If Anop and DB do go over board Daddu will not be able to take a strong stand against them.

Yes he will tick them off like he did Anop and today he will tick off DB.But what about corrective measures?

Anandi will stand up to Shekhars whenever she thinks it is necessary. Like she felt that her unborn children had a right to attend the funeral of their father so she put her foot down squashed the tradition and accompanied them to creamation site

She probably will fight for the rights of Amol too. Take what ever decision she needs to take in the best interest of Amol.

But when it comes to her own life Anandi will go with the flow and take everything that comes in her stride.Shiv and Dsa are the only ones who actually fought for her and took tough decisions on her behalf.

So there is a difference between Daddu and Shiv.

Daddu has given enough indications that he cannot over come his affection for Anop and DB.

He asked Alok to put up with Anop and he will ask Anandi to put up with DB.

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Yes Anandi has a right over Shekhars' property as wife of Shiv. If tomorrow if they have to chose between Anop and Anandi they are capable of chosing Anop over Anandi

Yes Anandi will fight if she is thrown out not for herself but for the sake of her kids.

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Anandi will put up with Shekhars now because of her love for Shiv. She will try to take care of them because they are Shiv's family and their happiness meant a lot for him.But will Shekhars understand that and stand by her?

Tomorrow if Khazan is implicated by Anop in that scam and Anandi proves that it is Anop and not Khazan at fault will Shekhars stand by her?

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Anandi would stand up for her beliefs against the whole world but she will not stand up for herself in front of her family because she cares for them .Is the family large hearted and wise enough to undersatnd her and stand by her?

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

While dying, Shiv should have asked anandi to stand up for herself and for her kids than asking her to take care of the entire family. He knew Anandi is the type who did not need this type of request.
He also knew how his family members are and how they let things happen instead of taking strong measures.

Now Anandi is vulnerable with her strongest supporter gone forever.

We should shed tears for Anandi. She will be the real martyr suffering till the end.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Sometimes I feel the modern selfish woman is justified in opting for nuclear family.
Otherwise all the elders will try to dominate her.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Daddu is a man with a great sense of right vs wrong and he has also stood up for what is right, but he has never taken corrective measures.

When J dumped A, Dsa / Singhs not only supported Anandi, but also took corrective measures against J.

Same may not be the case with Shekhars. They will stand with Anandi, but will not take corrective measures against DB or Anoop. Shiv was the only one who could do that, however he too bowed down a lot because of his love for his family.

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So the point now is, with Shiv and Dsa out of A's life (Dsa cannot control A's family life), will Anandi stand up for herself? Not for her kids, not for her husband's honour, not for her father or any other person on street but HERSELF? Will she stand up for herself?

If she sees or feels DB humiliating her, will she give back? For herself?

Or if she sees Anoop violating with her rights, will she fight back?

I do not want to see Anandi starting a life from scratch, if she is thrown out, and make a financial success out of it. That is pointless.

I want to see Anandi standing up for her rights, against various mentalities, traditions and people.

Will she have guts to call a spade a spade? Will she have the guts to take corrective measures and nip the problem in the bud ?

Can she fight for herself, in absence of Shiv and DS?

If that's shown, that will be women empowerment. Otherwise it will be pointless to see, Anandi attaining success outside and suffering at home.

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago