Why confrontationist attitude? - Page 2

Gehna was forced to agree to marry Niranjan because of Nandu.

ds did not tell gehna that nandu look niranjan as his father .it is gehna who remember that niranjan giving wrist watch to nandu hence gehna thought niranjan can become father of nandu , ds had stop talking about gehna marriage when there was refusal from gehha side .it is only gehna who herself think that for nandu and bhairvi loss of father can be compassionate by niranjan but she cant forget basant

Jagya and Ganga did not force Gehna only DS bullied her when JaGan did ?

It may not be exactly force but sort of pressure. DS is too much in a hurry while Gehna was not.
Any adult needs space to think instead of listening to someone every day and Nandu being used to bring them together.
A woman does not need a man to live a good life. Gehna has property, kids and a career. She should have felt the need for a man rather than someone constantly drilling it into her ears. If she decides to live a widow's life, nothing wrong in it. Sometimes women feel freedom in widowhood. A free hand to discipline the kids, take some decisions etc.

intially ds trying to convince gehna to accept proposal but when gehna said if u want my happiness then stop talking about my marriage then ds totally stop talking to gehna about marriage .it is when after nandu pleading gehna to stop niranjan leaving house then gehna remember bonding between niranjan and nandu .so gehna by herself went to ds room and told to ds I know nandu and bhairvi need father love but I cant look niranjan as my husband , and moreover when niranjan was leaving bh it is only nandu pleading gehna to stop him , ds not did not pleade gehna to stop niranjan from leaving and neither ds herself stop niranjan .when gehna refuse for marriage it no where look ds forcing gehna for marriage

another thing when gehna said that I dont want to nandu dependent on niranjan then ds say to gehna ok

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It would have been better if the marriage took place without the villagers being brought into the picture.

Why to show that showdown between them? Unnecessary drama.

As for Nandu's obsession with Niranjan, it was also a forced track. Nandu seems to be an understanding boy and he wont behave as if he lost everything when Niranjan left. His support in the form of Jagya is always there. Infact Jagya and Ganga are so supportive of Nandu. Nandu's sudden attachment to Niranjan implies that he is not thinking about Jagya bhaisa who was always there for him in the past and who will be there for him in the future too.

I think unless anandi give dose to jaitsar villager these villager keep talking like this .may be anandi come to jaitsar to support gehna marriage

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I think unless anandi give dose to jaitsar villager these villager keep talking like this .may be anandi come to jaitsar to support gehna marriage

if Anandi would be in Jaitsar she would be first one to bully Gehna 😆Anandi is expert in this

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

It may not be exactly force but sort of pressure. DS is too much in a hurry while Gehna was not.
Any adult needs space to think instead of listening to someone every day and Nandu being used to bring them together.
A woman does not need a man to live a good life. Gehna has property, kids and a career. She should have felt the need for a man rather than someone constantly drilling it into her ears. Itf she decides to live a widow's life, nothing wrong in it. Sometimes women feel freedom in widowhood. A free hand to discipline the kids, take some decisions etc.