d thing here is tunnel brigadier first priority is himself,his dreams,his desires,his believes tat his desires/dreams can be fulfiiled only through one weapon called son along with other priorities.becos of he not accepting to move on frm his fixed first priority other priorities were lost n his first priority became his main focus but anjali wants to be his first priority for her tunnel brigadier pops lol.
so i think tunnel brigadier gives conditional love to anjali as pops but anjali wants unconditional love from her pop as he is one of d parent which she feels tat is true love r tat is called love n wants all d love of her parents as love is variable n changes from person to person.
in simple anjali-her father -there is conditional love but anjali wants to feel d unconditional love of a parent which is true love.