The Fearsome MIL

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Who all here have a "great" relationship with her MIL?

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pallavi25

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: kat6k
I hope with our experience and understanding of underlying causes, we become better MILs who wecome DILs in their family with open arms and affection and redefine the inlaw relation

When my son grows up and gets married I will be the nicest, kindest MIL to my bahu...if Im still alive that is!

But he will probably marry a firangi so it wont really matter anyway...😆

The place where I worked before, an American MIL was talking abt her DIL to me...,"You know, My DIL puts up with so much from my son! She has a little kid to look after but hes always messing up his house, never bothering to pick up his wet towels or dirty clothes from the floor! "

I was like this 😲 I asked her if I could record her words and play it in India to all MILs there...an MIL supporting her DIL and criticizing her son! 😲 Desi MILs will die of mortification!😆

Whatever bad things may exist here in the west, there is one basic thing we can learn from western women, and that is Unity and comradeship between women.

Women sympathize with each other, listen to each other's problems and try to help in any way they can.