why is it that vidya.....!!!!

hello bmtdians😛

I just saw last friday;s epi......i was kinda stunned to hear vidya wanting to change becoz sagar ....to be his ideal life partner...y shud she change ...y always is it a women / from poor family / traditional....always expected to change.

why can't sagar just except ther the way she is..fine i agree she sud be educated....if she has to survive in his world but other things.....champagne..to shaking hands to speaking english to her dressing in sari........y is she expected to compromise her values when sagar is not ready to compromise his ideology of his prefect lifepartner.

i agree sagar is giving their relationship one chance & is try his best to accept vidya...but ....i am talking abt the fact that y is vidya asked to go thru a make over .......y is sindoora saying to sagar that vidya cannot change....my arguement is y she has to change wht's wrong in her😡

this is my first thread in bmtd ...please do share ur views!!

cheeers

❤️Kai❤️

kai, you've made a very good point. i agree with you totally. why is it that most of the time, it's the woman who has to make sacrifices and change herself for the man?

why can't the man try to change himself? and in this case of vidya, she has always tried to please her husband so this was already expected from her. but i'm just surprised that sindoora said that. i mean in her marriage, i bet it's aniket who has to adapt to her and not the other way around,😆😆 so why should vidya change for sagar?😕

sagar has always looked upon the village people as the lower class. you think he'll change for vidya? no of cos not. it's vidya who has to adapt to his stinky high society life which sometimes stinks worse than a public toilet.🤢🤢 someone should tell the dude that not all high class people have good morals or are great as he thinks them to be.

look at vidya and sindoora for example. vidya who is uneducated loves her family more, loves her husband more and has far better intentions/morals than sindoora, the educated woman has.😊

great thread kai! this topic is a wonderful discussion topic.👏👏

Originally posted by: jigglypuff726

sagar has always looked upon the village people as the lower class. you think he'll change for vidya? no of cos not. it's vidya who has to adapt to his stinky high society life which sometimes stinks worse than a public toilet.🤢🤢 someone should tell the dude that not all high class people have good morals or are great as he thinks them to be.

yeap leena..even his so called frnds....wht kinda moral or manners do they have..who gave them rite to comment abt vidya.....atleast she doesn't make fun of ppl that too in their on house. Fine she can't read or write but he is far more decent, well mannered & board minded than these so called educated ppl. Wud they except a mentally retarded person as her life partner..wud they have done & gone thru wht vidya did.

y is sagar so much bothered abt pleasing the world.😡..where was this world when he was sick....his whole family lost hope of his recovery....but only vidya took courage..went on her own to treat sagar...& this is what he has to offer her in return

look at vidya and sindoora for example. vidya who is uneducated loves her family more, loves her husband more and has far better intentions/morals than sindoora, the educated woman has.😊

yeap...a person is modern not my his clothes but by his thoughts....for this matter even sindoora is not less than bahanghi....narrow minded person...being a woman she can't understand another woman's problem.

For her property is way precious than her own brother, family or husband.

sagar is finding it difficult to adjust with vidya but how can he forget how difficult it was for vidya..to adjust with sagar when he was sick.....adjusting to uneducated person is way easier than mentally challenged person.

Originally posted by: Kai_Hiwatari

hello bmtdians😛

I just saw last friday;s epi......i was kinda stunned to hear vidya wanting to change becoz sagar ....to be his ideal life partner...y shud she change ...y always is it a women / from poor family / traditional....always expected to change.

why can't sagar just except ther the way she is..fine i agree she sud be educated....if she has to survive in his world but other things.....champagne..to shaking hands to speaking english to her dressing in sari........y is she expected to compromise her values when sagar is not ready to compromise his ideology of his prefect lifepartner.

i agree sagar is giving their relationship one chance & is try his best to accept vidya...but ....i am talking abt the fact that y is vidya asked to go thru a make over .......y is sindoora saying to sagar that vidya cannot change....my arguement is y she has to change wht's wrong in her😡

this is my first thread in bmtd ...please do share ur views!!

cheeers

❤️Kai❤️

I agree..😊

But if Vidya changed like Sagar..😆

It woulld be a cute jodi...😳

Originally posted by: Kai_Hiwatari

hello bmtdians😛

I just saw last friday;s epi......i was kinda stunned to hear vidya wanting to change becoz sagar ....to be his ideal life partner...y shud she change ...y always is it a women / from poor family / traditional....always expected to change.

why can't sagar just except ther the way she is..fine i agree she sud be educated....if she has to survive in his world but other things.....champagne..to shaking hands to speaking english to her dressing in sari........y is she expected to compromise her values when sagar is not ready to compromise his ideology of his prefect lifepartner.

i agree sagar is giving their relationship one chance & is try his best to accept vidya...but ....i am talking abt the fact that y is vidya asked to go thru a make over .......y is sindoora saying to sagar that vidya cannot change....my arguement is y she has to change wht's wrong in her😡

this is my first thread in bmtd ...please do share ur views!!

cheeers

❤️Kai❤️

sagar is driving all of us over the edge he is not worth vidya some people on this frum are right she should hook up with tushar becuz he excepted her just like she was he helped her out so much nad it wasn't like he was low standers he was high but he didn't care he still would of got married to sagar(ye i still like the sv jodi😆but just to say)

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