Forgiving and forgetting....

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Samarth may seem sincere with his apology...but I dont think anyone can forgive and forget all the hardships to this extent and start living with the same person again...
even when some small incident happens in our lives, sometimes it stays with us forever and impacts and changes our behavior and character to some extent...what Shobha has gone through has toughened her and I am not sure sweet words however good they seem will cut through the heart...

And why should the lady be always forgiving and forgetting...we as a society should be able to accept that Samarth cannot move back into that house with Shobha...he can continue to be a father...but should be away from her after all that he did and said...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well Said, Its a decision for Shobha , As a Woman in Society we wish to see that when we get married we keep that TRUST & RESPECT Scale between partners .. When they break they hurt and repeated BREAKING is just not taken ...

Again family kids come upfront after a certain time ...Kids come to the stage where they need their family together, But yes many cases the parents are seperated & the father can come and meet at the days assigned..

Shobha's self respect Shobha's dignity is going to be tested... here forgiving forgetting is something she needs to decide. and that decision is kept her at cross road, Yes she should not do either of them ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you.
What Samarth did to Shobha is not worth an apology he gave. A life with such a person should never be reconsidered.
Shobha still sees her children as her priority and can't see them break down because of their father. Its her decision to go back him or move on.
I'd say, moving on is the best thing. Samarth may behave like a changed person, but his core nature won't change. I hope Samarth's entry will make her realise her true feelings.

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