Aap hamare hain kaun ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bang on ! Just leave the context aside, but did that question not make sense ?
This is the question that Sahir has been repeatedly asking himself, usko itni takleef kyon ho rahi hai ?
And the expression on Sahir's face when he couldn't answer that question, its not just anger , not frustration but the beginning of realisation that he is in love with her and that is why he is so hurt.

This question had to be asked , the sooner the better. Sahir can not have double standards, he can not expect her to answer him and yet he will not reveal anything that is personal . Agar Aarzoo ko uske had main rehna hai to Sahir ko bhi uske had mein rehna chahiye.

I think Aarzoo was more hurt by him not sharing his pain, not letting her take care of him when he hurt his hand, her direct reaction to that is punishing herself not physically but in a way she knows, emotionally , knowing fully well that her pain hurts him as well.

This is starting to get complicated now. I was expecting a depressing episode, but somehow the SaAz scene was perfect.

Wake up both of you ... wake up and smell the coffee 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi you took the words right out of my mouth. The forum going crazy blaming arzoo for keeping mum but why should she confide in sum1 who decides what her hadd is when it concerns him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes sahir can not have double standards but so cant arzoo ... what applies to him applies to her too ... she told him he is no body and in same breath also asks him he should read his eyes ... why should he? A person who has no right over you ... who is nobody should not be asked to understand you or read your eyes ... one one hand she expect him to understand her on the other she tells him he has no right ... that is double standards!
If Arzoo has ever bothered understanding him she would try and understand why he is not sharing his pain ... pain is not something one can share easily specially one they have hidden for so long ... she just loves to judge

Also Arzoo has never shared any of her pain with Sahir ... he always came to know through other sources ... alvira told him about sarfraz not arzoo ... arzoo never ever shared anything with him ... so saying he has double standards is weird

When sahir support arzoo, defends her character she does not get angry or tells him to mind his own business ... but today when he didn't believe arzoo can do something like this despite everything he saw ... and still asks her to tell him the truth ... she does nothing but give a bhashan ... tells him its none of your business yet expect him to look in her eyes and that she expected him to atleast understand her ... why the expectation arzoo? why say you expected him to atleast understand you? Double standards?

I already said i agree with her telling him he has no right to ask ... but then she has no right to expect either!!! Same yardstick applies to both! Mey karoun tou ras leela wo kare tou character dheela can't work
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearly14

Bang on ! Just leave the context aside, but did that question not make sense ?

This is the question that Sahir has been repeatedly asking himself, usko itni takleef kyon ho rahi hai ?
And the expression on Sahir's face when he couldn't answer that question, its not just anger , not frustration but the beginning of realisation that he is in love with her and that is why he is so hurt.

This question had to be asked , the sooner the better. Sahir can not have double standards, he can not expect her to answer him and yet he will not reveal anything that is personal . Agar Aarzoo ko uske had main rehna hai to Sahir ko bhi uske had mein rehna chahiye.

I think Aarzoo was more hurt by him not sharing his pain, not letting her take care of him when he hurt his hand, her direct reaction to that is punishing herself not physically but in a way she knows, emotionally , knowing fully well that her pain hurts him as well.

This is starting to get complicated now. I was expecting a depressing episode, but somehow the SaAz scene was perfect.

Wake up both of you ... wake up and smell the coffee 😊

Hands down made a lot of sense dear 😉 and this was something i wanted her to ask him way long back 😆...Parking aside the way she answered the way she questioned him back the way she expected him to read her eyes and all those SENTI dialogues 😆...
aap hain kaun and aap ne kis haq se hamara haath pakda was JUST CLASSIC ...👏
Hooked up for tomorrow's episode and eagerly waiting to see how they unfold further
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree that she has double standards , I am saying that both of them are the same. They both expect the other person to share the pain, but are not willing to do so themselves.
Sahir has stood up for her many times in the past, but I think he is a gentleman and he would have done it for anybody not just Aarzoo, on the other hand Aarzoo is shown to be immature. I am digressing, my point is that both of them are very very insecure.

The trust factor is not there yet. They both need to sit down and think ... really hard ... for "There is nothing more deceptive than an obvious fact"
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for the post Pearly! I will not be able to see the episode for a few hours yet and the forum posts were making me suicidal 😊 ...I think I won't jump from the balcony just yet...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearly14

I agree that she has double standards , I am saying that both of them are the same. They both expect the other person to share the pain, but are not willing to do so themselves.

Sahir has stood up for her many times in the past, but I think he is a gentleman and he would have done it for anybody not just Aarzoo, on the other hand Aarzoo is shown to be immature. I am digressing, my point is that both of them are very very insecure.

The trust factor is not there yet. They both need to sit down and think ... really hard ... for "There is nothing more deceptive than an obvious fact"


I am all ready to take arzoo as a flawed character and understand her too just like Sahir ... my problem with her starts only when her flaws and mistakes are shown as right things to do ... that is when i can't relate to her or like her ... Sahir is flawed, his flaws are shown as flaws so he becomes that much more relateable and intriguing because u see sahir question himself all the time, even realizing his mistakes and making amends ... u hardly ever see arzoo questioning herself let alone realize her mistakes and try to make amens, instead she is always judging and blaming others!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The issue is we cannot leave the context aside...
Sahir was trying to help her...he had already stated that he had himself defended her character before and she goes and keeps quiet for this kind of accusation...he was asking her because he wanted to know why she didn't defend herself!

See Arzoo claims to love Sahir...is she able to tell him...irrespective of his behaviour she loves him right...she admitted it to herself...forget telling him she cannot even be sensitive to his expressions..read his desperation to believe she is right...!

Then Sahir has so many reasons to be quiet..he cannot even tell himself that he loves her...but still he cares enough to ask her why she kept quiet...he had no reason to ask her..why should he care? But he did..

Don't those signs mean anything?

And if it's unfair of him to ask her...why is she telling herself she is doing all this for him?? If she has the right to think about him without telling him what she feels and have expectations that he would read her eyes...then how can she ask only him this question?? It works both ways!

He could have asked her...why should I trust you implicitly...who are you to me...he didn't!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: xara123

Hi you took the words right out of my mouth. The forum going crazy blaming arzoo for keeping mum but why should she confide in sum1 who decides what her hadd is when it concerns him.


That someone has defended her character before and she thanked him then! She didn't ask this question then...he was always someone who didn't share his pain...not just with her with anyone...if she could be grateful then...why this question now??

She has realise she loves him...shouldn't she see his care even more now?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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And today if she had listened to what sahir was saying "mey sach janna chahta hoon" she wouldn't be telling him agar aap meri ankhoun mey sach nahi dkeh saktey tou ... What he said meant that he does not believe what happened outside as the truth ... if he had why would he be wanting to know truth from her? But arzoo dosrey ki sunti kab hai 😆
If she had just told him its none of your business and u r no body ...she would be right ... but what she said afterwards contradicted her own statement


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