Originally posted by: shibz
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But evie..I don't think it's about morals/values for Nandini here.. I get the background/upbringing/ideologies & all but I believe Nandini very well understands physical intimacy is part of love.. But she is scared..of course her conscious doesn't approve of it yet.. yes she is not comfortable & she is only 17.. she can take her own sweet time & Manik understands that..he very much respects her thoughts.. he didn't get angry or feel bad when she stopped him last night(of course that was going too far for the momentš) but today all he wanted to do is kiss herš That is his expression of love & she has approved it before.
The tie would be Nandu wanting to go slow & Manik having little patienceš
š¤...let me put it this way...I agree with what you say, that the neck breaking speed scares her and she is not comfortable with it..but here I guess I am highlighting another aspect of their physical relations. An aspect which is an issue too coz we all know how our pasts shape our presents and futures.I believe that Nandini understands the physical part of love, and eventually will embrace it with Manik, its just that she is not very comfortable with it at this stage. Meaning later, she might be totally fine. It can be the pace, or the lack of quality time they have spent together, or her shyness, or her upbringing, or her cautious temperament, or just that its all too new, or too much to take in at this time, there are a lot of factors that this might not seem like a good idea to her.
And let me put it this way, to her the pace seems too fast, she feels they are moving on too quickly...but obviously there are reasons why she feels this way. There is a background, some baggage that has led her to fear the rapidity. Her fear understood, we were just delving into the reasons behind the fear I guess.
And kissing is totally fine with her...this was an aftermath of Manik's attempt at new year's...I guess the policy has been revised and new rules made cause this man can get uncontrollable š!