If You Were Anu..What Will You Do?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello Shastrians.😊
After watching yesterday's episode I became confused.😕 What should Anu do now? 😲 Her husband, the love of her life is going away. And this is not for a short time. It is for a while. God knows if he will be back from Dehradaun or not!

If you were in Anu's situation what will you do?.😕

Well. Here is my answer:

If I was Anu. I won't let pride and prejudice come between me and my husband. There is nothing sweet in separating . And I want to be with my beloved man even if he was stubborn , egoistic or foolish. I can't be happy without him. I'll let him win this battle. But I'll make it clear after we become a real couple that he learns how to respect me , and love me more than I do.😳

I think Anu has to ask Rajat to not go away.

So what is your answer friends? Plz share it..😳

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Personaly I would behave the same way !

If I were sure that Rajat still loves me I would the same as you but here, we audience know that Rajat loves her, but Anu doesn't have any clue! He didn't apologize and remember all the crap he said during the wedding !

I understand Anu ! And Rajat is a complete idiot !
He just want to run away instead of facing Anu. Then let him run !! 👎🏼

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Posted: 10 years ago
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i think rajat is bit confused n have no idea wt to do?


so,if i was in anu position i think i wldn't talk to me fr few days n then i wld definitely confront him
abt his trust issue
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Posted: 10 years ago
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if i was anu i wud have done the same thing as anu bcoz after marriage evrything that happens in your life affects your partner too so both have a right to contribute in the decisions that they take but rajat took the decision without asking anu which was wrong
we as viewers know that he thought anu doesn't care but anu doesn't know and she thinks he doesn't want her so he did not bother asking her
but i wud have been a little more friendlier than anu towards anu bcoz after such a huge event and break in their love story everything cannot go back to how it was before all of a sudden so i wud have given him time and being friendly instead of staring at him ad making him uncomfortable but wud expect him to take the first step in the relationship afterall it was his fault he didnot me and there is no relationship without love so since he messed it up he has to mend it too
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Posted: 10 years ago
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anu did the very right thing leaving him for her self respect and heyy he did not apologize. if i was anu i would have done the same thing. but when i come to know that he is leaving me or i should say trying to run away from me because of his guilt, ego and confusion. i would just go and confront to him that i still love him and if he loves me he should not go away from me, he should just come to me say sorry and confess his feelings and then even after my making it so clear he still wants to leave me then i would go and do all sort of draamebaazi in front of the whole family like fainting or falling ill or faking that i got injured or i slipped from the staircase or any thing like that seeing me like this rajat would stop for sure coz he cant see his love getting hurt
but i will make sure that he apologizes becoz it's important so i cannot let him run away, hurt me and win this battle of all emotions that easily
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Anu fully deserves an apology from Rajat. And she was right about what she said to sareen uncle. That their relationship lacks the most important aspect. And that is trust. Rajat was so easily convinced that Anu stole the CD.
Rajat has to apologise.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The point of love is all conquering applies only if it comes from both ends.

Anu is not being stubborn. What is wrong in wanting self respect? Just because Anu married Rajat does not mean that she can be handled like an object and thrown away.. That is what Rajat did.

It is Rajat who is being stubborn and egoistic. Anu made it clear to him that she leaves it upto him to decide what he wants to do with their marriage, make it or break it. Rajat decides to take it as a rejection from Anu.

Ok, even if he justifies what he does by saying that perhaps Anu wants the same i.e stay away from him, he should feel about his mistake atleast in private right? Or is it too much to ask?

Even when alone, he awaits her call and makes no move to atleast tell himself that he was wrong.

Sometimes in marriages love is not enough. If Rajat cannot trust Anu and cannot say sorry for mistakes he makes, Anu is better off without him. Today Anu proved herself right. But imagine if this had prolonged and Anu was still considered 'guilty'.

Or worse, tomorrow, she is accused of something else.. Will Rajat again look on and let her suffer because afterall she will take him back after bending over backwards to prove herself right.

Anu got Rajat his job back.. If Rajat thought that this was not enough proof of Anu's love for him, then he is pretty dense indeed.. Anu did not have to do that. She had proved her innocence the previous day. She could have rest assured been vindicated but she took it upon herself to get him back the job he loved and yet all he said was that perhaps this was Anu's way of ending everything🤪
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well I dont think there is any need for - "If You Were Anu..What Will You Do?" kind of thing because she is right and there is no need of putting our self in her position and judge her.

If you want to create a thread then it should be - "If You Were Rajat..What Will You Do"
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Raichu-

Personaly I would behave the same way !

If I were sure that Rajat still loves me I would the same as you but here, we audience know that Rajat loves her, but Anu doesn't have any clue! He didn't apologize and remember all the crap he said during the wedding !

I understand Anu ! And Rajat is a complete idiot !
He just want to run away instead of facing Anu. Then let him run !! 👎🏼


I didn't think of it this way. I didn't think Anu isn't sure of Rajat's love. Now I understand why is she not willing to compromise. 😊

Thanks for comment Raichu.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shikaDD

i think rajat is bit confused n have no idea wt to do?


so,if i was in anu position i think i wldn't talk to me fr few days n then i wld definitely confront him
abt his trust issue


I agree with you Shikha.😊

This confrontation is much needed. But I know Rajat will find something to blame Anu. I don't know why he is like this.😕

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