Sandhya - Why is she mad at Suraj???

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GovindaGovinda

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Posted: 11 years ago

I have been wanting to post this for long time - ever since Suraj and Sandhya got separated

Suraj/Sandhya - ideal couple in everyday - love each other so much - they are two bodies and one soul

Suraj was the main instrument behind Sandhya to become IPS - his love for her is always unconditional - it was love at first site for him with Sandhya and it grew exponentially after marriage

Sandhya grew to love Suraj because of his simple, honest and loving nature - she did not care for him in the beginning - then she started to love him but I do not think she trusted him completely -

Bhabo - the main culprit in this who in the name of family mistreated Sandhya - Sandhya always craved for Bhabo's love, her approval - not sure why she needed her approval

in my opinion, if any woman whose husband loves her the way Suraj loves Sandhya would never care for mother-in-law approval - Sandhya always needed Bhabo's approval

I understand Suraj loves his mom and family - that is most important in his life - this only means Sandhya should respect his family, treat them with respect - this does not mean that she needs his mom's approval

even though Sandhya knew how important is her IPS dream to Suraj, she was ready to throw away all that when Bhabo asked her - several times with out even talking to Suraj

still Suraj figured it out and took necessary measures to make sure Sandhya dream would be fulfilled

Why did Sandhya always take Suraj for granted? his love for granted?

FF several months, Hj happened, Bhabo got shot - Suraj angry at Snadhya - he thinks she was the reason and questioned her love for Bhabo - she walked away after hearing this

my question is:

Is Sandhya mad at him because he questioned her love towards his mother? Why should she get mad? he asked her if she would have done the same if her mother were to be in that situation? That is a normal question to be asked?

why is she mad at that - she was not mad when he questioned her about her job?

why does she think that she loves Bhabo as much as him or more than him? what is she trying to prove?

She never once thought why Suraj is behaving the way he is? she should know him the best still she immediately got angry and walked out -

When Bhabo came and talked to her, she talked about this only - why did she not tell Bhabo that there might be something strong reason behind his behavior

why did she not think this??

She tells Zakir that it is not her ego but 'swabhiman' - bologna - it is her EGO only

If Suraj were to be in her shoe, he would immediately start to analyze the situation and try to figure our why she is behaving

but here Sandhya is not even thinking that there might be something wrong with Suraj or something might have happened to make him behave but NO - she never once thought about it

I never understood what CVs are trying to show here -

so far Cvs are failing to show why Suraj is behaving the way he has been

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Govinda,

I have been telling the same in my previous posts.CV's have changed the theme of the track.The very reason Sandy was accused by RP especially Babasa was she choose duty over family and in the emotional convo between her and Bhabo she clearly mentioned that she accepts all the allegations that she choose duty over family but cant digest the fact that Suraj mentioned that she would not have done what she did if Bhabo was her real mother and she is angry only coz of that.

So CV's through Sandy are telling that Babasa was right and Sandy was wrong here !!! - Amazing indeed by CV's.

So now the theme of the track is who loves bhabo the most.Like mentioned before I wont be surprised if they show Sandy and Bhabo is much stronger than Suraj and Bhabo !!! (Makes no sense but CV's find Bhabo and Sandy jodi getting more TRP's than Surya it seems).

Suraj is clearly sacrificed to glorify Sandy and Bhabo jodi.

I am not sure in what direction CV's are trying to take this track.From recent promos I feel they are taking this in the light hearted Surya tu tu main approach for TRP. Sandy is also shown behaving immaturely and childish with her anger on the wrong issue instead of her actual anger.They seem to be diverting away to Bhabo centeric issue rather than the IPS duty issue.

As a bonus now Ankur is been showing on the negative side to glorify rest of RP.As I have mentioned previously I wont be surprised if Ankur brings a scratch on Bhabo Sandy might break her ties with him.

I am not even sure if justification of Suraj will be even shown at the current pace (they are not even showing the suffering Suraj is going through alone) ,they might divert away showing Surya re-union with the help of Bhabo and Bhabo - Sandy bond going even stronger than before.

Edited by Jaishankar - 11 years ago

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GovindaGovinda

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Posted: 11 years ago

Even though I like to see these cute moments between Suraj/Sandhya, I am beginning to get disgusted at these minds of CVs again - they destroyed Suraj character beyond repair -they never show him suffering because of HJ incidents - they do not show him feeling lonely - nothing -

so Bhabo centric- I am so sick of this TRP business - and those called TRP audience

I want to see Sandhya for once being selfless like Suraj - but no one listens to my opinions -all I can do is either to keep watching to get frustrated or completely quit this show

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: GovindaGovinda
Even though I like to see these cute moments between Suraj/Sandhya, I am beginning to get disgusted at these minds of CVs again - they destroyed Suraj character beyond repair -they never show him suffering because of HJ incidents - they do not show him feeling lonely - nothing -
so Bhabo centric- I am so sick of this TRP business - and those called TRP audience
I want to see Sandhya for once being selfless like Suraj - but no one listens to my opinions -all I can do is either to keep watching to get frustrated or completely quit this show

Well Govinda our voices get fainted when compared to the TRP's .So guess we have to just be patient and hope for the best.My only hope is if they go too far in the wrong side the actor wont take it ,anas has shown his displeasure when his character has gone awry in the past so I am sure he will not accept it hands down after all Suraj character is equally popular and no actor would want his character go down the drain and besides if CV's want to stay top on TRP Suraj cannot be sacrificed completely and I am sure they know that.So I am pinning my hope on that.

Already indications are that this track wont be too long and Sandy will be back with RP and her preggy track might be next.

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Posted: 11 years ago

@Jaishankr - My disappointment in this post HJ track is Bhabo trying to unite Suraj/Sandhya - good that mother always wants children to be happy and together

but who is she kidding? She is the sole reason for the mess in RP home - she is so control freak and so controlling of only one of her children, Suraj, she made him the way he is - weak when it comes to his mom

she kept quiet when Sandhya told her about Suraj accusations/questioning her?

Because Bhabo liked the fact that Suraj loves her more and she is more important to him than his wife. Now she knows that she is the most important one in Suraj life so she is ok if Suraj brings Sandhya back to RP house - she will know that Sandhya will always be second fiddle to her in Suraj life??

Why did Bhabo not tell Sandhya that Suraj loves Sandhya and there is no or should not be competition between them

what kind of message CVs are trying to give here? Sons should abandon their wives for their mothers? I am a mother but will never ever want to do this - I would have condemned my son if he were to do this

I am sure mothers in India love this but it is so sad that our culture becomes this

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Posted: 11 years ago

Valid points gg.. Till now cv's are successful in keeping suraj behaviour as secret/suspense. I feel once they reveal his secret whatever it might be tat wd be end of this track or in other words sandy's ips brain ll start to work to know why suraj behaving like this. Till tat time, we need to ve patience or to enjoy tu tu main main of surya. Afterall its a soap where they ll drag it to a max extent.

They dragged the good for nothing hj track. So dragging now is not a new thing for cv's. Since this track is surya centric, won't complain as it is good to watch them together onscreen

Edited by MS-CaptainCool - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

Nice posts GG, Jai and MS.

I am a big SurYa fan and I never feel either of their love is less than the other. Just their ways of expressing it is different. They are one body and one soul and they behave and expect others to behave with them like that only.

Reg why Sandy is mad and not analyzing Suraj's odd behavior and why Suraj is behaving the way he is - TRPs . I didn't put it for fun it is true. The moment Sandy realize his intentions track will be over remember when earlier Suraj tried to throw Sandy from his life, she always used to be after him that he is behaving odd and that mean behavior is not his. Then she hardly knows him and in the process of falling for him and he used to give their physical side of their marriage as excuse but now the same person who is head over in love with him unable to analyze

Same with Suraj they deliberately not showing his alone scenes or his longing for Sandy but throwing his caring side as crumbs to viewers occasionally so that we don't loose interest completely They will definitely show justification to his behavior *fingers crossed*

I don't feel either of them has EGO If anyone of them has it their marriage wouldn't have lasted this long.

Why you all are feeling bhabho is glorified or bhasan is glorified 😕 I feel she is the same egoistic lady with reduced jealousy towards SurYa. Heart of hearts she is happy that Suraj choose her over Sandy. Now as her ego is satisfied she is leaving no stone unturned to unite them. Remember just before HJ when Sandy made Suraj wear jeans and all the taunts and looks she gave SurYa 😲 Now she became Mahaan

Now a days I stopped analyzing why SurYa are behaving the way they are and just enjoying their recycled scenes with their awesome performances which is more icing on the cake now 😆 Weren't they both looking lovely in black

I read it on FB someone wrote how true the below line is

TRPs make characters characterless 😆

Sorry for my long rant.

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