Originally posted by: elizyscott
It isn't just that she wants to only see the nice side of him. That's the assumption that he has made from her speech. What she said the other day when he came to apologize to her, was she wants to know all of him so she can know the true him, not just one face and then another. She knows he's in pain and when he his she wants so desperately to help him be there for him but he always pushes her away. What is she supposed to make of that? She wants a true partner one that shares everything with her. He knows about her past and her problems but she has no rights on his pain on his problems...wasn't that what they've been fighting about for the last couple of weeks. Now he's made the assumption that the extremes in his attitude are what is driving her away from him when in reality it's the fact that she can't see the entire whole. It's like the blind men that examine the elephant. Each come to their own conclusions based on what part they touched but not one could explain the whole. That's what Aarzoo's experience with Sahir has been like, hot one minute, cold the next, She sees bits and pieces of him but the most important part of him he hides away along with his pain and that is what she really wants to know.
His plan for Aarzoo to admit her feelings for him is going to cost him a lot more than what he thinks and I think a part of him has realized that. He might have been okay with the one time grand gesture, thinking she'd fall quickly but when he came across her actual reasons for not being able to do so he's realized that he's going to have to gain her trust. I'm hoping the real reason why he said he won't tell her he loves her again is because he's realized the real weight of those words.
