Has this occurred to you too ?

This is not true.

Many times sex is a very intimate and tender moment shared between two people. There is genuine understanding and compassion. Sometimes sex is something fun and exciting between two people. It may not be tender or emotional. But the two people share a comfort level so they can seek fun and pleasure together.

I think what you are referring to is frustration sex. It is not exclusive to men. Women also engage in frustration sex. People react to stress in different ways. Some people go running. Some people shop. Some people binge eat. Some people resort to sex to calm down and release their tension. It is not healthy if you take your partner for granted and as some sort of punching bag to vent your frustrations. However, sometimes two people can work it out to remove the negatives and avoid sex that uses one another.

There is also hate sex, breakup sex that both men and women indulge in. Sometimes people are just so angry or hurt by each other that the only way they can release those emotions is to have sex. The human mind sometimes works in mysterious ways. Some things we feel and do make absolutely no sense at all. A lot of people actually do end up having serious fights or breakups that lead to sex. They can't explain why they did it because rationally they wanted just the opposite. Maybe someday psychologists can truly explain this.

Originally posted by: jason-derulo

I have always heard that sex is a medium always resorted to by men to remove their frustrations !

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

This is not true.

Many times sex is a very intimate and tender moment shared between two people. There is genuine understanding and compassion. Sometimes sex is something fun and exciting between two people. It may not be tender or emotional. But the two people share a comfort level so they can seek fun and pleasure together.

But of course!

I think what you are referring to is frustration sex. It is not exclusive to men. Women also engage in frustration sex. People react to stress in different ways. Some people go running. Some people shop. Some people binge eat. Some people resort to sex to calm down and release their tension. It is not healthy if you take your partner for granted and as some sort of punching bag to vent your frustrations. However, sometimes two people can work it out to remove the negatives and avoid sex that uses one another.

@ bold - that is exactly what i feel is wrong . Must sex be a commodity ? That we use to fend off negative feelings ? If a person is psychologically frustrated , musn't he solicit a remedy/therapy ... instead of a volatile [seeming] solution .

There is also hate sex, breakup sex that both men and women indulge in. Sometimes people are just so angry or hurt by each other that the only way they can release those emotions is to have sex. The human mind sometimes works in mysterious ways. Some things we feel and do make absolutely no sense at all. A lot of people actually do end up having serious fights or breakups that lead to sex. They can't explain why they did it because rationally they wanted just the opposite. Maybe someday psychologists can truly explain this.

^^ These ideas seem so abstract , and only fictitiously existent . I could think of physical violence to end a fight . But sex ? 😕