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Posted: 10 years ago
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hey friends my mom really reacted in a loud manner watching today's episode and she does'nt know the spoilers, she said now rajat will go to dehradun and then realize his fault but till then his life will be in danger and all that stuff and the only thing we will have in the name of anuraj will be bg saaajnaaa, she said that he will apologize to her on her b'day and 18 jan has a long time to come, but we were really dissappointed with the cold way of rajat to react, i think he is on a guilt trip and he has a tinge of ego also coz he wanted anu to come to him. for now i dont have any idea abt rajat will go or not but mu between anuraj will be cleared for sure!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Today Rajat had actual ego problem
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think they both have ego problem and their attitudes are inappropriate.
1. Rajat stopped her when she was leaving but did not say sorry. That was ego.
2. Anu did not congratulate him upon getting his job back. That was ego.
3. Rajat did not share his transfer news with Anu. That was ego.
4. Anu not trying to stop him; that is ego.

They are just piling up one on top of the other even after so many people counselling them. Thats bigger ego.

They are both not ready for marriage and relationship. Because, where there is ego, there cant be good marriage. If you love someone, and your self respect is hurt, you don't deal with it with ego. But you demand recourse. You can disagree, quarrel and show resentment, but keep the communication going.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishmewell

I think they both have ego problem and their attitudes are inappropriate.

1. Rajat stopped her when she was leaving but did not say sorry. That was ego.
2. Anu did not congratulate him upon getting his job back. That was ego.
3. Rajat did not share his transfer news with Anu. That was ego.
4. Anu not trying to stop him; that is ego.

They are just piling up one on top of the other even after so many people counselling them. Thats bigger ego.

They are both not ready for marriage and relationship. Because, where there is ego, there cant be good marriage. If you love someone, and your self respect is hurt, you don't deal with it with ego. But you demand recourse. You can disagree, quarrel and show resentment, but keep the communication going.


why should anu go to rajat first she left him saying she wants an apology and he has not yet apologized come on yaar its her self respect! but rajat is surely having ego issue
the equation was something like my self respect v/s your ego!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Both are thinking they are right in their own way...in love expectations always creates problem and hurts and that is what is happening... Anu has helped Rajat getting his job back but she was not in his happiness so Rajat assumes she only want to prove their innocence and that is d reason Rajat wants her to come forward and as he said previously to Deviyani that Anu should step forward so he wants that whereas Anu for her self respect is controlling herself and wants Rajat to come forward...
It's my observation that in normal practical life a strong headed person always tend to be Ego so both have that attitude now
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishmewell

I think they both have ego problem and their attitudes are inappropriate.

1. Rajat stopped her when she was leaving but did not say sorry. That was ego.
2. Anu did not congratulate him upon getting his job back. That was ego.
3. Rajat did not share his transfer news with Anu. That was ego.
4. Anu not trying to stop him; that is ego.

They are just piling up one on top of the other even after so many people counselling them. Thats bigger ego.

They are both not ready for marriage and relationship. Because, where there is ego, there cant be good marriage. If you love someone, and your self respect is hurt, you don't deal with it with ego. But you demand recourse. You can disagree, quarrel and show resentment, but keep the communication going.

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they r showing that ego cn result in problem in any relation
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Whatever it is!! Love always wins in the end and that's wat the cvs r showing us but I feel happy that they hav showed the true essence of love with trials and tribulations without any artificial emotion 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorva22


why should anu go to rajat first she left him saying she wants an apology and he has not yet apologized come on yaar its her self respect! but rajat is surely having ego issue
the equation was something like my self respect v/s your ego!


True, Rajat has ego problem.

One can congratulate anybody without emotions or strings attached and walk away without a second dialogue. when they don't, it has to be either jealousy or ego. Which in this case is the latter.

These are 2 different unrelated issues. That's the reason why I said they are both piling up on each other...

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