Happiness - Page 2

I think Happiness is like a Gust............our defult feel is Sadness....some people keep that happiness always with them...some try to keep....Make our mind happy first...then we can give/spread happiness others too...😃

What is happiness to you ? -- If I can enjoy the small things in life i will happy, If others are happy with me then i feel too, and I found happiness in family, work, relationships, nature or a pet,friends, to name just a few...

is it more normal to be unhappy ? --Not realy...

Why we tend to remember sad moments more than happy times? --I think from sadness we learn something.........so learning things cant forget easly..😛😊

what is more important for happiness to love or to be loved? -- Both. 😊

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Thanks every one for response .. really enjoy reading everone's perseption about Happiness😊

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

majority of people are unhappy or atleast percieve themselves unhappy .. is it more normal to be unhappy ? 😊

i think they love themselves more tha n anyone / anything else. occasional bursts of unhappiness on a normal day is okay, but being unhappy all the time is not normal.

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

what is more important for happiness to love or to be loved?

It is important to love. Over 90% of the times, it will be returned and you'll be loved in ample.. Love completes me and is prime ingredient of my happiness. I have met bitter people in RL who cannot love anyone more than themselves. Even their kids are secondary to them. I would be very unhappy if I were that kind of a person. Happiness to me is to love and cherish.

nicely said ..... you'll be loved in ample if you love ..😊

but by this definition one would expect love in return too ?

as you give an example of people who love to themselves not to others .. if only to love is important than it shouldn't be a matter with whom they love .. either to others or to themselves untill unless "To be loved" become compulsory part of it. cause such people ultimately wouldnt' be love by others at some point .

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Happiness is something which comes from within.

There are happy and sad times in everyone's life and it is part of life. As long as we learn to accept them and cherish them for what they are we definitely can have smile on our face 😊.

Negative people bring others down along with themself 😔.

Even though one could be loved by everyone but for some reason if there is no self love they will feel unhappy, not content and miserable. In that process will make others around them miserable too. My 2 cents 😳

very nice post as usual Varsha didi 😊

I think to define happiness is certainly a very difficult thing .

My question is .. if it is something from within than the outer stimulus shouldn't affect it or have minimal effects .. what you say is it true or not ?

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

very nice response Gauri 😊

How would you differentiate satisfaction of desires with happiness . to have someone to love is satisfaction of one desire .. to be loved another satisfaction .

as I replied Cutes in detail I am not including people who are by any means need medical attention 😆

because I hardly see any one who are in perfect level of peace /satisfaction /happiness

Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

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What is happiness to you ?😊

Every human being's every act every moment is towards attaining happiness!!!

The things that make us happy keep on changing!!! What is real happiness is a tough thing and definetly its not something which is materialistic!!!But there are some things which give us temporary happiness

like making dear ones happy by our acts

like following our ideals and much more...

very good response Myth

However you said happiness is not something materialistic..

one servey report is here for show show something different

https://www.economist.com/world/international/displaystory.cf m?story_id=9475891

would love your comments on it 😊

Originally posted by: Lovers Ka Love

majority of people are unhappy or atleast percieve themselves unhappy .. is it more normal to be unhappy ?

tO be unhappy all the times is just like a car with petrOl... and it is just standing in garrage... same thing fOr a persOn alsO...

Thanks for response ... .. like your eg😆

Originally posted by: Believe

What is happiness to you ? -- If I can enjoy the small things in life i will happy, If others are happy with me then i feel too, and I found happiness in family, work, relationships, nature or a pet,friends, to name just a few...

is it more normal to be unhappy ? --Not realy...

Why we tend to remember sad moments more than happy times? --I think from sadness we learn something.........so learning things cant forget easly..😛😊

what is more important for happiness to love or to be loved? -- Both. 😊

Originally posted by: Believe

I think Happiness is like a Gust............our defult feel is Sadness....some people keep that happiness always with them...some try to keep....Make our mind happy first...then we can give/spread happiness others too...😃

Thanks Vinu .. .. different response😊

this questions come up in my mind several time.. our body tend to maintain a balance...homeostasis.. ideal situation for body to be in workng condition ..

so if I apply the same rule on brain .. so what should be the point of homeostasis for brain .. peace/happiness/ satisfaction or unrest of anykind .. cause if we are satified in every sense our thought process would be forzen ..which may not be an ideal situation for brain ..so m still wondering ..what is our default condition at higher level😆