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Posted: 11 years ago

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I really do not know why I have to explain myself all the time..I already said a few times I do not understand hindi,I watch the episodes but have to wait WU. This time WU was not helpful that's why I said I was very confused and asked for a little explanation. Coz what I saw was Rani touching mangalsutra and asking about sindoor, next she was giving sindoor to Chameli and in the precap Meethi who was stopping Chameli. What I read is :Meethi applies Sindur and tells Rani why this is worn. Rani says that where she get can while Meethi says that wives wear it for their husbands. Rani says Okay and going when Meethi asks where she is going. Rani says that she is going to pray that she gets a husband like her father. Meethi says that Rani is so innocent. And that's why I was confused . I didn't say Rani is lying but I asked is she lying and and that's a huge difference.

Anyways thanks for the explanation because what you said and what I read is quite different.

But If you ask me I really do not appreciate it someone, anyone trying to break someone's marriage no matter if this marriage is good or bad, it is between the couple and only the two of them have to decide whether to divorce or continue to live together. Especially not if someone is doing it like Chameli in in such a vicious way.

She's the one who manipulated with her daughter, blackmailing she'll leave etc. She does not fight for Rani's rights as a heir or to give her a father because Rani already has all of that.. She fights for herself to snatch someone's husband .

And I also think that children should enjoy their childhood, to play, to be happy but not to deal with the relations of elders. She should be happy coz finally she has a father, two mothers, a grannma, she lives in a big house, she goes to school , she has everything to be joyful but she's old enough to understand that Meethi is Akash's wife and her mother can not be equal in everything as Meethi but unmistakably knows who will do whatever she ask.

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dolly

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Stephi
I really do not know why I have to explain myself all the time..I already said a few times I do not understand hindi,I watch the episodes but have to wait WU. This time WU was not helpful that's why I said I was very confused and asked for a little explanation. Coz what I saw was Rani touching mangalsutra and asking about sindoor, next she was giving sindoor to Chameli and in the precap Meethi who was stopping Chameli. What I read is :Meethi applies Sindur and tells Rani why this is worn. Rani says that where she get can while Meethi says that wives wear it for their husbands. Rani says Okay and going when Meethi asks where she is going. Rani says that she is going to pray that she gets a husband like her father. Meethi says that Rani is so innocent. And that's why I was confused . I didn't say Rani is lying but I asked is she lying and and that's a huge difference.
Anyways thanks for the explanation because what you said and what I read is quite different.
But If you ask me I really do not appreciate it someone, anyone trying to break someone's marriage no matter if this marriage is good or bad, it is between the couple and only the two of them have to decide whether to divorce or continue to live together. Especially not if someone is doing it like Chameli in in such a vicious way.
She's the one who manipulated with her daughter, blackmailing she'll leave etc. She does not fight for Rani's rights as a heir or to give her a father because Rani already has all of that.. She fights for herself to snatch someone's husband .
And I also think that children should enjoy their childhood, to play, to be happy but not to deal with the relations of elders. She should be happy coz finally she has a father, two mothers, a grannma, she lives in a big house, she goes to school , she has everything to be joyful but she's old enough to understand that Meethi is Akash's wife and her mother can not be equal in everything as Meethi but unmistakably knows who will do whatever she ask.

stephi dear sorry u misunderstood me. i only replied u & told u wat u asked rest was 4 those ppl who r saying they r hating rani. shes manipulating etc.etc.

abt breaking mrg if chameli is wrong then so were mkta & aksh who did worse than chameli.aksh gatecrashed in BN wid mth-vishnu after their mrg mkta threatened vishnu 2 leave his wife wid in 15 days or else she"ll harm herself. then both mkta & aksh did luv nautunki & pressurised vishnu wid that dumbo mth pushing him 2wards mkat.and it was wen both mth & vishnu didn't want 2 go abck 2 mkta & aksh.i m not saying chameli is doing rite but if shes wrong then so were mkta & aksh so both of them can't complain nor those ppl who supported mkta & aksh by saying that mth & vishnus didn't luv each oder.they luved each oder or not but none of them wanted 2 break the mrg not even mth tho she wanted vishnu 2go back2 mkta which he was refusing 2 do. u r rite that its btn couples if they want 2 continue or divorce but then why it was not said wen mth & vishnu got mrd & they didn't want 2 break their mrg?? why did same ppl who r now hating nandini supported mkta & aksh in trying 2 break mrg & even broke it in the name of so-called true luv??

after these so-called true luv mrgs UT has gone down in terms of both content & trps. real viewers hav rejected it totally. even wen mth -vishnu were mrd trps were still btn 2-2.2 & was in top 20 but after that UT has never gained 2 trps except in 1 week of mth shooting & above 2 during instant phansi track.and during mkta & vishnu sagai preprn & mth-vishnu divorce week trps dipped to 1.8 from prev. week 2,2.

so relationships or mrgs made or done like this r boud 2 break &s hud b broken by any method.bcoz i believe in Gita which said 2 establish morals & ritousness if u've 2 employ "adhrama" its not wrong just like not every lie is bad . i know nandini is doing it not 4 riteousness etc.

but i m all 4 these 2mrgs 2 b broken. if they r broken then it will b gud msg. even in real life such mrgs don't last 4 long.

and ur last para i agree rani shud enjoy but shes not old enough 2 understand that her mother can't b equal 2 mth. havn't u seen 9yr old kids?? i'd seen my cousins growing up in front of me sum of as young that i'd seen them from their birth 2 completion of their studies & getting mrd. Rani can't understand. even wen i luk back 2 my childhood then i think cud i'd thot that who can b equal or not??i think it won't b even understood by teenagers so why this is expected from a 9yr.old?

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Stephi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Thanks again but when I said they can not be equal in everything I thought precisely they can not have the status of married women with the same man. And Rani is old enough to understand that .If I'm not mistaken in the Hindu tradition Sindur is a symbol of a married woman, Rani knows very well that her mother is not married and not so long ago,while she was watching Meethi and Akash together she wished if only her mother can have such a good husband like Akash still not knowing that he is her real father. So some things are pretty clear to her, besides I think she's a very smart girl and she knows a lot more than her peers. That's all. As far as everything else her mother is equal, she lives with them in the same house, wearing a beautiful sari, she has a credit card to be independent, she can pray for the health of her father, she can go to school as her mother, to sit in the car in the same place as Meethi but she can not put a Sindur as his wife simply because she is not. Or she can ?

I like Rani very much and i wish her all happinessas as every child in the world but to grow up into a good person with high moral values she already in this age must know that not all wishes can be fulfilled and that one man can not be married to two women.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Stephi
Thanks again but when I said they can not be equal in everything I thought precisely they can not have the status of married women with the same man. And Rani is old enough to understand that .If I'm not mistaken in the Hindu tradition Sindur is a symbol of a married woman, Rani knows very well that her mother is not married and not so long ago,while she was watching Meethi and Akash together she wished if only her mother can have such a good husband like Akash still not knowing that he is her real father. So some things are pretty clear to her, besides I think she's a very smart girl and she knows a lot more than her peers. That's all. As far as everything else her mother is equal, she lives with them in the same house, wearing a beautiful sari, she has a credit card to be independent, she can pray for the health of her father, she can go to school as her mother, to sit in the car in the same place as Meethi but she can not put a Sindur as his wife simply because she is not. Or she can ?
I like Rani very much and i wish her all happinessas as every child in the world but to grow up into a good person with high moral values she already in this age must know that not all wishes can be fulfilled and that one man can not be married to two women.

stephi i m not saying u r wrong abt equality . i m saying rani doesn't understand this.

yes sindoor is a symbol of mrd woman but not every child knows it.i'd seen many kids asking such quesns from their parents why they wear this.

i don't think rani knew that nandini & aksh r not mrd bcoz she was in brothel where these things r not taught.and thatswhy she asked abt manglasutra & sindoor from mth.and mth didn't tell her mrd woman wear this . she simply said kids mom's wear it 4 their dad.

and if rani just thinks that her parents were mrd b4 thatwhy shes born.shes smart but shes still a kid. and she wanted nandini 2 wear it 2 prolong the life of her father. she doesn't understand deep meanings of these things & that her mom is not mrd so she can't put it .no child @ this age understands.thatswat i m saying.

i don't think rani knew anything abt it & doing it deliberately.

@ bat sindoor its not necessary that oder woman can't put sindoor. i'd seen many women putting sindoor even after legall y separated from their husbands & their husbands remarry & hav kids from oder wives.its not compulsion.i'd seen many mrd Indian women who don't apply sindoor or wear MS.only in villages or backward areas women follow such traditions v.stritcly.

and if any1 knows Hindu scriptures then its not even necessary 2 put sindoor & MS.if u took & heras around fire u' r mrd.sindoor & MS r put later on .sumtimes nxt day b4 gals' departure.

sorry i will clear later on if u do not understand.

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Stephi

@Stephi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Tiny thank you for all your explanations, especially for that talk between Meethi and Rani. Reading the translation I was very confused and a bit chocked . I could never think that Rani is doing something intentionally, that's why I was so impatient and I asked for a little help.

Also Thank you for all other explanations regarding sindur and customs because I really like the Hindu tradition, dance, songs, sari, sindur too😆, the customs during the engagements and wedding and so much more.

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newkq

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

it is not rani's fault...she is doing what a kid does although she talks very mature for a 9 year old...but mistake is meethi's. she is acting like whole burden of rani's happiness is depending on her sacrifices and mahanta.

Rani will be fine if nandini stays at jogi's outhouse and visits often. why does she have to stay in same roof? jogi gave advise and suggestion that nandini can stay at outhouse, then why is meethi not sending her there? nobody wants nandini there including akash, then why does she have to do all this crap.