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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: redviolet

The basic point here is Saahir is no one to make any type of judgement on anything. He has always been to quick to assume anything. If she infact decided to risk her reputation for her friend it was her personal choice just like most matters are. She did not cause anyone else harm in the process. Who gives anyone else a right to judge someone else's personal matters? And to call her a money-minded and loose character without enough information? I am willing to bet my left kidney had Arzoo done that there would have been ten post out on this forum ready to crucify Arzoo. Its Saahir who always gets excused time and time again.

There was a post out here when Arzoo merely through a phone at Saahir. Saahir is a man three times stronger than Arzoo. He manhandled her thinking she was pregnant with someone else's child and no one dared to make a post. Thus is the nature of this forum. It true on most cases in ifey. A male lead with a dark past almost always gets excused.


I agree with u...I love both Sahir n Aarzoo with their flaws
Loose character...funny world v live in na...
Aarzoo is loose character as per Sahir ,money minded n what not...
But wait a minute isn't he a married man...what right does he have to whatever Aarzoo does...
Yes she interferes in Sahirs life...coz she loves him...does she know he's married?
We do live in a male dominated world...
Zaki is allowed to sleep around n wants a masoom life partner like Aarzoo...
M not defending Aarzoo...she has her flaws too, but that doesn't make Sahir less guilty...
It takes two to tango...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32
I feel like it really doesn't matter whether she stands up for herself or not because in the end, according to the majority of the viewers and other characters in the show, something, somewhere, for some reason will be her fault. 🤢🤔 Totally not acceptable 😭 It's never ever the ML's fault. The ML's behavior is always justified because the FL "doesn't stand up for herself". Very rarely, does another character take stand with or support the FL. It would be one against how many ppl???? 😕 For ex., Zaki's support was very much one-sided to make himself look good. Also, Alvira knew that Arzoo is not really pregnant but she never said anything in front of KA or Anam or Sahir. 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

if sahir gets most of the suport then that again validates that arzoo has been disconnective, thoroughly irrelevant since start, thus the support hasnt been there for her.. its not like we have sworn to support sahir whenver a dra,ma happens, but he is much more relatable and connective than arzoo has been.. they dont even treat arzoo like a human, had they done that before, am sure you wouldnt be complaining



I would except your theory but i have been observing this in love hate stories for a long time. The male always gets the support no matter what happens or how the characterizations. Thats not judgement against anyone on this forum. Its a pattern I have observed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: redviolet



Again I never judged anyone for supporting Saahir. Nor did I clame you supported him because you find him hot? Please dont put words in my mouth. I was claiming the general nature of this forum is that Saahir gets more support as is the case in most love hate stories. Now where is the judgement of people supporting Saahir in that?


it wasn't about you but in general ... as for hot here is what i was referring to

Originally posted by: ilovei

( I am not bashing any of the characters just telling that they both hurt each other equally so it's wrong to take only sahir's side just because he is "HOT"


no more on this from me
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

And one more think I would like to point out... the topic maker said that people support sahir because he is hot... that's a direct dig okay..you just can't say that someone's opinion depends on face value..and in some other post I read that harshad's fan never support arzoo.. please don't drag the actor's name into this ... everybody's opinion is equally important and you are not supposed to disregard any of them openly just because you think this way... and I would like to repeat harshad's name should not be dragged in such discussion because... it is against IF rules .

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Posted: 11 years ago
#36
Just my two cents...Arzoo or any other female lead does not represent all real world women and same is the case with Sahir.
So supporting either should not be equated with what people actually think about real life issues in that realm...shows are highly dramatised anyway!
In forums like this you will see people supporting the character they like...both are fictional so they are free to say what they want to as long as they are not hurting any one and using disrespectful language.

It simply doesn't make sense to judge a forum or comment on it's fairness because the opinions of Some don't match the one you personally hold.

In fact as the characters behaviour oscillates you will find may people jumping sides...many find one character totally unrelatable so they talk from that POV only...

I think we should just live and let live because difference of opinion is good for a discussion..and we should present our own opinion...not judge why others have a particular opinion..



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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: silky_harshad

well they both are lovable as flawed characters.. i personally adore them for that..the problem here is that arzoo's flaws are being projected as her innocence her strength etc and if people point it out the other group replies by blasting sahir 😆

I don't think that they're showing it as Aarzoo's strength.They're doing it to show that they both are flawed which was the basic theme of the story. I remember an interview where Harshad said that Aarzoo also has anger issues and it won't be only the girl who'll bring the change in Sahir but also Aarzoo too would be changed by Sahir,so that way whatever they're showing is justified.I'm the first one to bash Aarzoo when she doesn't react when Sahir talks to her about Shauhar-biwi relations or when she behaves unprofessionally in the office but on the personal level she's free to help anybody and decide whom she wants to explain the situation.Alvira brought her in the house and she trusts her fully so I don't think Sahir has any right now to judge her.
And talking about blasting Sahir...it's normal darling...the beauty of open forums😆But the point here is that Sahir always gets the sympathies coz he has seen betrayal or has a troubled past and Aarzoo is termed as annoying.We should remember that she has had a bitter past too and for once I am loving it. I'm so tired to perfect leads now. Infact I'm happy that Sahir is showing human characteristics like jealousy (won't support him about his pre cap comments though).Any other male dikra would have made sure that Aarzoo marries his brother coz of bade bhai ka farz...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38
this has been dragged too far 🤔 good demo though of how much fun this forum is goanna be 😆
a few points and am outta this.

-> sahir is wrong because he has feelings for aarzoo? lol when did he ever make advances towards her.. she is the one that repeatedly keeps coming towards him. he has done nothing but push her away every time and when he wasnt able to he punished himself. so no you cannot say he is being charecterless and what not.

-> i dont see anyone supporting zaki so its a moot point dragging him into this . everyone has always maintained that zaki is wrong in whatever he is doing since the starting of this triangle drama.

-> aarzoo is flawed and grey just like sahir thats what makes them compatible. no one has a problem with that. the problem is her not being able to accept her mistakes when she knows she is wrong. every time she has apologized be it for the phone throwing or the resignation it was out of need rather than genuine where as sahir has always made amends for his mistakes that being the key difference why he gets the support.

-> man handling a pregnant girl- he did that in a fit of rage and rushed to her immediately to help her even though he was pretty pissed. he held back because he felt he didnt have any rights on her. i dont see how thats wrong. he helped her with the heavy boxes didnt he?

->and lastly as far as male lead getting more followers goes...its more the fault of the cv's and the story line in making the female lead so weak at times that she stops being relatable. thankfully though aarzoo can still be redeemed if they handle her correctly but unsure if they can pull it off or not.

peace out.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39
Last thoughts supporting your favorite character is fine! But dismissing something like violence for your favorite character when you had ridiculed your not so fav character for the same thing is wrong? If Arzoo was wrong in throwing the phone at Saahir than Saahir being a male three times stronger than Arzoo should also be a fault for shoving her! Peace!

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